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heart's not in it
i just started dating this guy yesturday and i'm already regreting it. he's a real sweetheart and i know he's just shy because it's only been one day but everyone is already in our business and it gets on my nerves. i feel so unloyal because i'm kind of embarassed about it too, i never dated the guy that's always the one his group picks on and who never 'gets the girls' and i know me saying yes to him was a shock to everyone. they thought i was going to go out with this other guy and i still do want to go out with the other guy but he lied to me and i think that got me so mad i said yes to my current boyfriend but i still like the other guy and i don't want to be a bitch and break up with my boyfriend after one day and hurt him. i mean who knows, maybe he'll actually become a great boyfriend. what should i do?
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well i think you should stay with your boyfriend..most of the guys who lie to you are jerks.
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Seeing as how you guys just got togetheR two days ago, I would stick it out a little bit longeR. At least give the guy a CHANCE!! I mean, WHO CARES what otheR people think and say about him -- to HELL with them. Shouldn't the only opinion that matteRs in this case be YOURS!? And why aRe you even thinking of dumping him afteR 2 days anyhow?? Is it because ***YOU*** aRe unhappie with him... oR because OTHER PEOPLE say things? Yeah - so you should eveR eveR eveR let someone dictate who it is you CAN and CAN NOT associate with!! You need to do what makes YOU *happie heRe. You can't let otheR people live youR life foR you. And don't eveR allow someone to take away what could be agReat oppoRtunity foR you!!
WhateveR you decide to do, I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hopefully I've been of at least SOME help heRe!! :D
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Wow. The SAME thing happened to me. The best thing would probably be to stick with your boyfriend AT LEAST for a couple more days, and see what it's like. But if you still feel the same way, tell him that you're not really feeling it, but you really really really want to be friends with him. Yes, he'll be a little upset, but it's the best thing to do because you don't want to be with someone you don't like, right?
I hope I helped =)
Good luck.
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If i were you, i would stay with him untill somthing went wrong and totally messed the relationship up you know?
♥ Michelle
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