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Ok well i had sex a while ago. I didnt bleed and it was my first time. He wasnt small!! But i was talking to my friend and she said that horse back riding can break it. And i ride horses alot!! Her mom also said like if i was little that falling on a bike bar might have broke it too. I was just wondering even if one of them did pop it would i still bleed. I dont know just tell me something and thanks!!!
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Yes they can break in those instances. Even if not they don't all bleed a whole lot. Depends on the person. :)
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alright so my boyfriend and i started having sex; we've been together awhile and i completely trust him. We're 17.. still too young for children. I know, we should be using protection but we aren't and i was wondering if there is anyway for me to get birth control without having to tell me mother? She's overprotective and thinks that sex before college is a huge "no no." Do you think i should try talking to her about it? Should i tell her that yes, i have been having sex? It would be the more responsible thing but i know she would never let me and my boyfriend be alone or go anywhere together anymore. Help, Please.. (link)
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You can use condoms. There is an over the counter birth control called Encare that is a vaginal suppository of sorts. It melts and is sort of like the foam. It works very well if used properly and isn't very expensive. I think there are 12 in a package. :)
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My Friend has a problem but shes to embaressed to aske it on here.. she gets dirreah ALOT like 3 times a day. and she doesnt know whats rong with her and sometimes she hardly eats and still its shootin out of her like theres no tomorrow... i dont know how to help her i have even googled it... but if you could help that would be great thanks (link)
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She needs to tell her mom and then go see a doctor. She could have irritable bowel syndrome, or any number of other ailments that could be taken care of with the right med or diet. She shouldn't have to live with constant diarrhea. Tell her to see a doctor. :)
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ok so the other day i gave this guy head...and every since then my throat has been hurting SOO bad! its been like 4 days...but i'm not sure if i'm just sick or if its from that, because i don't actually feel sick at all. is it normal for that to happen after you do that? (link)
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My guess is you are just having a sore throat. It is not caused by anything you did. :)
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I have a dresser,bed, a bookshelf that's attached to my wall and a desk. My furniture is like paper wood color and I really really hate it. I was wondering if I should throw away my nancy drew and crappy books like that, but my mom won't let me, what should I do. My closet doesn't have room for my shoes either. I don't know what to do. If I put my magazines on my books shelf I have over 50 fashion mag. my dad said my bookshelf will have a breakdown.Please Help I rate really high for any answer that helps! (link)
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Most furniture can be painted whatever colors you like. Along with the walls if they are not papered. In my daughters room we painted it all white. Got smaller cans of bright yellow, blue, green and red. Got a paint brush and just flung the colored paint on the walls. It was kind of neat. Fun to do too.
At Dollar General stores (or whatever you have in your area like that), they have all kinds of
stacking metal baskets or colored plastic milk crate things that stack one on top the others. Maybe you could get several and use one for shoes, one for magazines etc. Stack them in your closet or just anywhere. They are cheap.
Don't throw away your books. Pass them on to a cousin or sister. If all else fails donate them to the library.
That's all I have to offer. Hope you find something in here you can use. :)
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ok...so i've been wanting to get this puppy for SOO LONG! i'm fed up with my mom saying no and yelling at me for it. How are some ways i could get my mom to let me get this dog? I know how to take care of it because i take better care of my cousins dog than he does...but my mom doesnt let me do anything. i do everything for her. i take care of my cat, sister, i clean the house. i let her go out on weekends with her boyfriend while i have to stay home and watch my sister. i compromise with her. i do everything for her and she cant even let me get this dog! how could i get her to get it? (link)
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Tell her you take care of her pet for her (sister), so she should let you get one of your own (dog). NO, don't do that. She will get mad I'm sure of it.
I would suggest that you prove you could take care of it, but seems you are already proving that. What are her objections exactly? Maybe she can't budget money for dog food etc. Vet bills are as bad as people bills if it should get sick.
Maybe if you are old enough to get a job babysitting or something and set aside a little money for care and feeding of a dog, she would reconsider. Ask her about that and see what she has to say. :)
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i am so sad because my dog just got run over by my neighboor like 2 hours ago! she was my best friend and her name is raz and i cant but just think she is going to be gone forever i will never be able to see her again! i am amuzed that this happend!:`( please help me try and get over this i need tons of HELP PLEASE HELP ME!! write back as soon as you can please! (link)
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I'm sorry to hear about Raz. Just cry tons of tears...it will get easier as the days go by. You will always miss her because dogs are really good friends. Wish I could make it easier for you but its just something you have to go through.
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My Golden Retriever named Katie is 13 going on 14, i havent gone through a pet dieing experince my question is there any way to prepare myself in case my dog dies anytime soon? Katie's my First Dog and i love her sooooooo Much i would hate it if she died this Year Month Week Day
Can You Please Help Me Prepare for the Sadest Day of my Life???!?!??!?!?!?
