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help... tomorrow im starting high skool. i have been dreading this for so long. My skool is enourmos, it has 3 floors and i dont no where ANY of my classes are. i have no friends in my 1st or 2nd class. omg this is the scarriet day of my life. help me.. what should i do
thanx

Dont stress... just relax... its ok if u dont have friends in sum of ur classes u can always make sum... ur probably not the only one that doesnt know where any of ur classes... so dont worry... and im pretty sure its ok to show up a little late the first ... 3 floors thats nothing... theres a highschool in my area that has 3 buildings... everyone else is in the same position... if they can do it so can u !!!

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what are some good sites that allow u to have a free photo album besides photobucket.com and picturetrail.com? i really need to kno so i can check them out.
thanks i rate high.
Manda

www.hometown.aol.com

its not really a photo thing... but a lotta people put thier pics up on it... & its really simple to use... if u need Help Hollah at me

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hi does any1 like no how to get natrual highlights by not acually dying ur hair and stuff...please help me out thx

Lemon juice... put it in ur hair and sit in the sun....

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Ok, im 15 and I have alot of wetness under my arms. I wear deoderant, but it dosen't stop it. There isn't any smell or anything, but I have these big 'pit stains' and it sucks cause I can't raise my arms in fear that someone would see. Dose anyone know of a deoderant or something to use that will stop this?!?

Well it soundz like you have hyper hydrosis which is caused by genetics... when you have this condition ur palms, da soles of ur feet and ur under arms are constantly dripping wet... This Happens when ur sweat controlling nerves work more than they are supposed... And when u sweat like this theres nothing deodarant or antiperspirants can do... What you can do is go to the Dermatologist and they can inject botox in in ur underarms... that'll fix ur problem... however this only lasts for a year... so its needs to be done every year... Another choice u have is a Sympathectomy... This is a surgical procedure where the surgeons will cut the nerves in ur under arms so they dont send the messege to your sweat glands to work more than they should... this procedure has sum short term side effects which are costly so talk to a doctor and find out whats best for you... what u can do in the meantime is use underarm pads which can be sewn into ur clothes... u can find them at fabric stores...



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Hey...thanks for the advice and u know what I will keep my child.Its not really fair to her knowing that her mother gave her up and not having her real parents.I actually know how it feels cuz i was abandoned then put into foster homes then into an adoption agency and well i hate my parents both for giving me up.It really sucks not knowing ur real parents and not living with ur real parents and well i dont want my child goin through the same thing so Im gonna keep her and raise her the best i can.her father is supporting her and so is our families so i think i can do it.anyways thanks again.

Your Welcome... if u need to talk feel free to IM me... :)

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I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.

Desperate for my life back and confused!!

Well it soundz like u learned ur lesson... but do you really wanna give sumthing up that belongs to u... what r u gonna do if u miss the child once its gone... try to get it baQ... this is a child not a toi... what if your mom had u when she was 15 & she had given u up... how wud u feel about her...? Do u want ur child to feel this way about u... i think u should keep the child... but its ur decision...

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I've been thinking of growing a mustache and goatee.
I was just wondering though.....do girls like that or is it generally a turn-off?

Most girls do like facial hair... but it really depends on the girl... and whether facial hair will suit ur face or not... try it and see how it makes u feel... you'll never know till u try it

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my friends parents didnt save up money for her to go to college and they tell her that she cant live away from home and has to go to community college or the one nearby even tho she wants to go away - shes smart tho, like she gets good grades and stuff just not high enuf to get a large scholarship and i feel bad bcuz she doesnt have much options and i do ~ is there any way to help?

well what she can do is get a job and start saving up... by the time shes 18 if she has enuff money to support herself she can go to college... if not she can go to a community college for a couple of years than transfer to a university by the time she can support herself... community colleges arent all that badd :)

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ok, my boyfriend dumped me. but i have no idia why. he told me that he just didnt want a girl friend.. but i know thats not the reason. ive herd that way to many times before. i cant stop thinking about it. his name is all over my binder in sharpie.. i dont no what to do. im lost. it seems like there are no guys on the earth but him. does anyone know any ways to get my mind off him, or get over him?

First... get a new binder... and try not to think about him... try chillen with the girls and doing stuff that u enjoy that doesnt involve him...

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my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do?

Its not ok... it does happen to a lotta PEOPLE not just girls... guys too... but that doesnt mean that its ok... u should go to therapy... it's supposed to help a LOT

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I live in Orlando, Fl., dose anyone know a good place to get your hair dyed (unnatural colors ex. blue, purple, etc.) or any good hair dye products that can be found in stores.

Go to Sallys beauty supply... u can find almost ANY hair color...

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Ok well See i may have changed i dont know but im really confused of who i am. SOme of my friends want me to go back to my gurlie gurl fun normal self and some want me to stay my sorta Skater type self?! I want to g0 back and i dont ? I dont know! Im so confused ! Please help me!!!

Signed
*Confused~~

Dont worry about what other people want u to be... be who u wanna be... who u feel comfortable with... ur tru friends will accept u no matter what

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if you stop drinking soft drinks, will that help you lose weight

YES!!!! my doctor told me that if you drink soda everyday u could gain a pound every week

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okay, this is going to sound weird i think but i just wanted to see how ppl would react -

a lot of times when i feel like i've overeaten, i throw up but i NEVER stick my finger down my throat, so obviously it's only when i've eaten too much....it just makes me feel less grossed out...and i'm perfectly fine - trust me! i'm not just saying that because "i don't realize what i'm doing" - i kno a lot about eating disorders and i've never lost any weight from doing this, and it's not something i'm obsessed with after every bit of food that enters my mouth -- i just wanted to kno if nebody else did this or thinks that it's still unhealthy even tho i KNOW i don't have a problem - once again, i'm not just saying that! lol

Yeah its normal... it happens to me too

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How can I keep my eyeshadow on all day? It's powder eyeshadow that I love but it always fades away during the day. I don't want to keep reapplying it. Any tips so my eyeshadow stays on longer?

apply foundation or a concealer under it

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hey..! what are some good sights to get a welcome sign....scroll bar....cursor...and other stuff for your profile? thanx!

hey maybe if u tell me what u like i can make u a welcome sign... IM me... for the cursors and scroll bar try

http://members.migente.com/Cyndys_Codes4u

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Hey im 14 years old and i dont really know good tips on doing makeup. Anyone know anything?? Give me some tips. Love yahz ~ xoxx

Dont use too much... try matchin ur eye shadow with ur clothes... but make sure the color or the shadow goes with ur skin tone.. eye liner on the top and bottom makes every girl look really pretty in my opinion...

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do guys prefer blondes or brunettes?

Im pakistani... my people usually dont come in blonde... but anyway... it depends on the guy... but i dont think most guys choose girls by their hair color... sum may... but i doubt that most would...

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i had sex like a few months ago...well ive gotten my period since..and its been on a regular schedual but this month it hasnt come...i havent got it!! im freaking out!! it usually comes at the verrrry end of every month n goes into the begining of the new month but this month is hasnt!! =( could i be pregnant since ive already had my period about 2-3 times since ive had sex?? =\

You could be pregnant... but most likely u didnt get ur period cuz u were stressin over being pregnant... u can get ur period while ur pregnant so its best to take a pregnancy test...

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ok, im 17 and what do you do when your mom and best freind both hate the guy you are "seeing" and wont even give him a chance? but they dont even know how we are around each other and how we care about each other?

Ignore them... i hate it when people try to judge sum1 without knowing them... do the same thing to their friends and when they ask y... be like now u know how it feels... sumtimes people dont truly understand how wrong they are untill they are on the other side

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