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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.




My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.

I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.

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where can i get unlocked Mint Chocolate cell phones? unlocked meaning you can use it for any service provider

Some people sell them unlocked on ebay but failing that you can always buy it from a cell phone company (depends on where you are because I don't know how it works in the US) but here in the UK somewhere like carphone warehouse will sell you handsets offline (without a SIM and without a contract and stuff) which you can make sure are unlocked for you when you buy them from them. Only catch is that these handsets will be VERY expensive (retail value which is usually £200+).

Best bet is to buy it from Ebay for a good price pre-unlocked or find one that's not unlocked and have a place near you where they will unlock phones to do it. In the UK many places on the high streets will unlock phones for £5-10 depending on make and model. I suggest checking beforehand because some phones can't be unlocked and some, like the 3G mobiles can only be unlocked by the company which can cost more than what the phone is worth.

Sorry I can't be more help than this.

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I download stuff from Limewire, But it's too slow... I want to downlod "knocking on heaven's door" and "let it be" but it doesn't even get connected... Help...

Just to add to LoveSucks awesome advice there, if you're based in the UK then the problem may lie in the ISP and not Limewire.

A lot of ISP's (mine included as of recently) have started capping internet speeds for some pathetic reason. So for p2p programs speeds will be extremely slow during peak times. You may need to check this with your ISP's web site for clarification. If this is not the case however then followng LoveSucks advice will get you the tracks you're after very fast indeed (and a nice choice of tracks they are too). :]

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is there a way to keep a program, example google talk,
running without wasting energy? like when i go on stand
by, the program shuts down. & obviously the same
with shutting down.

i'm talking about during the night - the times when i'm
not at the computerr?

thankss :]

I've never actually used stand by before because I've always thought it to be pretty useless since it shuts everything down anyway (inclusing my net connection) and is something I'd love to use when downloading large files overnight (pretty much for same reason as you - so it takes up less energy).

I'm afraid as far as I know though there isn't unless someone can correct me and there is a way. I usually shut down as much as I can, leave my MSN/download running and then log out (Note: log out NOT shut down - with logging out everything will still be running) and then turn off my monitor. I would imagine that saves on a little.

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(14/f)

When do you think is the right age to give head to a guy?
If you knew him for a long time?
My friend told me it would ruin my life if i do it
Suggestions PLEASE!

I don't think there really is a 'right' age to it. Legally (in the US) I think you have to be 18+ otherwise it's called as statutory rape, I think.

But putting the law aside, you should ask yourself when the right time is. Is it someone you love? Is it someone who loves you and actually means it and isn't just someone out to get 'some'? Is it osmething you are being pushed into doing because of pressure from others around you?

There's no real age thing here. It's all about common sense and when you feel is the right moment. It's not a matter of you hitting 18 and having sex with the first person you come across because it's just the right/legal age to do that.

Many do regret things from their past, especially when it's things they can't change. If this is truly what YOU want to do though then no one cn really stop you. If it's something you are being forced into by peer pressure or because 'everyone else has already done it' then just wait. There's no hurry. That's the best suggestion I can give you, I hope it will help some. :]

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alright so theres this guy and we are sort of friends with benifits i guess you could say we've made out a few times, and we kiss and hold hands alot, but he hasent asked me out yet, so today in english that he loved me and i just kind of smiled and strangly it made me really sad because i promised myself i wouldnt say i love you to him unless i was forsure i really did, because then i thought it would mean alot more to both of us..so it sort of pissed me off that he was probally lying, so then he was like do you love me back?? and i was like uhm idk, i really like you but im not sure if im ready to say "love" yet and then the rest of the day i was really sad for some reason like i felt like balling my eyes out, im really confused here as you can tell?? do you guys think he means it? and why did it make me so depressed?

The problem with the words 'I love you' is that they no longer have the meaning they once did. When people would only ever say them when they really meant it. Now anyone can say them and not even know their meaning let alone mean it.

