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how to tell her...
first of all, sorry this is so long, but its a big problem...im only thirteen, which, to my mom, is too young to have a boyfriend. the problem is i HAVE a boyfriend and he's my first and he lives in another city far from where i live. and in a few weeks, hes coming to my city and i really want to go out with him somewhere, but first, my mom would have to find out that i'm dating him. she always tells me that i can tell her, but i just kno that she wont let me. i met him on the internet which is even worse. anyways, how can i talk to her and explain this to her in a way that hopefully, she will let me stay with him? also, would it be better if he introduced himself instead of me introducing him?
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1) Tell your mom your going out with some friends.
2) Just tell her and possibly not go out on the date
3) A double date. Tell your mom your going out with a friend (girl) and 'meet up' with the guys!
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Okay. First, you aren't really "dating" him. You are just talking to him online and you happen to like him. So as far as that goes you are doing nothing against moms wishes. Unless she doesnt want you talking to people online.
She probably wouldn't have a problem with you being friends, and maybe even meeting him when he comes to town. Especially if he is a friend of your cousins. You will only be friends because you honestly cannot date someone who is never where you are.
I think once you meet then you should be the one doing the introducing. Just because he is a friend of your cousins doesn't mean you are safe to meet him alone. Don't do that. Have a friend with you in a public place. Maybe even your mom. :)
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wow, if you met him on the internet this defiantely is not a good idea. for all you know he could be a 40 yr old guy going to rape and kill you!!! also if he IS 13 and he lives far away from you its not going to work. you are way too young to have a long distance relationship..you dont even have a car to drive and go see him. if you INSIST on meeting him, tell your mom that you have a boyfriend and he makes you really happy but it is nothing really serious yet so she shouldnt worry. i definately wouldnt tell her about the internet thing because i can promise you...if you do you will never see this kid.
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Hun this just sounds a little scarry to me. If you met this guy online you shouldn't be going anywhere alone with him!
He is not your boyfriend if you only talk online. You are just close friends who like eachother. Thats what you should tell your mom. Tell her you have a good online friend who is comming to town for a bit and you want to invite him over for dinner or a movie or something. That way your mom will be more likely to be okay with it and you will be safer!
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