Here is my story:
I once dated a really great guy in college; I was a freshman in college @ 18 and he was a junior and 20. We attended the same college and lived in one dormitory but on different floors. Our relationship lasted for a year and a half and in that time he had asked me to marry him and I said yes. I can say that I am very mature for my age and had more of an adult outlook on life at 18 than most of the other teenagers. After my first year of attending that school I left to attend a less expensive college and our relationship went on for another six months. After these six months we broke up. He was a born-again Christian and his explanation to me of our break up was that that is what God had wanted him to do. That he wasn’t ready for a relationship yet and that he wants to wait and see if our relationship was God’s will. I loved him very much and being a patient person that I am I allowed him some time to think about things and etc. By the way, I need to mention that my ex and I never slept together. We broke up…. After about a month or two, I came to see him in his dorm room and found out that he has been sort of seeing someone else during the time that he was supposed to sort things out. I didn’t make a scene, I truly genuinely loved him and I decided to try and win him back by spending more time with him, tried to throw some romanticism back into our relationship. None of it worked. I couldn’t do anything to fix it. Then, I found out that the girl he started dating after me was in a theater production with him. They both were acting in a play together and that’s when they “fell in love”. They started dating. I was still in love with him and could not believe that he that easily left me. I would have given/done anything for him.
But, I moved on with my life. I started going out with my girlfriends a lot more but I wasn’t looking for anyone special to date, but I found him. My, now, fiancée. We’ve been together for 3.5 years and are happy with plans to marry next spring. All throughout these 3.5 years I have been keeping in touch with my ex, but without any kind of monkey business. He was together with his gf and I was with my bf. My ex had many problems in his relationship and many times told me about it. He always told me how good of a gf I was to him, etc. I knew that I loved him when we were together and was very good to him and all throughout these 3 or so years I thought about him and our relationship, and how I regretted ever breaking up. But there wasn’t anything that I could do, or he could do so I bottled up my feelings for him and threw the bottle away.
NOW, a mutual friend of ours had recently had a wedding and both me and my ex were invited to it. My fiancée couldn’t go because he was working. So, I picked my ex up at the airport, we go to the wedding and to make a long story short we ended up kissing. It wasn’t a make out session but a considerable kiss, not a peck on the lips, there was some tongue action. We both leaned in for it, no one was forcing anything on. We had a little to drink but not completely sober. I can’t explain why the kiss happened, maybe it was just the memories, I still have to figure this out, but I wrote out an email about our kiss to his now, kind of ex gf. He says that they are having problems but there is still some kind of feelings left between them. He says that he would love to be with her but he cannot because of some difficult reasons he can’t tell me about. What do you guys think, was it completely cruel that I wrote her telling her about our kiss?
i think it was a good thing you told her about the kiss because don't you think if his girlfriend n ur fiancee kissed you would wanna know about it? i know i sure would..well i really think that u guys are still in love well whatever happends i wish you the best ♥
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i need some advice on what to bring to Hampton Beach, New Hampshire. you know like stuff for fun.... i cant think of anything. please help quick... its for vacation
the only thing i can really think of is if you have a ipod bring ur ipod =]
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im 15 years old.. and my best friend is a guy named mike.. and me and him have always had something for eachother and been together hooking up off and on for about 2 years.. and he has been the BIGGEST part of my life and my heart for longer than that.. and just recently he started dating this girl that i absolutly do not get along with and never have.. and the first day they staretd going out i got into a fight with him over something i said to her. and he chose to defend her and be on her side over me. and that hurt me more than imaginable. but hes hurt me in similar ways to this and made me hysterical to many times to count.. and every time he does we fight and i try so hard to walk away from him but i never can.. and i always end up going bak to him as soon as he tells me he loves me and hes sorry. and i just dont know how to be without him anymore and that i need him and am not whole without him.. can you please tell me what to do because ireally cant take this pain anymore my hearts in so many pieces it just hurts to even breathe..
wow that was really sad. if hes treating you like this i don't think you should be hanging with him..pay him back.let him get a taste of his own medicane and let him think about things..when you actually see that he has changed forgive him.
good luck
♥
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(14/f)
My friend, Lisa, means a lot to me, & we've been through everything together. Recently, I've been drinking a lot, & my life has been all over the place & whatnot. She called me during one of these "intoxicated spells" & we kind of got in a fight about something or another.
I don't even know how to approach appologizing for what I've done, because I barely know WHAT I did. The hardest part is that she seems to want nothing to do with me any longer.
Should I just let her go, or what should I do? Please help.
you should never just give up on a friend or let them go..just call her and ask her to come over and say i need you to come over this is important and when she gets there say that ur very sorry and anything else u would wanna say
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what are some fun things to do with your boyfriend for a very small price? thanks
you guys can go to the family fun center, movies, **drive ins** and a public pool..
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could someone please tell me the song name and who its by and if its not a song please tell me thanks:
And I know that I should probably just let go, because I know that it wont work out and everyone tells me that. So I try to convice myelf that its better off that way without him... But then I'll think of him and remember his smile that makes me melt and I cant imangine myself with anyone else and no matter how hard it will be, I want to be with him
A part of you has grown in me, together forever we shall be...never apart..maybe in distance but not in the heart
The sparkle in your eye put the stars to shame.
The first time I saw you was the last time I saw my heart
The best feeling in the world is to be millions of miles away and still be able to picture his eyes
That can't eat, can't sleep, reach for the stars over the fence, world series kind of love
umm..i think those are just quotes?..