The trouble with being friends as well as having benefits, it can cause problems just like these - one person can get emotionally involved when the purpose of friends with benefits is that you stay friends but nothing more (apparently). I don't think you should have to say it or feel pressured into saying it unless you do feel/mean it. As for him, I can't say if he does mean it or not because you know him better than I. There may not even be a way to know for sure unless you can get him to take the polygraph test. :/

I'm not sure why it made you feel depressed. It might be that things have suddenly took a turn that you didn't expect and what he said to you was not what you had expected to happen (at least not yet anyway). Or because he feels that way and you don't or you are not sure if you do? To be honest I can't say because everyone is different and it's hard for me to be able to 'read' you just from this. Thing is though try not to let it bring you down and depressed. You told him the truth that you don't know - most people would have just lied. He should appreciate that you were honest with him. There's no rush or time limit so take your own time to decide how you do feel about him and see how things go fromhere on with him. That way you can see if what he said was something he meant or not. Whether he meant it or not though you will also need to discover how you feel about him and if you feel the same or not.

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okay i like this guy and he is my ex's bestfriend
me and my ex broke up LAST YEAR and now he has a new gf who he has been dating for like 8 months
and now i like his bestfriend.... and me and his bestfriend talk on the phone like for 55mins to an hour.. but i call him most the time.. b.c he's the shy type.. but yah.. and when Dj (my ex's bestfriend) was going out with Kayla he never called her..and when she called him he talked to her for like 10 mins tops.. not even that.. most the time.. and me and him can talk about anything .. its just like when we talk we end up talking about girls he think is hot.. and there asses so I KNOW im in the FRIEND ZONE!! and my quesiton is how do i get out?..what can do besides flirtingg..?

btw.. im kinda scared of rejection.

If he considers you a good friend then you are part of the way there. The best way to get to know someone is to talk to them and be their friend since it seems, at least from everything I've seen since joining Advicenators, most guys/girls go for friends when it ocmes to wanting a relationship.

To take things a little further try asking about meeting up. Maybe go out in a little group as friends and then from there you could always invite him out to hang out or chill out together. That way you can get to know him better as well as develop a more closer relationship and hopefully things will take off from there. :]

As for rejection - that's something that comes with the whole relationship territory I'm afraid. :[ If you want to risk giving your heart away you have to take the risk that it might get broken. Only real protection against that is to never give it away but that would equal for a very lonely and dull life. We all have to face rejection at one point or another but the idea is to pick yourself up and get right back in there. It will either work out, or it won't but either way at least you will know for certain instead of asking yourself what if further down the line and regretting never knowing Good luck. :]

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15 f
my mom is so mean lately she comes from work and all she wants to do is argue. so lately ive been going out alot with m my friends, that bothers her!! all i do is go to their house i dont do anything bad! she always talks bad to me if i ask her a simple question she would just answer me so roudly. i cant take it anymore! so she always tries to find things to argue with me about. she told me i can never go out with my friends anymore. but seeing that tomorow is saturday my bestfriend invited me to go to her house and her mom also asked me to come. now i know my mom is going to say no. but what can i say or do to convicne her please help. i really wat to go to her house. i really need help. my mom is becoming meaner like every second. and i have tried to talk to her alot she doesnt listen and when i do try to talk to her she always gest mad and tells me that im changing or whatever. so please dont tell me to talk to her. i tried alot of times and it neevr works it just gets worse.
thanks
i rate

Hi.

It sounds to me like it might just be a matter of your mom being stressed out and is taking it all out on you.

I think next time before she gets back make her a drink (as long as it's not alcoholic because that won't help stress at all) so she has that to come home to. Ask her how her day/work was. I know she's been giving you a lot of grief all of a sudden but judging by it started happening recently and she is like that when she gets back from work it may just be stress.

No matter how much crap she dishes out to you just try and take it and be there for her. It may seem like she doesn't see it at first but eventually she will notice and see that what she is doing is wrong.

Alternatively, since talking to her isn't working, try writing her a note. Write it for her and put it somewhere where she will eventually pick it up and read it (her bed would be a good place). Or just give it to her when she's sitting down at some point. Tell her you do love her and care about her and that you're worried about her and how she's been recently and how you both seem to argue which you really don't want anymore. Tell her you want to be there for her if something is wrong because she's your mom and you love her. It may sound corny but it may be the way to get through to her so you can find out what's really going on.

Failing that you could always talk to your friends mom about this so she could talk to your mom although that may be something you want to leave as a total last resort as it could backfire - your mom may not appreciate that you have been talking to other people about 'family matters'. I think shes just very stressed out and if it does get worse she may need to seek council or professional help to deal with it.

I'm sorry I can't really be of much more help than this.

