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Im Confused? ((Dont kno what SUB 2 put this in))
Ok well See i may have changed i dont know but im really confused of who i am. SOme of my friends want me to go back to my gurlie gurl fun normal self and some want me to stay my sorta Skater type self?! I want to g0 back and i dont ? I dont know! Im so confused ! Please help me!!!
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*Confused~~
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OK! You're the only one who can make the descision... Do you like yourself better as a gurlie girl or as a skater? You can also mix things up a bit like wear a mini-skirt in skater (punk) colors...
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xxAdviceGirlxx
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This pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but only you can decide that. I say to just go with the flow foR now... no one says you have to be EITHER giRlie oR "skateR". SomewheRe in the middle is just fine!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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u can be both u know. hang out and skate sum days and be a gurly gurl with ur gurly friends other days.. but u reallie shud decide which one is you. it duzent matter wut thay say or think.. its who u r. r u a fun gerlie gerl or a skater chic?? u need 2 do wuts in ur heart and not do it cuz ur friends want u to.
Xo HoPe i HeLpEd oX
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Dont worry about what other people want u to be... be who u wanna be... who u feel comfortable with... ur tru friends will accept u no matter what
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Be your own person and merge the two together. If they are true friends they will accept you no matter what.
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Skate in a dress and High Heels. ??
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okay be a prep who skateboards or just dress different every other day... Everyone else is going to tell you to be yourself, and their smart, so i guess just do that...
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Sweetie, sweetie, sweetie...You don't need to just be one "type" of girl. It's so funny but there are times that I go out and I wear sweatpants and a wife beater and look like an absolute bum. Other times I go out and look like this little preppy girl with a turtleneck sleevless shirt and kahki pants and nice brown boots. Then you have the other times that I go out wearing tight jeans and a halter top with huge chunky sandals and my make up all wild. Be yourself. Wear what you feel, day by day. Don't let your friends tell you who to be or what to wear. They should like you for you. Do what you want, make YOURSELF happy. Switch it up if you're not sure what you want to do. Good Luck. *Melissa*
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i had the same problem. if your friends cant accept you for who you are or how you dress or w/e.. then maybe they're not good friends..? this happened to me and i ended up losing alot of friends. its ok though cuz i was being who i was and doing what i liked. just do what you feel is best. you shouldnt have to change just to make your friends happy.
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I had that same problem!! I was a skater type of person. But then I saw other people as like girly girls and I wanted to be like that so I changed. I like this way a whole lot better and people seem to like me better like this too!!..So if you want to go back to being a girly girl then do it. If you don't like it after you tried it and stuff after a while just go back to skater =)
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*you shouldn't have to change for your friends. they should be happy with the way you are. you be who you want to be- if you liked your girlie self better, then go with that. if you liked sk8r, well you get what i'm saying. just be yourself and don't worry about what your friends think*
*.jessica.*
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TO: *Confused~~
just be yourself...be who you want to be...if your frends are reall good then theyll stick with ya no matter how ya are...stick wit watebe style youll feel most comfortable in and dont let anything anyone says/thinks get to ya...i told this to the person before ya and im telling ya too coz thahs all ya gotta do..frends will stick wit ya no matter wat so be troo to YOU and find out who your real frends are and who arent..ya noe?
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mwahahahaha... you can never hear this enough on this website. BE YOURSELF. whoopee. and now back to the fundamentals of kindergarden. SHARE.
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well.... this is hard if you don't know what u wnat to be. how much do u like skating. and how much do u like bein a girly gurl? if you truly love both. then try and intergrate them. you'll figure it out it just takes some concentration.
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