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bein black
ok well im like one of like 10 black gurls in my city. most of the other oens r mixed though but i still count them as black.well anyways ive lived here for 2 and a half years and the whole time ive only had 2 boyfriends. y is it that white bois dont wanna go out with black gurls? a lot of guy flirt with me and say they wanna do stuff with me but they wont ask me out. what should i do becuase im always sittin around watchin all my other friends hook up with guys and im just left all alone.
love,
lonely black gurl
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Hey hun..this is all my opinion sorry if i dont help..
Well okay this is how i look at it.. alot of white guys are real picky from my understanding i mean they are picky even about white girls or maybe thats just around here im not sure.. but alot of white guys want a small petie blonde tanned white girl.. yea a barbie.. and alot of white guys i know are taught to stay in their race for relationships their parents live off what there parents taught them so they wish to continue *what i dont think is right*.. there is guys i know that do date balck females that are white but from what they told me and from what i can tell it has alot to do with the parents.. i mean this isnt just white guys its every race.. you'll find somebody eventually just give it time.. ♥ Dez
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I don't think it's because you're black. I'm white and I've never even seen a black person in my town, but I've never had a boyfriend! And I'm seventeen! And I've lived here for six years! I think it's just the type of guys you are hanging out with...I don't mean white...I just mean that they are the type who aren't serious about relationships. It could also be your age. If you are a little younger, like 13-15, guys your age are not really mature and are totally not serious about relationships. If it is because you are black, well, they're racist jerkoffs and you don't deserve that! They are SO beneath you!
And by the way, 5 is the highest rating. 1 is the rating you want to give to smartasses. I'm not joking around here...it's in the FAQ. So when you say that smartass answers are going to get 5s...be prepared to get a lot of smartass answers.
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o0o0 that sucks im sorry! Well sometime it matters what state you live in...like if it's more of the southern states then..there are alot of racist people there..which is really messed up! Just don't appear to be all "ghetto" lol! But most guys really dont care as long as yuor cute and that your a girl! So I just say wait a little while and be yourself..liek don't change yourself for anyone but maybe you could go to the movies in another town where there's different people who might not care! Well good luck! ♥ caitie
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Hi,
I think that most white people who live in a mostly white town aren't used to having to think about dating black girls.So they don't really know how to handle it.The best advice I could give to you is to be yourself, and if they don't like you for who you are, then they're not worth it.I am a black girl who lives in a black town and sometimes I feel the same way.But I just try to keep my head up.So that's my other advice for you, keep your head up.
your friends,
advicegodesses2
p.s. don't forget to write us back.Bye!!
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maybe you should try askin the guy out.. i mean nobody said you cant ask the guy out yourself..right? or maybe the guy likes you but only as a friend. mayb it is just that.
*~stephanie~*
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aww... well I'm not really sure if it's about race, I hope thats not what its about anyway. Some people are just attracted to girls with certain looks, ex. blonde hair, blue eyes, and more times than not, african american people aren't going to fit under those categories. I think it's stupid, it's really personality that counts, but maybe people aren't racist they just would rather be friends with you? Anyway, tons of girls go through this where their friends are "together" alot with people and they arent...and it's not always about race. I think maybe you could try making a move? Your age also counts in this sitution. Well, good luck!
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Maybe it's your personality. Maybe they aren't interested in being with you in general. Maybe you give off a slutty aura. Maybe the guys (bois isn't a word) are just stupid perverts and only want sesx. There could be many many reasons as to why, so please don't automatically assume that white guys aren't into black girls (once again, gurls isn't a word).
Report me for what, giving you some advice on how to spell? Oh no, that must be a crime in this country. Please, threats like that are pathetic and are only going to cause more people doing it. Maybe guys don't want to date you because you pull stuff like this.
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