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alright so today my boyfriend and i were in english and i was kind of mad at him because he's been flirting with other girls so yea hes trying to talk to me and im kind of ignoring him and talking to other people and he kept asking me what was wrong and i was like uhh nothing? im fine.. in kind of a sad voice..then today when we were walking over to track practice together he's like wow today when you were mad at me..your ussually like a 10-10 but when your pissed at me its so hot you like a 20..so im kind of confused and i really dont get why this would be "hot" to him...please explain?

It may just be one of those weird turn ons for him - each to their own really and some guys to find it a turn on. Saying that, what made you mad at him in the firstplace doesn't justify it.

The thing is tonight when I was out I actually had one my female friends shouting her head off at me (we were just messing about AND she was a bit tipsy) but I told her she's cute when shes angry, hehe. It's weird but she actually is for osme strange reason but I think I said it more to annoy her than anything else. :]

Best thing to do is actually ask him why he thought it was hot. Since he would know better than I could guess and when he's done explaining it, it might be a good idea to tell him why you was angry at him too. Until you tell him what he's doing wrong he will not know and will just carry on doing it and making you angry. And eventually, I don't think him telling you that you're hot when your angry will be enough to make it all go away. Good luck and hope you manage to sort this out with him.

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my msn messenger won't allow me to like chat with anyone and like my computer keeps saying it has a virus does anyone know how to get rid of the virus

i have another questions
i have limewire and this norton antivirus always pops up! when i click accept it pops up again!
my friends have limewire but this doesn't happen to them

help please?
thanks.

As far as I know from my past experience with trojans and virii, they cannot be packed with any audio files such as mp3, wav or wmv files.

Firstly, I think they problem may lie in MSN as there are have been a lot of malicious little annoying programs running around being spread through MSN. Restart your pc and then make sure MSN is completed shut down (so that the MSN icon is not showing in the bottom corner). If you have it set to run with system startup remove this setting and then reboot. Once rebooted, start a *full* system scan with Norton (ensure Norton is fully up-to-date as well).

Once the scan is over hopefully it will have picked up the problems (they may well be spyware and not virii as such) but either way select to have them deleted. If they cannot be deleted you should be able to tell Norton to remove them at the next system startup.

Was Limewire a recent install for you or have you had it for a while? If it was a recent install havein uninstalled before starting the above and after uninstalled restart the system. Once Norton has done its thing you should redownload Limewire but ensure you do so only from a reliable source as the version sent to you or you downloaded may have been packed with spyware, which Norton picked up. I also use Limewire and when I was using Norton had this problem once too. I uninstalled and then reinstalled a different version and it worked fine. :]

Hope this all helps to fix the problem.

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ok so is there anyway on msn 2 c when a person was last online?
and is there anyway 2 c how many people viewed my profile on msn?

As far as I know there is no way to see when a person was last online because MSN allowes people to sign into invisible mode purely so that no one will know they are online.

Pretty much the same with profile views I think. I don't know of any way to know how many visitors you have had to your profile. Unless you are able to add html code to your profile to include a third party hit counter there wouldn't really be any way to know.

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15/f - 15/m

sorry in advance if this is a tad long...

Tonight my boyfriend and I has sex for the first time. I DO NOT regret it all, I really do love him no matter what anyone else.. you can't tell me how I feel about it. I understand alot of people are against intercourse at young ages, but please don't lecture me.. just help.

The Problem: We both had never has sex before this. We were comfortable with it, but still nervous at the same time. First time gitters I guess. Anyways, as he began to cum, he started to pull out. As he pulled out the comdon slipped off. Still half way in and half way out... as soon as we noticed, I pulled the condom out. We stopped and didnt continue at all. We are both scared. We are not sure, if anything accidently fell in or what. I think we are over thinking the negatives, and not focous on some of the positives. Anything that can help us. We CANT tell our parents, they would kill us.. and we are both the oldest so no older sibling to run to... If it helps anything, I just got off my peirod last week around Thursday. We need people who know what they are talking about. We're scared

I guess one the worst things that could have happened did.. Things go wrong, and I guess it just wanst our day.

Please anything..

Thanks so much !!

:EDIT: If you wait about a week before taking the test it will be a little more accurate. You don't want to take it too early otherwise it will just give a false result. Wait a week and then give a test a try. Read all the instructions you get in the test as they can vary and for the test you buy it may require you to wait a bit longer.

