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All my friends have had a boyfriend before except me. I really want one, but there is no one that seems right for me. A few guys have asked me out, but i have refused. I am more obsessed with school than guys, but sometimes i wonder if i should spend more time trying to get a boyfriend. I also find that most boys i was attracted to had been my friends. I am not sure why that is. Maybe because i knew them so well?
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I think you are right about why you're attracted to friends. They do make the best boyfriends.
I don't think you should let it worry you to much that you don't have a boyfriend yet. When the time is right for you, or the right one comes along is soon enough. :)
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Ok, so I've really liked this guy for 3 years but I've never talked to him. *Everytime I have it's been like my friend (she has known him all her life) talking to him and me just kinda standing there. And that was about 2 years ago* How would you just like start talking to him or what would I say? I know the most obvious answer is to start talking to him when my friend does but they dont talk really anymore. Please help.
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Maybe your friend that knows him could at least give you some ideas as to what his interests are? That may be the place to start. Then you'll just have to figure out how to bring it up. Good luck. :)
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Well my b/d is on the 22nd of may and im not sure what do to.. have a disco will cost to much for my parents right now.. i hate sleepovers at my house they're so boring.. i want a party so people will come and celebrate with me, mum wont have a party at home becuase of the mess, i want a cheap party with lots of people but like what? I wont exactly go to like a play centre like um where kids go and have there parties becuase im turning 14 lol... so any ideas? (link)
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How about at a park or outside? Offer to clean up the mess afterwards. :)
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okay this guy im going out with is so shy! i can never get him to talk... lol.. any ideas!!?? (link)
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Ask him questions that require more than just a yes or no answer. Or ask him for his opinion on various things. You'll hit on a topic he's passionate about sooner or later. Once he get's used to talking to you, he may open up more.
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My life is getting increasingly worse the past few weeks. There's people in my life who know me like the back of their hand and understand me, and others that don't. Sometimes I get so frustrated I can't get my point out. It's in my head, obviously, but I can't seem to tell the other person what's on my mind. It frustrates me because now it seems I have a hard time expressing myself. I want to tell people how I feel! (link)
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I have that problem too. Whenever it is something really important I write it. Either give them the written letter or use it as a reference. Either way will work. This doesn't work for just chatty conversation among friends, but if you need to discuss something real important to you, give it a try.
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i have a mole on my cheek... should i get it removed or keep it? and if i do wanna gte it removed how can i approach my mom with the idea... about 2 years ago i told her i wanted it removed and she said we'll think about it... but im really afraid to ask... any ideas?!?!!? please help! (link)
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Simply ask her if she's ever thought any more about it. You know how mothers are...probably forgot! :)
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if you have sex (and your a girl) and you have a physical. you know what the look down there so see if everything is alright. can see tell just from looking that you have had sex? and how (link)
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She may suspect but can't know for sure. She will ask you about it as she would any girl your age. Doesn't mean she knows anything. Doctors do have to keep your talks with them confidential. So if you have any questions about sex this is a good time to ask them. Make mom wait in waiting room and ask away. :)
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I was scalded by my chicken pot pie.
What is the best way to heal a burnt toung? (link)
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Ouch! Get a glass of ice water and stick your tongue in it. :)
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Okay, so one of my friends is having a B-Day party on Friday. She's inviting a bunch of people. She claims that she is my BFF, and she loves me as a friend so much. The problem is that whenever i go to her parties, she ignores me and hangs around with her other friends, and NEVER talks to me. Should i go ? (link)
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Sure you should. You and her know you are best friends. Knowing that, she gives attention to those who she doesn't hang around with often.Probably thinking that you understand this. Tell her how you feel, but don't make a big issue of it. She can't ignore the others who came to the party. Help her out keeping them entertained, it's a big job.:)
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ok, here's the story: i liked this guy (let's call him Bob) and my friend likes (or liked) this other guy (let's call him Bill). well, we told each other during spring break about who we liked. and we promised not to tell. and neither of us did.
But now i don't like Bob and i think she still likes Bill, because it's really obvious (she flirts with him and stuff), but now that i say i don't like Bob, she acts like she doens't like Bill and if i tell her it's really obvious, she threatens to say that i still like Bob to one of the school's blabbermouths.
i know she still likes Bill and i'm getting sick of agreeing that she doesn't like him.
(by the way, we're only in junior high) (link)
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Just start changing the subject when she tell's you she doesn't like Bill. I don't know why she finds it so important but she must, so just ignore the subject for now. :)
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Alright i have a few friends that are awesome to hang out with and everything but now they are telling me that they cut...not always but once in a while i guess i was too scared to really ask...and now i dont know what to do...i dont want to make it serious because i dont want one of my friends to hate me...but they might just call me stupid and stuff because i never dont anything like that. i'm very scared and i dont know what to do. if you can please help me because i dont know if i can handle seeing them tomorrow without breaking down in tears because i'm so scared. Thank you so much. (link)
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Don't bring it up and certainly don't do it. It is the stupidest thing I have heard of. If they do it now and then they probably think it is cool to do or something. They are wrong.
