Okay I met an older guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out with friends. We exchanged numbers and he tried calling once... but now that I am changing phones and don't currently have one we don't talk as often. There are a few things he hasn't been telling me.. like court dates and why he still has his old number from a different state..and wants me to bring new friends. Should I plan to meet him or forget about him?
MD_Girl101 answered Saturday July 2 2005, 9:39 am: Well there might be somthing behind him that you might reAlly wAnt to know. WhAt you should do is meet him but bring someone els with you.
Hope I helped
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MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday July 2 2005, 12:32 am: My suggestion is that I would forget him ; I mean if he has court dates.. that means he's bad business and then if he's like.. older, older.. not like 3 years or something then it kinda sounds like he wants a gang-rape or something which is why he wants all your friends to come or something..=/..so I'd just forget him.. hope I helped..!!
JadedinNowhere answered Friday July 1 2005, 3:59 pm: He sounds sort of iffy.. I mean, you don't see this guy as a future boyfriend, or husband or something special. He sounds sort of creepy to me. If I were you I wouldn't meet him or anything, don't answer his calls.. He doesn't know where you live does he? Anyway. If he's asking for more friends, or has been to court for something, it's not a good sign. And if he's moved from a different state.. also not a good sign. Just to be on the safe side I'd stay away from him. [ JadedinNowhere's advice column | Ask JadedinNowhere A Question ]
Kissxme1121 answered Thursday June 30 2005, 9:28 pm: I wouldn't forget him completely... to be honest I'd ask him about those issues you just brought up. Maybe he's emberassed and wants you not to know about him. It's always safer to meet someone with a group too :) [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
tyedyeprincess answered Thursday June 30 2005, 9:25 pm: um court dates? number in a different state? sounds like this guy may have a criminal past and has another life possibly. My advice is to forget this guy. But if you do decide to meet up with him, bring friends who will know what to do in case you get into danger. And bring cell phone. [ tyedyeprincess's advice column | Ask tyedyeprincess A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday June 30 2005, 9:10 pm: Sounds a little fishy to me. My intuition says you should dump him. Court dates, out of state numbers, wants to hang with your friends...to weird for an older guy. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ALEXandADRIANA answered Thursday June 30 2005, 8:33 pm: Both Adriana and I agree that you should forget about this guy. You can find someone better that is honest and will not leave out important information about themselves or try to hide things from you. I do not know what "wants me to bring new friends" means, but I am assuming he wants you to bring other girls around. That is never a good thing. That is like him saying "Hey, hook me up with one of your friends." Rude. I would definitely say forget and move on. From what you said, this guy sounds like bad news. It also seems like you kind of already think that from what you wrote. Follow your instincts. Do not worry, there is way better out there for you! Good-luck. Also, be careful with older guys because they think they can control younger girls. [ ALEXandADRIANA's advice column | Ask ALEXandADRIANA A Question ]
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