From what you have said I think you should be safe from any risk of being pregnant. If you are still worried then the best thing to do is to get a home pregnency test done but wait about a week before you do so. Personally I think you're okay though. :]

Also, for your bf, I can understand this happening and just know it can happen. Best thing to do is to pull out a little before and not leave it to the very last second and you should be okay.

I don't have any opinion on 15 year olds having sex since the age of consent here (UK) is 16 anyway and personally I don't think anyone where I live even make it to 15 as virgins. :/ I will say though that it is nice to see that you both were responsible and careful to the point that you both thought about using protection. Most young people can get careless when it comes to protection. I commend you both on being careful and thinking ahead, well done. :]

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(15/f) i've got this friend... that smiles like a model, like with the weird smile not showing the teeth, and leaving a little gap in the center, but to do it, she uses ALL of her muscles and wrinkles up her chin and cheeks and everything. she's copying the models and trying to be in style, but she's doing it weird and wrong. should i tell her? or what? because i don't want her to be embarrased but i don't want to be rude..

That's quite a predicament - should you tell her becuase she's your friend but should you not becuase she will probably be angry/upset afterwards.

I went out once and met one of my friends in town one night after he had been to the cinema to see Pirates Of The Caribbean 2. He came over to me and started talking to me like Jack Sparrow. When Jack talks like that it looks kool because it suits his charictor - but when my friend did it he looked totally stupid and like there was something wrong with him. I think he figured part of that out when he saw I was standing there staring at him with a very puzzled look. I had to tell him to stop because although it takes a lot to embaress me (I usually do a lot of stupid things when I'm out) he looked (sounded) VERY stupid and I didn't want to be there next to him. I told him to stop cause it looked stupid. True story that.

I guess it's really up to you though. When she does it maybe ask her why she's smiling like that. When she tells you (just say something like she didn't used to smile like that and you just noticed it) and when she says why she does ask her to do it again so you can see it again. Then just bring up how she's not doing it right. Hopefully you can help her get it right or at the very least get her to stop until she can do it properly. Either way at least then you'd have done your bit as her friend. :]

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this is gonna be long. sorry.

theres this guy and on tuesday he was all over me.
i had an sra (school related absence) on monday and he had one wednesday. well, we were texting back and forth all day on tuesday. he told me that he liked me and he walked me to most of my classes. we almost kissed three times. his mom called the second time and he had to go immeditally. so we hugged, and he left. he texted me after he left and said "i really wanted a kiss" that was tuesday. and wednesday, i saw him afterschool and he ignored me, but he was with his guy-friends. and today thursday i saw him after 6th period (he came to see me) and he gave me a hug and i said "its about time" my original plan was to tell him "dont touch me." cause i was pissed. but i ended up just saying its about time and he said "sorry i had stuff to do." he gave me another hug then went to class. (we were on high supervision) and then friday, i saw him in the morning before school and he gave me a hug without saying anything and then left. he hasnt texted me back, hasnt called, didnt go out of his way to come see me....

whats going on? im upset because on tuesday he was all over me and now he barely talks to me. i dont get it. i wont get to see him this weekend. what should i say to him when i see him on monday? i really like him. o. and from what ive been told from people that i know, they say that he doesnt really want a relationship, but i do. how do i get him to see this without telling him outright?'

im extrememely confused about this....

Hello.

I think this will be one situation where you will need to be outright about what you want because unless you are you won't get.

It does seem like he isn't interested in any kind of relationship (ignoring you when his friends were about is usually not a great sign and I thought was actually quite rude) but being honest with you if he isn't interested in a relationship you are probably better off putting a stop to this now before it gets too far and looking elsewhere. If he's not interested in a relationship (in which case all he's after is a bit of 'fun') then I doubt there will be anything you can say or do to change his mind. Also, playing devils advocate here, there is nothing stopping him from lying to get what he wants. If you say you want a relationship and he doesn't he can quite easily say he does just to get his way.

If you can't talk to him I suggest texting him to ask him what the score is and what he's after/looking for. If he's not after the same thing as you then you can tell him to lay off and you can find someone better, who is looking for the same thing as yourself. I know it's easily said but trust me there's plenty guys out there and guaranteed you'll very easily find someone better. :]

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As stated, I've gained ten pounds, and belly.
Binge eating and being lazy.
I've really come to terms with it though, and actauly kinda like my new soft squishy look.
But I was wondering, do guys mind it?
My friend says he won't date a girl unless she has a cushion, and he thinks that my belly is beautiful and taht I should gain even more weight.

