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a few days ago i was with my guy friend and we were fooling around.. is it possible for me to get pregnant when he got cum on his fingers and then fingers me? and im sorry if its such a dumb question

It is possible, although obviously not as likely as if you'd had unprotected sex. If you're worried then it's probably a good idea to take a pregnancy test just to be of the safe side.

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i am 14 female and i havent had my period yet so does that mean i can not masterbate? also can you have sex even if you havent had your period yet? thanks alot

Periods have nothing to do with masturbation. You can start masturbating whenever you want, you might not even want to - and that's that fine too.

It is possible to have sex without starting your period, but it's probably not a good idea because periods are a sign that your body is physically capable of sex.

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well my best friend was like a really good girl that did NOTHING wrong... and we've been friends for a longg time and our parnents are good friends too. but lately she has been getting in trouble and getting grounded..she smoke cigarettes and done weed sometimes and we got in a fight about that because im TOTALLY against it people have asked me to try it and im like nope..never! and my parents asked why she is always in trouble and im like well..because she tried weed and smoked some cigarettes..and theyre like SHE DID WHAT? theyre all worried that i did it and stuff and theyre like you better not do that! since im over at her housel ike 24/7. now my parents and my whole family think i do it or whatever just because she did it! she doesnt even really do it anymore and i always yell at her because its soo bad for her! i dont want my parents to think i am a druggie because im not i would never do that and ive told them that but i dont think they believe me!! what should i do?..i cant stop hanging out with my friend because i would die without her and plus i only really hangout with her and my other friend! ahh this is horrible!! :[


ive never tried ciggs or weed or anything in my entire life!

I'm in/was in a similar situation. My lifelong best friend went from being a good girl to a girl who goes out doing drugs with all these new people.

Unlike you, my parents didn't assume that because she did it, I did it. My parents are pretty laid back and I've always been honest and open with them, so they trust me and know I'm not stupid enough to do drugs. I've experimented with weed and I used to smoke but they know I don't do that anymore.

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but at the end of the day you might have to take a few steps back from this friendship. Very recently I asked someone on this website for advice about my situation with my best friend and she told me exactly the same thing. I'm not saying you need to completely cut off the friendship, but I think you should cool it off and give your parents a chance to trust you.

At the end of the day, she's still your friend and you should be there for her but if it gets to the point where you're sacrificing your parent's trust and causing problems with your family for her, then you need to think about getting out of that friendship.

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This is a odd question, but when I'm on my period or the week and a half before I feel alot more sexual urges then I do when I'm not. What is wrong or up with that?

Your cycle will affect your homones, especially when you're going through puberty. It's normal to feel hornier at different times in your cycle and it's nothing to worry about.

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What is a budgie? I`ve seen like 5 questions on here asking about them!

A budgie, or budgerigar is a small Australian parakeet (which is a type of bird) usually light green with black and yellow markings - although they can be bred in other colours - which are often kept as pets.

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why do guys lead on girls one day then the next flirting with 3 or 4 other ones. i really thought this guy and i had something. i truly did.

The truth is that teenage guys are all over the place. They're all balls of raging hormones and they just don't know what to do with them, teenage guys will flirt with anything that comes along and that's the truth. Girls mature earlier than guys, which is why a lot of guys our age are much less mature than we are. What you have to remember is that you're teenagers, the it's very unlikely that you'll end up together forever.

I know that when you're going out with someone when you're young you think that it's forever. When I was 13 I had this boyfriend who I was completely obsessed with and we were planning our wedding and stuff. I genuinely thought it was really going to happen. Of course we split up after a few months and he went off with another girl, then another and another. It's just the way it goes.

Eventually you'll find a decent guy who is maturer than the guy you're talking about, just enjoy being young for now.

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Okay. This guy. We have been talking alot lately. Late into the night. I left for a week, and when I cam back, he moved on. A whole new group of friends and everything. I dont know. I thought we were going to hit it off, we were flirting like crazy. Now we havent talked at all, and he is flirting with many other girls. I should of seen it earlier, he was really interested in me, now it seems he is isnt. Now i am interested in him, I guess because i cant have him now. What do I do?

If he moved on that quickly then he's obviously not worth it or he would still be talking and flirting with you. There really is no point hanging around waiting for a guy you haven't even started a relationship with. Surely you're worth more than that.

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im trying to become more fit, and i need ideas on how to loose weight on my thight, butt, and loose my love handles. im 4"11' and weigh 98 pounds how do i loose weight??!!

Why on Earth would you want to lose weight? You weigh 98 pounds. I'm 14, 5"0', I weigh 114 pounds and I'm no where near 'fat', if anything I'm pretty skinny. You're weight is pretty ideal, if not a little low. If you want to get fitter and tone up then I reccomend http://www.toneteen.com, it has different exercises for different parts of of the body. But I don't think you need to lose weight, I think you probably just need to tone up a little, in which case that website is ideal.

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In March, I got my period on the 18th

In April, I got it on the 22nd

In May I got it n the 20th

Now in June i got it on the 22nd

Am i considered regular yet?? If so, how long is my cycle??

I would say that you were pretty much regular and your cycle is normal, around 28-30 days long.

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i heard that you can get carpal tunnel from masturbating. is this true?

Of course you can't! Nor can you go blind or any of the other rumours you've heard.

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will you know when you break your hymen? or will it just kinda happen? Im not sexually active so I wanted to know in advance.

A lot of girls break their hymen through the use of tampons, in which case you won't notice. If it breaks in any other way then it may bleed a little, which will tell you that you've broken it. But it doesn't always bleed and if that's the case then you might not be able to tell.

