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really dont know what to do.
im 15 years old.. and my best friend is a guy named mike.. and me and him have always had something for eachother and been together hooking up off and on for about 2 years.. and he has been the BIGGEST part of my life and my heart for longer than that.. and just recently he started dating this girl that i absolutly do not get along with and never have.. and the first day they staretd going out i got into a fight with him over something i said to her. and he chose to defend her and be on her side over me. and that hurt me more than imaginable. but hes hurt me in similar ways to this and made me hysterical to many times to count.. and every time he does we fight and i try so hard to walk away from him but i never can.. and i always end up going bak to him as soon as he tells me he loves me and hes sorry. and i just dont know how to be without him anymore and that i need him and am not whole without him.. can you please tell me what to do because ireally cant take this pain anymore my hearts in so many pieces it just hurts to even breathe..
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i think that the next time he does it you should walk away because you don't deserve to be treated like that. even if its hard to walk away it might be for the best and you never know he could change and then you might be friends with him again.
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If you need to leave him again then try and acctually leave. I mean tamporarily. Like instead of him saying sorry and i love you....you should say sorry and i love you.....see how it works out...i mean...who knows what will happen...asHleyx3
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wow that was really sad. if hes treating you like this i don't think you should be hanging with him..pay him back.let him get a taste of his own medicane and let him think about things..when you actually see that he has changed forgive him.
good luck
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Well darlin, he can't heal that kind of pain...although it may feel that way, the truth is you have to heal your own heart. No one can complete you - that's a lovely saying - but any healthy relationship is made of 2 complete people coming together to compliment each other - not hurt one another.
Right now you are just giving him your power - your essence in hopes that he will do something different from what he's done before. He won't. I keep hope alive, but I also don't believe in suffering over a man who is rejecting you over and over. Fine, you hook up and it's lovely then, but there has to be something missing because he's got another girl and uses you as a fill in.
I had a guy like that when I was 15 or so... I learned so much from him. When I finally figured out what I am trying to tell you I had my strength back and he was begging for me. The funny thing was, I didn't want him anymore.
Pull yourself together and leave him alone for a bit. Being mean to his girl will not make you two closer - he's gonna take her side because that is the most intimate relationship in his life.
Write a list of what you want in a boyfriend - without him in mind and see if he even fits...I think you may be suprised!!!
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I feel so sorry for you just let it out and tell him how you feel if he loves you that much maybe he will date you again who knows all i can say is tell him how you feel as for the other girl she sound like a witch im so sorry your hurtin right now Good luck hope i helped :-)
sorry this is soo sappy Good luck :-)
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