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guys...
why do guys lead on girls one day then the next flirting with 3 or 4 other ones. i really thought this guy and i had something. i truly did.
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Because the guy in question was an ass. They could very well all be like that, but try to not give up hope, supposedly some of them grow up eventually... :) <3
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There are many reasons:
A) Most of the time we dont know we are flirting when we are.
B) The world we know it has been taken over by 4$$h01e$ so when a guy is just being nice, you women mistake his nice behavior for flirting.
C) Guys have what i call women ADD. We are like hey how ya doing.... oh look at the one over there, or the one over there.
D) The universal truths that: All guys are @$$holes and all women secretly hate each other.
E) OUR(the guy) philosophy that "why have one when you can have many"
F) The real reason for this is obvious. The said guy is trying to keep his options open. Now what i mean by this is that if he hit soley on the first girl other girls would be turned away easily, but if he pays attention to many girls then he has all his options open, thus providing the best situation for the said guy.
now wasnt that an insiteful moment in the mind of a guy ( me ).
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Don't take it personally. Guys often don't give as much into a relationship as girls, and they don't think it's as serious. Move on and don't worry about him. Hope I helped.
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The guy you choose, was obviously a player. you need to take your time. get used to getting hurt because its going to happen until you find the right one.
Good Luck
Ashley
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well, lets just say that it honestly depends on where the guy's head is at that point in his life. i would say that it depends on the guy- but thats not always true. my guy of over a year used to be exactly the same before we met each other- but he hasnt been like that at all sincewe've been together. we've got something real, and i guess you just have to keep lookin. dont worry- youll find it when you least expect it- and that will make it all the more magical.
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Its just how guys act. Not every guy but the majority of them. They think its great && that it doesnt hurt the girl. They lead girls on by flriting with them the entire day then going to someone else. If he tries to flirt with you again tell him you have something to do. Kind rude but they really need to experience what they do to girls.
hope i helped
kim-
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because guys are SO RETARDED! hunny, i feel your pain.
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Because to them, the thrill is in the chase.
Once they have got you, the thrill is gone.
So, keep on the run.
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Boys are stupid. =) Find someone better. He's out there somwhere.
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Once you find out, please tell me too!
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The truth is that teenage guys are all over the place. They're all balls of raging hormones and they just don't know what to do with them, teenage guys will flirt with anything that comes along and that's the truth. Girls mature earlier than guys, which is why a lot of guys our age are much less mature than we are. What you have to remember is that you're teenagers, the it's very unlikely that you'll end up together forever.
I know that when you're going out with someone when you're young you think that it's forever. When I was 13 I had this boyfriend who I was completely obsessed with and we were planning our wedding and stuff. I genuinely thought it was really going to happen. Of course we split up after a few months and he went off with another girl, then another and another. It's just the way it goes.
Eventually you'll find a decent guy who is maturer than the guy you're talking about, just enjoy being young for now.
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