i was lead on by a guy. i liked this guy he told me how he felt but in the end when i finally got the courage to ask him out he said no (i asked him out the nest day online) and he said because he still likes his ex what should i do? he told that he loved me and all this other stuff and in the end i get turned down. plz help me.
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disappointed.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheTeenGirl answered Saturday April 2 2005, 3:53 am: The next time he says anything, or even talks to you, tell him hes a jerk and he needs to just talk to his ex girlfriend instead of sitting here telling you things that aren't true, and you don't play that. You need to show him that you won't tolerate his crap by not talking to him, and when he starts getting into, "but I love you" just say, "grow up, and save it for your ex." Please do not make the common mistake of believe him again, and replay everything that just happened.
Miss_Lily answered Saturday April 2 2005, 1:18 am: It is time for you to grieve, move on and get over him. Obviously he doesn't know what love is. If he still likes his ex, then he had no business leading you on and telling you that he loved you. He is really confused right now, and that is not the kind of guy that you need to start a relationship with. Let him know that you don't appreciate being led on, and that you don't like it when people say things to you that they don't mean or that they don't have any understanding of. Then, direct your attention to someone that is more worthy of your attention. [ Miss_Lily's advice column | Ask Miss_Lily A Question ]
Enade answered Saturday April 2 2005, 1:04 am: well, the fact is... if he really LOVES you and still LIKES his ex why is not going out with you? think about it. [ Enade's advice column | Ask Enade A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday April 2 2005, 12:34 am: Actually he did you a favor. If he still has feeling's for the ex let him get over that first.
Rebound type relationships usually don't work out very well.He would just be using you to get over her. Understand what I mean? Sure hope so!
He must think a lot of you to do that. So remain friends as you are now and maybe once he's over the ex HE will ask you out. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
gp4l answered Friday April 1 2005, 11:46 pm: sweetie that is a typical guy for you dont even sweat it... you need a man not a little boy cause all they do is play little kid games... you deserve a man that wants you and only you if a guy is pressed about another girl then let him be pressed about her and leave him alone because you dont want no dude that wants someone else other than you ,you want someone that is all about you...so as hard as it may be forget about him you dont need no guy to cap your head up and lie to you. you need honesty and obviously he was bullshittin with you from you start so walk away and know that your the better one and obviously hes not on your level yet hes still playing little kid games because its only the people who are not mature that feel they need to cap up peoples heads and lie to others..look at it this way why would you wanna waste all your time and love on someone who would not give you there time and love back... so remember that you stronger and smarter than you think..you have the strenght to overcome your feelings...i hope my advice helped!! [ gp4l's advice column | Ask gp4l A Question ]
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