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I dont know what to do. My dad lives in Georgia, and I live in Mass., with my mom. Ive been thinking about how much i miss my dad, and how i want to live with him. But, I dont want to leave my mom and my friends here. How should i bring this up, and what should i do?! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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Summer is coming up. Why don't you go for a nice long visit and see weather or not you can live without your life in Mass.? Good way to find out and not permenant! :)
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I met a wonderful man one month ago. We were dating happily for 2 weeks when all of a sudden his ex-girlfriend now wants him back. They have 2 children together. He is now not sure what to do, he doesn't think she will ever commit, but he thinks he needs to try for the kids. He phones me every night and at the moment we are just friends. Do you think I stand a chance at keeping this man, and any advice on how I can keep him. Do you think I should be bold and tell him that I want him and that I would be the best thing for him ? He does really like me. (link)
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Since he and the ex have children together, she will always be in the picture. I would remain friends until HE knows for certain that it is over with her. If you do you're just asking to get hurt.Until he makes that desicion for himself I wouldn't say anything. If he decides to steer clear of her, then go ahead and let your feeling be known. :)
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hi, i am going to the prom this year and I going by my slef with a couple of freinds.I dont know what to do i mean to feel if i dont get chance dance any guy i know i can ask or something. i like this guy he say he dance with me but i htink he forget its ok keep remineding him that he promise me? or let him figure out his self? (link)
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Once you get to the dance wait a little while. If he doesn't ask you, just go up to him and say, 'how about that dance you promised me' with a smile. :)
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I am soo confused I cant figure it out...how would you know if ur bi or straight bc i thought i was straight but now im trying to find out bc i dont think its wrong to be bi and theirs nothing wrong w kissing another girl to me that is so please answer back ill rate also (link)
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Assume you are still straight. You can think it is okay for girls to kiss without that making you bi. If you want to be the one doing the kissing you are. If you just think it is okay for girls to kiss, you aren't.Hope I didn't confuse you even more. :)
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Ok here it goes. Me and my bff have been bestfriends for a little over a year. Yes we have our fights and such but one of us apologizes and we get over it. Well the other day i was having a crappy day and kind of took it out on her because usually i can trust her to not take it to the extreme or freak out. Well later on i had realized what i did and apologized for it and she went off saying i take her for granted and im selfish and all these other things. Well we didnt talk for the rest of the day and for most of today. But then she randomly IMed me like nothing had happend and like she hadnt said anything. I read her online journal and she said that she wasnt going to apologize because she didnt do or say anything wrong. But i think she did. maybe not as much what she said but how she said it. I dont know if i should tell her how i feel and talk with her about it risking her getting mad about it. or should i just hold it in and forget about it?
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Just forget it. It isn't worth fighting over. :)
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I am desperate to get my ex-boyfriend back. He doesn't want to get back together because we fight alot. I will do anything. How can I get him back? (link)
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If you can cure what it is you fight about, do that first. If he still doesn't want to get together you'll have to accept his decision. :)
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Ok, well i have this guy friend who like's me alot but i don't like him the same way alot of the time he is all over me and when i tell him to get off he dosn't i don't know what to do cause im wanting to be his friend but not more than that but he dosn't feel the same and i don't know what to do anymore...please help me (link)
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You just tell him very firmly. I want to be your friend and nothing more. Nothing. And if you don't keep you hands to yourself I'm not going to see you ever again. If he keeps it up, do just that. :)
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i met this girl t the beginning of the school year at a football game. she goes to the other jr high in our district. i havent hung out with her in forever, but lately we have been getting back in touch. she always tells me on the phone about how much she likes me and wants to see me. she said she'd make out with me or anything i want from her. she also said she would go out with me if i went to her school. i really like this girl and i know she has a thing for me. the seperate schools are the problem. what should i do? (link)
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You see her when you can. Maybe you can get your parents or someone to drop you off at the movies or something now and then. Or at each others houses. You can be really good friends until you are able to drive and go visit her on your own. I know that is down the road (but not far!) but by then you will be really great friends, and can make it more if you want to. :)
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I'm going to camp in the summer for the first time in my life. (I'm 14) I've known my friends for 3 years and they've never known me without makeout. I don't use alot but a little bit of eyeliner makes a hugeee difference! Anyways, I don't know what I should do because I don't want my friends to see me makeup-less...I mean, with makeup, I look "decent" but without, you won't even recognize me on the street. I look horrible! Please don't say..your friends should love you for you..I'm very self concious about myself and I really want to know what to do. Thanks in advance-I rate! (link)
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I nobody can bring makeup you will all be in the same boat. Don't worry about it, since there isn't much you'll be able to do about it anyway. :)
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