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i dont like my life
my family doesnt pay attention to me at all... its all about my perfect sisters... i used to wear one of my sisters clothes (bc i dont have any) and my mom was gonna buy me some clothes but she gave the money to my sister bc i ruined my sisters clothes and like my parents dont do crap for me im not tryin to be selfish but what should i do?
sorry for the writing I RATE 5'S!
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Well, i would understand that your mom gave the money to your sister because you ruined her clothes, but other than that, i would recamend you sit down with your mom and dad tell them how you feel, maybe they have a good explanation. Im sure your parents love you, dont think anyless.
Lovely.
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Like everyone says, talk to them. Just tell them "its seems like you have been giving more attention to my sisters latley, i know you are proud of them, but i have been feeling really left out!" hopefully they should understand. hope i helped!
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well, you should really talk to an adult that you fell comfertable with and tell them how you feel.then (if it's not one of your parents) have that person talk to your parents about it. or you could talk to your parents about how you feel.
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you should talk to the parent that you are closer to and tell them how you feel regected and if they dont pay attention to u then give them the silient treatment and if that still dosen't work sleep over your friends house for a couple of days and see if they want to pay attention to you then. Hope I helped.
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Don't ever apologize for writing and asking for help. That is what most of us are here for, to give you advice to help you out.
The only suggestion I have is to talk to your parent's. If you are closer to one parent over the other, try talking to them first. Alone and in private. Let them know how you are feeling. Express to them your emotions and feelings as clear and as articulate as possible. Avoid whining or raising your voice. When you speak calmly too people, they take in more of the conversation. Let your parent know tha you feel excluded and left out in some ways. Explain to them that you feel as if they don't pay enough attention to you and you want to know why. Parents are human too, and most often, they don't realize that the way they are acting is hurting one of their children. Your parent's would never do anything to hurt you intentionally. Talking to them is the only thing that will fix this problem.
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Ask them what the deal is.Maybe they aren't seeing what they are doing.
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well i suggest give your family the silent treatment, theyll feel bad and start doing tings for you. it allways works! hope i helped!
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aww thats so sad. Well i know you probably dont want to hear this, but you should probably try talking to your parents and tell them how you feel rejected. Dont give up after one try of talking to them, keep metioning it.
just a hint.. if you cry while you tell them, most of the time it helps, because they feel more sorry for you.. sorry i couldnt give better advice, but i think thats the best
good luck!
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You should talk to your parents alone. Tell them that you want more attention than what i sbeing given to you. If you feel that they are only putting all of their focus on your 2 perfect sisters and you think that it isn't right, then you should speak up and tell them. I think that if you get through them enough for them to understand where you're coming from in all of this, then they together will work hard to make a change in their behavior. I hope I helped!
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Talk to your parents. Tell them that you would like new clothes. Tell them that you are feeling a little left out. Parents are usually understanding for things like that. If that doesn't work, ignore them for a little while and after a while they might get the hint. xO ali
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ok. since your family doesnt pay attention to you, find some cool friends to hang out with, you can always depend on them. if your parents dont do stuff for you, dont do stuff for them, thats not how a family is supposed to work.
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I think you should call a "group or family meeting" and tell them ALL how you feel and tell your family that its bothering you and it hurts your feelings, my family used to do that to me until they realzed it when i spoke to them about it. Be sure to include in your conversation that you feel like your not part of the family or whatnot. ~alexandra
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