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I wish you could prepare for something like that but you just can't. Its gonna be a terrible day when it happens and you will be upset. Just be prepared for that. She seems to have had a good long life so far. She could hang in for a while longer too. So, I wouldn't dwell on in to much until the day comes. :)
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all through middle school i had like 3 good friends. then i went to highschool... and there's a lot more people. i made new friends. so what... right? well my new friends are kind of the "fast" crowd and i wont do everything they do and they're cool with that. i hang out w/ them a lot during school because none of my old friends are in any of my classes. i still hang out with my old friends on weekends, and call them all the time, and talk to them at school when i can. i eat lunch w/ them about half the time. but they get mad at me sometimes and get all snappy for no reason. and purposefully make snide remarks about my other friends. if i tell a funny story or something about something i did with my other friends, they get all mad "oh you were with them friday night." i mean really, i'm not their propery. my other friends dont like my old friends that much either, but when i ask them to stop talking bad they do. my old friends wont. how do i make them understand that i'm not going to ditch them? (link)
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I guess you'll just have to prove it over time. I think you're probably right thinking they are jealous. You might feel the same if they brought someone new into the group who you didn't like. They will get over it one of these days, until then maybe don't even mention anything fun you do with the other group. Just keep them separate. :)
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first of all, sorry this is so long, but its a big problem...im only thirteen, which, to my mom, is too young to have a boyfriend. the problem is i HAVE a boyfriend and he's my first and he lives in another city far from where i live. and in a few weeks, hes coming to my city and i really want to go out with him somewhere, but first, my mom would have to find out that i'm dating him. she always tells me that i can tell her, but i just kno that she wont let me. i met him on the internet which is even worse. anyways, how can i talk to her and explain this to her in a way that hopefully, she will let me stay with him? also, would it be better if he introduced himself instead of me introducing him? (link)
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Okay. First, you aren't really "dating" him. You are just talking to him online and you happen to like him. So as far as that goes you are doing nothing against moms wishes. Unless she doesnt want you talking to people online.
She probably wouldn't have a problem with you being friends, and maybe even meeting him when he comes to town. Especially if he is a friend of your cousins. You will only be friends because you honestly cannot date someone who is never where you are.
I think once you meet then you should be the one doing the introducing. Just because he is a friend of your cousins doesn't mean you are safe to meet him alone. Don't do that. Have a friend with you in a public place. Maybe even your mom. :)
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Ok so I used to like this guy. Then I got to know him better. He was a total jerk. Now I don't like him anymore, but still I feel really weird around him and I kind of shrink back. Do you think I still like him subconsciously or sumthin? by the way I'm 14f
sorry if this sounds stupid and petty and selfcentered but I really need to know!!!
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Just stay clear away from him if he makes you feel weird. Its probably just because you don't like him anymore. :)
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hi my name is jess im 13 and there is this kid who stalks me. He callc be 10 times or even somtimes he wont give up until i pick up. Then when i go into the grove (which is a place everyone hangs out) he follows me around and it scares me. What can i do to get him away from me?
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First of all tell your parents. Tell your friends too and tell them not to leave you alone when you go out. Let this guy know that you will call the police if he doesn't back off and stop following you everywhere. Don't be nice about it.
Get mean! :)
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Im going to the movies with my boyfriend on Friday, all we do is hold hands and a couple times before he put his arm around me. How do I know if he wants to kiss me but is too nervous? (link)
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When the opportunity comes up...kiss him. I'm sure he will kiss back! :)
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ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now,and things are starting to get tough. he goes out when he likes and tells me just before he leaves, however he expects me to ask him in advance when i want to go out and even when i do he gets angry and calls me all the time when im out to see when im coming home, i feel trapped and we have spoken about all the time which leads into big arguements in which he is rotten to me and hurts me realy bad. i feel silly because i love him but want to get out, why cant i leave, am i an idiot? we are both 19. (link)
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He seems to want to keep a pretty tight reign on you. Seems to me if his going out is okay then you should be able to come and go as you please as well. I personally would be finding someone who wanted to do things together rather than separate. If you want it to work maybe you should be going out together. :)
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I used to be really close to this guy, but then we went through this misunderstanding where he thought i had said something that i didnt, and now he hates me. i tried making things right with him, and i even had a friend ask him what was going on. he said that he was sorry for making me feel bad but didnt want to be friends with me or aquainted with me at all. what should i do?
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You don't seem to have much choice but to move on. Maybe after some time has passed he will want to be friends again. Until then leave him alone...bugging him about it will only make him mad.
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Well my friend Jake is in love with me, and I cant date anyone without him getting mad at me and I really wanna go out with this guy named Austin, but I cant I feel forced to go out with Jake cause if I dont everyone is going to get mad at me and he will hate me forever. Jake really loves me a lot all of my friends and his friends no it HELP! what do I do?
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If you don't want to date Jake then don't be pressured by him or your friends to do so. Tell them all that you think of Jake as a brother and you certainly wouldn't date your brother. You are going to have to get serious about letting them all know, including Jake. If not, you will never feel comfortable dating anyone else for fear Jake will interfere. :)
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ok im good friends with this guy..we tlk all the time on the fone and hang out a lot! i like him a lot but im afraid to tell him...i dont think he likes me "that way" but he keeps sending me mixed signals and a lot of mi friends think he likes me.(especially mi mom)and thinks we would look so cute together! he is the perfect guy and totally meets mi stanstards perfectly! i really like him! what do i do? (link)
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If you're friends then talk to him and see what he has to say. If he wants to remain just friends then that's okay...at least you'll have an answer. :)
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My friend && I like the same guy. He just happens to have feelings for me. I really want to get together with him but wouldn't that be betraying my best friend? What should I do? (link)
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Not really, you both may like him but neither is actually dating him. If your the one he likes, not dating him isn't going to make him date your friend. I think if he wants a date, you should go out with him. :)
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K see me and this guy just started dating and all for like 3days now and hasen't called me yet i gave him my number. But see i want him to go with me to this fourth of july thing with me what should i do to get in contact with him??? (link)
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Call him and ask him to the fourth thing. If you just started dating he may be scared to call or something. Break the ice and give him a call. :)
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Okay I met an older guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out with friends. We exchanged numbers and he tried calling once... but now that I am changing phones and don't currently have one we don't talk as often. There are a few things he hasn't been telling me.. like court dates and why he still has his old number from a different state..and wants me to bring new friends. Should I plan to meet him or forget about him? (link)
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Sounds a little fishy to me. My intuition says you should dump him. Court dates, out of state numbers, wants to hang with your friends...to weird for an older guy. :)
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