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My friend has a problem with me.
(14/f)
My friend, Lisa, means a lot to me, & we've been through everything together. Recently, I've been drinking a lot, & my life has been all over the place & whatnot. She called me during one of these "intoxicated spells" & we kind of got in a fight about something or another.
I don't even know how to approach appologizing for what I've done, because I barely know WHAT I did. The hardest part is that she seems to want nothing to do with me any longer.
Should I just let her go, or what should I do? Please help.
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dont let her go! is she has been through alot with you..dont ruin that! i can tell you exactly what you did...uh, ya went and got drunk! my advice is to enroll in some kind of program that will help you get over your drinking problem. then go to Lisa and tell her you're sorry for whatever you did (considering you dont know)and just see how it goes from there, kay?
~Candace
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you should never just give up on a friend or let them go..just call her and ask her to come over and say i need you to come over this is important and when she gets there say that ur very sorry and anything else u would wanna say
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no definately dont let her go...you messed up so you have to try and make things right. write her a letter..call her..go to her house..something and explain everything and how nothing you said was anything you meant. give it your best shot and if she still cant forgive her, at least you really tried to fix things.
good luck!
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You are really confused and in a bad place right now. That's no excuse, if I was your friend I might be getting sick of it too. But it does help explain.
It might be best to ask her first what you did that made mad. It might be a silly little thing or it just might be that she cares for you and is really feed up with you treating yourself badly.
Please know it's hard for people to care about you when you aren't caring for yourself. Look for some help for your drinking, you have so much life in front of you, don't waste it.
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