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I was going pee and I saw a spot on my penis and it feels like a little pebble in is my penis what is it?

It could be anything, you need to get it checked out by your doctor because it could be serious. It might turn out to be nothing but it's better to be on the safe side.

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ive heard that if you can wear a tampon comfortably it means that your body is ready for sex is that true?

It may mean that your body can take a penis more comfortably but it doesn't always mean that you're ready. You're not ready until both your body and mind feel ready.

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My ex- boyfriend went out with one of my friends while he was going out with me. Now i'm going out with one of his friends becasue i really like him and i needed to get over my ex- boyfriend. Now that me and his friend go out his is mad at me.
Is that fair i mean he went out with her while he was going out with me and now that i go out with his friend he is mad at me is thta wrong or fair???

Your ex has absolutely no right to be mad at you. He cheated on you with your friend, you never cheated on him. What he did is ten times worse. Okay, so maybe you should have waited until you'd got over your ex before you starting dating someone else but that's no excuse for him to be mad at you when he did something much worse.

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TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome). - yeah what is that?? and what exactly happens?? lol
x3

TSS is a rare but potentially fatal disease. Infection can occur via the skin {cuts, burns etc} but most people associate it with the use of tampons as they are the most common cause. Symptons vary from person to person but they include a rash - which usually occurs early in the illness - that resembles sunburn, low blood pressure and confusion which can lead to comas or multi-organ failure.

A women wearing a tampon who gets any of these symptons should remove the tampon immediately and get medical help.

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this is most likely the wrong category but whatever i was just wondering can you be gay if you dont want to.

Of course you can. A lot of the time when people first realise that they are homosexual, they wish they weren't. But you should always accept who you are and learn to love yourself no matter what.

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When do you consider your relationship a 'serious relationship?' How do you know when it is serious?

What do you do if you're being fingered but nothings happening/you don't orgasm?

When you get fingered, are you usually kissing/making out or just sitting there or something? How are you usually sitting/laying when he does? And him?

How long was it into your relationship/past relationships until you let him finger you?

And I still can't tell if he has a boner or not? Like when we are making out and he's on top of me he'll like put his dick right near my vagina, but we're clothed of course, and I feel something, but idk?

I'd say it was serious after a about six months or if we'd talked about it or fallen in love. But it all depends on the relationship. Some people don't consider things to be serious until they've moved in with each other whereas others consider it serious after a month.

Guide their hands to the right places and show them what feels good. If it's a girl then she usually knows what to do but guys aren't geniuses, they haven't got a vagina, they're not going to know where to go and what to do.

I've never been fingered while I've been in a relationship, but I don't think there's a set time when you should do it. It all depends on the relationship and how comfortable you are with each other. You might find that you're happy to do it a few weeks in, but you might find that it's months before it happens.

The thing you can feel is probably his erection. But if you're really not sure then ask him!

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im going away soon for vacation and i never been on a plane before this will be my first time. i dont know what to expect here are some questions i would like to get answered

should i be scared
alot of people say to chew gum should i?
willl i get sick?
what should i do to keep busy?

It's really nothing to worry about. The only bits you might get a bit scared in are take off and when you get back down.

As you go up, your ears may pop due to the air pressure and chewing gum does help. So if you want to do that then go ahead, but if it's likely to make you feel sick then it's probably best if you don't.

You might get sick, but most people don't. If you do then don't worry about it, it'll get cleaned up and you'll know in future.

To keep busy I'd take some magazines or a book and read, listen to music, or play a travel game. There isn't really much to do on a plane but I usually stock up with loads of magazines and an MP3 player/walkman and wait.

Good luck :]

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ok soo i see alot of people with hxc what does that mean?
thanks

It means 'hardcore'. It's usually used by people who aren't in the least bit hardcore.

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Hello. I was hoping someone could help me find some really good websites where I'd be able to find nice nose rings. I don't just want any kind at all. I'm looking for a really nice 14 k. White Gold nose ring, that is 18 gauge. I would like it to have a diamond that is 2mm. in size on it. Everytime I've ordered a nose ring the diamond has always been 1.5 mm. which is the standard size, but for me I think that's too small. I want people to be able to see my nose ring a little bit atleast. The one I have in now is the one that has been in ever since I got it pierced, and the size is 2mm. However, it's not White Gold. If anyone can, please find me some good sites. If anyone has a really nice nose ring they've gotten, feel free to let me know about it and where you got it from. I've already looked at tons of websites, and I'm having a hard time finding nice White Gold ones that have a 2mm. size diamond. It also has to be 18 gauge, and if possible I don't want it to cost more than 50 dollars. If it's a little more that's fine because I have the money. I appreciate any help I can get. I forgot to say also that I want a NOSE SCREW. That's the type of nose ring I have in right now. I won't use any other kind of nose ring. Just nose screws. I'm so sorry this question is so long! Thank you so very much!!!!

I've been doing some searching for you and I've managed to find some that you might like.

http://www.bodycandy.com/cgi-bin/category/precious_gem

There are white gold ones with 2mm diamonds there but they are 20 gauge and the diamonds are different colours.

http://www.bizrate.com/bodyjewelry/products__keyword--nose%20rings.html

There are also some here but I think that a lot of them are nose bones rather than screws. But you might want to take a look at them.

http://shopping.msn.com/results/shp/?bCatId=5121,av=3320-4571074,av=2025-121636

I think those ones best fit your description.

I hope you find what you're looking for :]

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