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whats up with him?
this is gonna be long. sorry.
theres this guy and on tuesday he was all over me.
i had an sra (school related absence) on monday and he had one wednesday. well, we were texting back and forth all day on tuesday. he told me that he liked me and he walked me to most of my classes. we almost kissed three times. his mom called the second time and he had to go immeditally. so we hugged, and he left. he texted me after he left and said "i really wanted a kiss" that was tuesday. and wednesday, i saw him afterschool and he ignored me, but he was with his guy-friends. and today thursday i saw him after 6th period (he came to see me) and he gave me a hug and i said "its about time" my original plan was to tell him "dont touch me." cause i was pissed. but i ended up just saying its about time and he said "sorry i had stuff to do." he gave me another hug then went to class. (we were on high supervision) and then friday, i saw him in the morning before school and he gave me a hug without saying anything and then left. he hasnt texted me back, hasnt called, didnt go out of his way to come see me....
whats going on? im upset because on tuesday he was all over me and now he barely talks to me. i dont get it. i wont get to see him this weekend. what should i say to him when i see him on monday? i really like him. o. and from what ive been told from people that i know, they say that he doesnt really want a relationship, but i do. how do i get him to see this without telling him outright?'
im extrememely confused about this....
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Hello.
I think this will be one situation where you will need to be outright about what you want because unless you are you won't get.
It does seem like he isn't interested in any kind of relationship (ignoring you when his friends were about is usually not a great sign and I thought was actually quite rude) but being honest with you if he isn't interested in a relationship you are probably better off putting a stop to this now before it gets too far and looking elsewhere. If he's not interested in a relationship (in which case all he's after is a bit of 'fun') then I doubt there will be anything you can say or do to change his mind. Also, playing devils advocate here, there is nothing stopping him from lying to get what he wants. If you say you want a relationship and he doesn't he can quite easily say he does just to get his way.
If you can't talk to him I suggest texting him to ask him what the score is and what he's after/looking for. If he's not after the same thing as you then you can tell him to lay off and you can find someone better, who is looking for the same thing as yourself. I know it's easily said but trust me there's plenty guys out there and guaranteed you'll very easily find someone better. :]
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