about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

13/f

Is 31A cup normal for my age?

just curious

yes it is normal.
*~Stephanie~*

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I met a guy over the summer and he's really nice. Unfortunatly i never met him face to face until school started and i began to see him around the school. I was so shocked when i saw him but i found out that he was suicidal and gets depressed really easily so i was nice to him. Apparently hes getting the wrong idea about me and he likes me! I try to be nice but when he says stuff like 'i love u' i get scared and say 'i love u 2!' back.

He thinks i like him but i dont! He's soo not my type and wears girls pants!

HELP!

you need to talk to him and explain to him how you feel. tell him striaght up that you dont ahve the same feelings for him as he does for you. if you keep going on with this (since he is suicidal) he might do something stupid and kill himself if you dont tell him fast enough. but if you liekd the guy be4 you say him face to face maybe you should think about why you dont like him. is because of what eh looks? you know looks arent everything. well hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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WHat is "friends with benifits?"

friends with benifits means you can do stuff witht a close friend without being a couple.. for instance you can be friends and still make out with them and do stuff like that even if you have a boyfriend or even if your lookin for one.
*~Stephanie~*

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what do people mean when they say 'i dont like fake people'

it is people who act or try to be soemthign there not. basically they do stuff that normally they wouldnt do to impress other people.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey I was just wondering...where does it start, that is, STDs. If a guy and a girl are both virgins, is there still a chance? How does it like begin, because it doesn't seem to make sence. If its not infection by spreading it, then what starts them? Thanks - will rate.

i am pretty sure it starts if one of the parents had it and the child that they had gets past on to them.
*~Stephanie~*

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once i have songs on limewire how do i burn them onto a cd?

it is very simple.. you go to library then file, then explore, and then i sharded folder should come out. then find the song you want to burn on the cd and left click on it and click add to burn list. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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A snowflake is a crystal. Some people tell me that it has 6 sides, some people tell me it has 8 sides, and some people tell me it has 10 sides. Which is it???

each snowflake is different. each oen has different shape and size.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm sixteen and I've never made out with a guy (or anything above that...and I only kissed once) is that a huge turnoff for a guy? I havent really had any boyfriends, but now I'm interested and I'm wondering will this scare guys off?

actually it all depends on a guy. but if the guy really likes you he shouldnt care about that. i mean everyone has a first time to try things. i dont think you shoudl worry about it. and i dont think it would be a turn off..
*~Stephanie~*

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does lime wire cause viruses or anything that could harm my computer because i want to make cds but im afriad to do it

i have had limewire for 2 years nwo and it has NEVER got me a virus. all thing you need is a firewall.. if you got that then nothin shoudl happen. and if you need help on how to transfor songs from limewire to burn CD's drop it in my inbox and i will gladly help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I had a girlfriend for 1 1/2 years. we got into it some night and I hit her. CAN SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME GET HER BACK????!!!

you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel. the strang thing about your question is that last night me and my boyfriend where talkin about that and he would never do that to me.. but you need to apologize to her. explain to her that it was a mistake.. that you didnt mean to do what you did. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

p.s
next time DONT EVER LAY YOUR HAND ON A GIRL!!!

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okay i need to know some songs that are really good to "freak" to. ya knoww like shake your butt music. anything besides GET LOW. Something they might play at your school dances that get everyone going crazy! thanks.

again ill give a 5 to anyone who attempts to name at least 3.

badd- mike jones
salt shaker - ying yang twins
no daddy -tearria mara
beep - pussy cat dolls
massari - be easy
hot tonight- NEw edition
bonce- footy koo

*~Stephanie~*

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ok so there is this guy i like and he says he likes me to and sometimes when i send him a text message or something he doesnt answer like he is ignoring me but when im with him in person he is all over me what is going on???im confused??what should i do??

i sooooo understand what your saying my boyfriend can be like that at times.. he might just be busy and couldnt answer you.. he can also not have his cell phone on him so he cant answer you. if it is bothering you so much talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I recently found out that my bestfriend cheated on his gf. And it wasn't just a make out with another girl type of cheating. He lost his virginity to this other girl. And he has no intention of breaking up with his real gf or even telling her. She lives about 2 hours away from here so unless someone tells her, she wont find out. She's also a good friend of mine so i'm questioning if I should tell her. I know if my bf was cheating on me and she knew, I'd want her to tell me. I'm not speaking to my bestfriend right now becasue of the fact. So should I tell his gf?

i think you should tell her the truth. i mean if someone doesnt tell her the truth she going to keep going with her life and getting stronger feelings for him. and when she finally does find out the truth it will hurt sooo much more then it will hurt now.
*~Stephanie~*

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how come when i ask a question that serious and i wanna know an answer people give me these stupid rude bitchy answers? Like go do ur mom or loser etc,. Why do they do that is thei life to bad that they have to make some one elses worse? Thanks

they are just stupid and want attention and are trying to be fnny. we i reality there stupided and retardeed.
*~Stephanie~*

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What would be worse?

Straightening your hair alomost everday

or

Putting mousse,gel and hairspray in it almost everyday as well?

they are both really bad for your hair. because striaghtenin drys/burns it and puttin gel, mous and hair spray in it kills it. i think putting mousse, gel, and hairspary in it is worse.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it wrong to have sex with someone,thats older than you by 3 years.
And another question,people that have taken meth.....did it make you more sexual? or anything?

if the other person isnt oveer 18 then there is nothing wrong with them. but to tell you the truth age should only be a number i mean my parents are ELEVEN years apart and nobody says anything about it. and i dont knwo about your other question
*~Stephanie~*

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if i get fingered am i still a virgin?

yes you are. not beign a virgin means YOU HAD SEX and getting figured doesnt have anything to do with havin a dick inside of you. so your still a virgin.
*~Stephanie~*

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Does anyone know where i can get music codes for my xanga?

www.cdzinc.com

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=numba1_music_source


http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=numba1_music_source

if you need anything else just drop it in my inbox and i will be glad to help you out soem more.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey guys i was just wondering, can u shower w/ a tampon in...need reply's fast, i'm running late (i just got my period this morning) will rate high, much love

to make it easier and faster to read YES you can.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok well im like one of like 10 black gurls in my city. most of the other oens r mixed though but i still count them as black.well anyways ive lived here for 2 and a half years and the whole time ive only had 2 boyfriends. y is it that white bois dont wanna go out with black gurls? a lot of guy flirt with me and say they wanna do stuff with me but they wont ask me out. what should i do becuase im always sittin around watchin all my other friends hook up with guys and im just left all alone.

love,
lonely black gurl

maybe you should try askin the guy out.. i mean nobody said you cant ask the guy out yourself..right? or maybe the guy likes you but only as a friend. mayb it is just that.
*~stephanie~*

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