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Okay I met an older guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out with friends. We exchanged numbers and he tried calling once... but now that I am changing phones and don't currently have one we don't talk as often. There are a few things he hasn't been telling me.. like court dates and why he still has his old number from a different state..and wants me to bring new friends. Should I plan to meet him or forget about him?
hes a moron just like all of em..if i were you i would forget him.
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Hey, does anyone know if it's true that brushing your teeth with salt once a month makes them whiter??
yes it does. my aunt did it for a while and it made them a lil bit whiter
nina
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ok well here is the deal im 13/f and i really want the top of my ear pirced and i offered my mom to tell her id pay for it but she is still saying no anyone got any ideas like what i could tell her to convince to let me get one please help any info about this just help
if you make good grades be like mom i bring you home good grades and i do my homework all for you can you just plese do something for me and let me get my ear pierced or go for the puppy dogg pout! =] works for me all the time!
hope i helped
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does anyone know any music sites that actually have WORKING urls because i'm guessing this one server is down or something and all the song uploaded into there doesn't work. I want music urls that work or websites like xanga, myspace etc. thanks in advance.
hey these are some good websites for xanga music codez that work..
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=fabulous_codes
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music__galore
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Music__Baby
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xxMusic4Yewxx
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=numba1_music_source
hope i helped
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i just started dating this guy yesturday and i'm already regreting it. he's a real sweetheart and i know he's just shy because it's only been one day but everyone is already in our business and it gets on my nerves. i feel so unloyal because i'm kind of embarassed about it too, i never dated the guy that's always the one his group picks on and who never 'gets the girls' and i know me saying yes to him was a shock to everyone. they thought i was going to go out with this other guy and i still do want to go out with the other guy but he lied to me and i think that got me so mad i said yes to my current boyfriend but i still like the other guy and i don't want to be a bitch and break up with my boyfriend after one day and hurt him. i mean who knows, maybe he'll actually become a great boyfriend. what should i do?
well i think you should stay with your boyfriend..most of the guys who lie to you are jerks.
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hey i am like flat out of ideas...if ne one has ne ideas pleaz tell!?!?!?!?
if you have dirty blonde hair i think you should get like red highlights..how jessica simpson had it! =) i think it was really pretty..and alot of ppl don't have it so you will probably even set a trend.
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I have this cousin and she's in 6th grade and me and her are really good friends even though I'm 2 years older than her. Anyways, A LOT of my friends and older guys (like 14/15 yr old guys) thinks she's really hott and I think it's because she has big boobs for her age and to be honest, her bras are really padded. Well i'm sick of guys comin up to me and being like "god your cousins soo hott..she looks older than you!" and pretty much all my guy friends think she's hott and shes really not like "OMG SO PRETTY"..I just don't know what to tell them or what to tell her because it's so messed up..help please? oh yea, and my cuzin is eleven..
just tell the guys shes 11 and that she don't like older guys
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Every year our school has this "End of the Year Award Ceremony" thing, where you get awards for certain things from throughout the year, and some people perform. I am one of those people. My friend is playing the piano and I'm singing to Amazing Grace. I am so nervous!! Does anyone know of a way I can become less nervous and more comfortable when I go up to sing so my voice isn't cut short?
Signed,
Nervous Performer
just act like they are your stuffed animals or just close your eyes and don't really pay attenion to them
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Tomarrow there is a feild trip! To Canobie Lake Park!! Im afraid of going on the rides!! but i really want to! im only 4"6 would i be tall enough? [please dont make fun of me because im short ]]
you might not be able to hun..anyone who makes fun of you cuz your short is retarted. hope i helped
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my friend is having a dance party and she is turning 14. Does anyone know of great dance songs..preferably rap, but little or no cussing. Also, a theme and maybe even some games to keep us busy, or contests.Thank you!
:.Songs!.:
Ciara-goodies,1,2 step Ashanti-only you B2k-bump bump bump lol black eyed peas-don't phunk with my heart..
:.Games!.:
Twister (so much fun!) dressup* =D
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Does your child have to be a certain age to let them stay home alone for about 2-3 days? Just wondering because me and my husband's 25th year anniversary is comming up and I want to get out of town for a few days just the two of us. I was wondering if it is legal for me to allow my 14 year old to stay home alone for a few nights.
thats shaky..if she doesn't have a boyfriend then yeah let her stay home by herself
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Ok so the guy I like, likes me too I guess, but it's complicated. We're gonna go out on a date and "try it out" see how we are together.
Anyway as a joke last night he asked me to tell him something that he could do, that would make me hate him or break up with him. Today he wanted me to write down a long list of those things.. now is he just continuing the joke? Does he wanna know what not to do if we went out, or is he trying to find a way to get me not to like him anymore? I'm a little lost... thanks!
maybe its a joke..well play the joke back on him right down the things you would want him to do to make the relationship work even longer and see if he does those things..if so,you'll know it wasn't a joke.
Hope i helped!!
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OK, i went out with my boyfriend for 3 months...i know not a very long time, but we were best friends b4 we went out and i really love/loved him, so when he broke up with me abotu 2 weeks ago i was really sad/depressed...it sucked....btu i still havent totally gotten over him...anyoen have any tips on how to?
Well its really hard to get over someone but just hang out with ur pals that are single cuz if you hang out with someone that is taken ull see them together and ull be sad all over again.
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ok theres this guy that i might never see again but i think i love him and im pretty sure he likes/loves me too butim still not 100% sure that he does... but what should i do? the last time i will see him is thursday... should i tell him or wait and see what he does?
you should deff tell him becuz if you don't you might regret not telling him
Hope i helped!
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