But do guys normaly think like him?
Do they like a girl with a little extra weight?

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Hiya. :]

Well, let me start off by saying you look awesome! :D Belly and all. :P

Every guy is different - some like one thing and others like another. Some like their girls with big... chests. Others (like myself) couldn't care less either way... not like I'll be sitting around talking to a girls chest really. :/ Some like their girls tall and others short etc, etc, etc. The list can go on and on. Some guys do think like your friend but not all - guys can be very picky.

I personally thought you look great from your pictures and I don't generally mind how a girl looks because all that matters in the end is personality. :] Just concentrate on the ones who accept you for who you are and ignore the ones who can't. The ones who won't accept you for you are usually the ones you can do without. :]

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this may be a little long, but i really need someone elses inout. thanks in advance! ok, so my best friend went out with this kid that i used to like, but havent talked to in a couple years. they broke up in like january of this year, and me and him started talking again. and one thing led to another, and we both found ourselves liking eachother again. i felt terrible, because hes my bestfriends ex, so i talked to her about it, and she said shes totally fine and that she wants me to go out with him. she also told me to feel free to talk about him to her, because we are best friends. but whenever i talk about him to her, she seems wicked uncomfortable. so i said somehting to her about it last night, and she swore up and down that she was fine with it. for some reason, i think she still likes him, but she swears she doesnt, and she told him she doesnt. she tells me all the time that she wants me to go out with him becuase she thinks it will make things better becuase they fight all the time. me and him flirt all the time and talk online 24/7 and on the phone all the time, and we've made it very clear that we like eachother. even though shes fine with me going out with him, i still feel that she wouldnt be, even though i know in my head she is. and whenever we talk about going out, she always comes to my mind. i've decided im not going to talk about him to her anymore, but i dont know if i should go out with him if he asks me out. i know me and her will always be friends even if i go out with him, but i still dont know if i should. any input will help a lot. thanks!

I'd have to agree with Bestfriendswithimforever for the most part. As for not talking about him to your friend completely that might be a mistake as it might come across as you not wanting her to know about it all (that your hiding it from her). Talk to her (especially when/if he does ask you out) but be subtle and not overdo it. She may not have much feelings left for him but I can understand in her place how awkward it can be when your best friend and your ex start seeing each other. It makes it feel a little awkward or at least with some it does anyway. She may say as well that she's fine with it but truth is she may not be deep down but is saying she is because she wants you to be happy which is probably what you would do in her place as well no doubt. Let him make the first move and when he does talk to your friend about it a final time and as long as she's ok with it then by all means go for it and see what happens. Just don't flood your friend with details of you and her ex because things like that are sometimes just things an ex might not want to hear. :] Good luck.

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I have been single for a couple months now And it seems that guys think i`m hot but none of them want to date me. Is there something wrong with me? I dont like being single anymore I want to find someone that will make me feel special and that I can spend time with. Why dont guys want to date me?!

Just be patient. When you start getting desperate to get into a relationship you tend to just go with whoever turns up first and that can be a mistake because it's more out of fear of being alone than of you actually liking the person. In the long run it just causes a lot of problems.

A couple of months being single isn't bad at all, I've been single almost 2 years now. Give yourself time and guys will come along. I've no doubt that you are hot so just be patient - let them come to you. ;] It's just a matter of the right person coming along which I promise you will happen eventually. Also, if there's a particular guy that you like why not make the first move? Talk to whoever it is, get to know them, hint to them that you like him. My ex was really pretty, to the point that I thought I'd have no chance with her so I just never said anything. I think she evetually realised I liked her because she was the one who made the first move by telling me that she likes me. The relationship ended badly (hence being single for so long now) but that's history now. It might just be guys are afraid to say anything to you. But don't forget most guys (especially if you're young) are afraid to get into a relationship. They don't like the idea of the being tied down to just one girl so that might also be something.

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what does this say to you
im a 14 yr old girl
does it say i like you
or like i want to be your friend with benefits???
what does it say
im way confused...


would you makeout with me me?
[] Hell Yea [x] Yes [] No [] Maybe

Would you sleep with me?
[] In an instant! [] Yes [] No [x] Maybe

Am I attractive?
[] Heck no [] hot as Hell [] Fine [x] Cute [] Okay [] Ugly!

Do you think I'm a virgin?
[x] Yes [] No [] Don't know

Name one thing you would like to do to me... [eh hang out]


I look like..
[] A player
[] One time thing
[/] Next bf/gf
[x] A friend
[x] A friend with benefits
[] A possibility
[] A loser

If you saw me for the first time would you talk to me?
[x] Yes [] No [] maybe

Would you rather.. ??
[x] Hook up with me
[x] Cuddle with me
[] Date me
[x] Friends
[] Friends with benefits

On a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), rate me..
[] 1 [] 2 [] 3 [] 4 [] 5 [] 6 [x] 7 [x] 8 [] 9 [] 10

What would you want me to be to you?
[x] Friend
[/] Girlfriend/Boyfriend
[x] Friend with benefits
[] Husband/Wife

Would you give me a lapdance?
[x] Hell Yea [] Yes [] No [] Maybe

Would u give me your number if so let me get it?you got it

thanks

I gotta go with what queenhearts has said really. :/ The guy seems to just be a perverted guy lookin to, excuse the expression, get some.

If this is some kind of survey thing he filled out on you I can almost guarantee if he had filled this out on another of his female 'friends' he'd have pretty much used the same kind of answers. I wouldn't take the answers too seriously at all. It just sounds like a guy that's desperate/perverted.

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I'm a 16/f, my best guy friend is 16 as well. The other day we were in a huge fight because things just haven't been the same for awhile, and he asked me this question: "What do I do that you like, or that makes you happy?" All I could say is I don't know, probably because I was really mad. This was on Sunday. We've been really good, no fights or anything since then, and I've been thinking about his question. I have a lot of answers for him, but I don't really want to say them in person. Would it be cute to leave it as a voicemail? Like, "Hey, I was thinking of what you do that makes me happy, and I like when.." and then just list everything?

Curious... if he's your best friend then how come you feel you can't tell him face to face?

Anyway, voice mail sounds like a good way to go about it if you feel you can't tell him to his face but failing that there's always email, IM or even txt messaging. Only thing with IM and text will be that he can reply to you as well but all of those would work well (as well as voicemail). Only thing with voicemail is that you'd have to make sure when you call it actually goes through to voicemail and he doesn't answer your call. Good luck. :]

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ok. so there's this guy on my bus who is usually like a total cocky ass little bitch and he really pisses me off. but he isn't anymore. he like sits at the back of the bus, lays down, and sulks. and i know this sounds rediculous but it pisses me off that he isn't being all cocky and shit. now, we aren't the best of friends [he's admitted that he's scared of me (probably cause i could totally kick his ass)] but it bothers me that he isn't being all cocky and stuff. now, the big thing is, i can't stand him but i have this "characteristic" or whatever that makes me want to solve everyone's problems [including this boys]. so, should i just beat him up so he'll be his normal self or just leave him alone or what? please help!

If he's keeping himself to himself then it seems only fair to just let him be and leave him alone. Beating him up isn't going to make him 'normal' again! So, just leave him alone. That way he's not being cocky and bugging everyone on the bus, everyone wins.

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I have been sick with mono for about 4 weeks ago and I think It's gone, however I feel that I am still not fully recovered. I participate in track and soccer and I regret that I have been practicing too hard too soon. Now, I am super sore and My question is how can I treat my sore muscles (mostly my hamstrings, quads, calves, and shins.. and also maybe abdominal muscles). How can I treat these so they can become less sore and so that I don't have to take it easy and stop playing sports?

14/f thanks!

Hi.

Sorry to hear about you being sick but it's good to know you're on the way to being better :]

For the sore muscles I think the best thing to use would be hot water bottles (just be sure not to use them while you are sleeping). You can also get patches which when applied to skin, will heat up. They are also very handy to use but again ensure you do not use them while being asleep. Most important of all - you need to give yourself time.

It will take time and patience to get back into your normal sporty self, you will need to start slowly and gradually get back into your normal routine letting your muscles adjust. You'll be able to play sports but you mustlet yourself heal up otherwise you'd only be doing your body more harm.

If the pain/soreness starts to get worse then seing your family doctor might be a good idea who can advise you a lot better than I can. Either way though good luck and take care yourself... give yourself time to heal. :]

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