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okay me n my boyfriend have been together since .. november 13 andhe went to this party tonight and the last party he went to he let a girl flash him and stuff so should i be worried if he sed he was sorry ?? (link)
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There's no way of telling whether or not he's sorry for doing it, or sorry for getting caught. You have every right to be worried.
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On the last day of school, these mean popular girls came up to me and started to pick a fight just for the fun of it. I got a little emotionable. Now next year I dont want that to happen again. What should i do to avoid that?
~*AhHhHhH*~ (link)
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The only way I've known to get them to stop is to ignore them. They'll eventually get tired of picking on someone who doesn't seem to care and move on to a different prey. If you get in their face, they may never stop. They do it to get a reaction from you, so don't give them one.
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Hey, Im looking to start a band on Long Island. I play guitar and I want my band to play things people have never heard before.I listen to bands like coheed and cambria,avenged sevenfold,rise against,taking back sunday,alexisonfire,lawrence arms,afi,and a static lullaby.stuff like that. If you know anyone that plays guitar,bass,or drums please answer this if you live close.
-CoHeEdANDsEvEnFoLd6- (link)
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This probably isn't the most productive way to look for band members. You've probably already tried this, but go to nearby music stores and post flyers. Make sure people around you know what type of musician your looking for.
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last night me n my best friend of 7 yrs got into this huge fight .. she said everything that bothered her but i had no problem with that. i was glad she did bcuz it hurtsz to keep it inside. but she didn't even want to give me a chance to fix it. i told her everything and we had great times hanging out. i don't want to lose her forever. i can't. shes the only one who's been there since i moved here. it hurts like fck to see all this crap in her away msgs about how she doesn't care anymore. i just want her back. i can't take her being mad. it kills me. i don't know what to do anymore :/ help me please (link)
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I wish I knew the whole situation, I'll give it my best shot anyway. Right now, I think she needs time alone to collect her thoughts and decide what to do. Everytime someone gets everything out in the open, they need time to think about what it means to do so. Try to hold off from trying to get forgiveness for now. It's almost impossible to tell when the right time will be to talk to her. In truth, she may never forgive you. I've seen instances where best friends separate for good, over one incident. It's even painful to watch, let alone actually going through it. I think if she were to ever forgive you, she'd come to you in time. If you tried your best to talk to her, then that's all you can do. She'll know how much you care through this, and if she is ever going to come around she'll probably do it herself.
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I like this boy Matt, long story shortened: he likes me, I like him. I make him horny...
Me and him have fooled around (touching, looking, etc) but we still haven't kissed. I want a relationship with him and I want to kiss him but I just don't know how to tell him without being completely blunt. I want to be creative but I'm kind of scared of how he'll react. I know he probably wants the same thing(he even said he wanted to be my boyfriend) but he still hasn't asked me out or anything. I don't know if he's just scared or what. I could really use some advice. Thanks :) (link)
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with being blunt. Sometimes it's the only right way to tell someone. I know there's nothing romantic about it, but if you wait long enough searching for the right way to tell him, it might be too late. He told you that he wanted to be your boyfriend, and you're still not dating. He's probably scared out of his mind. That was his subtle way of asking you out. I think you should just tell him how much he means to you. And do it soon.
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How old are ppl when they have THE kiss? Like what's the most likely age? (link)
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I've kissed before, but I never really felt anything. I've french kissed (I think. It's been so long) I guess if by kiss you mean a meaningful kiss, then I still haven't had one. I'm 19. I know, I'm a freak. I guess I just haven't been in love yet. And if the kiss means to you, simply a french kiss. Then my first was in elementary school.
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Is this poem OK?
people always tell me i'm not like others,
i don't fit in with the preps and am not like the brothers,
I like to listen to Aerosmith and P.O.D,
Is there any other way i should be?
I don't have a certain way to dress,
For someone i hardly know to impress,
I don't watch movies about cheerleaders,
And i hardly go to the movie theatres,
I just am myself and no one can change my rep,
Except maybe good old johnny depp
That last verse was a joke
Pleez rate the poem 1-10. Thank you
Lizzy (link)
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I'll give it a 7. Before you give this number any thought in comparison to the other ratings, know that I'd give my own a 6. My work isn't terrible, so this is good. Above average for your level. And even though the last one was a joke, given the situation I bet he could change your rep. With the exception of Johnny Depp (Who I think is a great actor by the way), Aerosmith (I don't like much of there stuff. Dream on was a good song), and POD (I'm more of a VOD fan), this poem almost described me in high school.
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write me about em...
ugahottie321 on AIM and Advicenators
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I am not a poet. I've never had anything published nor have I ever attempted to. But I do know some things about poetry. First, don't take Derfel's harsh opinion to heart. Derfel (I'm guessing) is an accomplished poet and judges your work on a professional level. I'm sure you're young, and you aren't as experienced as some. These aren't terrible pieces, nor are they flawless. For I think you should be more visual in your approach. Try to use similes, allusions, analogies, etc to help explain your message. Don't just tell us how you feel, show us. And if you can't think of a good word to rhyme, then don't rhyme. I'n my opinion, rhyming is one of the least important parts of poetry. And as for reading great poet's work to get better, you should would be careful what you read. Make sure you have a dictionary handy if you read any of Percy Shelley or Dylan Thomas, they tend to refer to an older language. D. H. Lawrence and Walter De La Mare can have some pretty simplistic work. If you read William Shakespeare, make sure it's not heavily in the Elizabethan vernacular. It can get pretty confusing. Some of his sonnets are less confusing if you really want to get into his work. Hopefully I didn't anger Derfel because of this.
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does anyone know any good techniques for basketball to get ur left hand stronger?
~i rate good~ (link)
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Try wearing weights on your left wrist.
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does anyone know any good songs? i like alternative music. but i would like songs that u never hear, but have a good message or are about couples. (link)
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I have a ton of songs with good messages. Actually, I'll just list bands and albums if that's alright.
These bands scream a lot
the bled: pass the flask
refused: the shape of punk to come
blindside: a thought crushed my mind
Norma Jean: bless the martyr kiss the child
These don't
Porcupine Tree (Anything by them)
T(I)NC (Anything by them)
Bands that have a confusing message but are fun to listen to
The Blood Brothers (Anything by them)
Fear Before The March of Flames: Odd how people shake
mindless self indulgence (Anything, but "Tight" if you can find it)
The Locust (Plague Soundscapes)
36 crazyfists (Bitterness the star)
Contact me if you like any of these bands, and I'll give you more bands that are considered to be in the same genre.
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ive been criticizing other peoples poems and i would like to know what people think of some of my work...
The knife
Seductively strokes your arm
The sharp pain
The tiny droplet
Nothing
The blade
Drawn down your forehead
The an abrupt bliss
A bloody tear
Nothing
The dagger
Slitting your wrist
A delightful innervation
The extravagant red
Nothing
The switchblade
Cold at your throat
Lack of breath
A graceful fountain
Nothing
The scythe
Ripped down your back
The first true pain
Death’s eyes are beautiful
You find no God
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Who wrote this? I'd really like to know. Ummm? Very descriptive, dark tone, you're actually showing this emotion as opposed to telling it. Several of the others I've read always told the emotion (I'm depressed, I'm angry, etc). The language used isn't very commonplace, that's good. It's a bit repetitive, but that's okay. It's good, better than most I've read around here.
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me and my boyfriend are 13, he has these 2 friends who i am also friends with and i get on with them really well and i am good friends with them. is it ok to be close friends with my bf's mates? i don't fancy them or anything so is it ok? (link)
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I don't see why not. One of my best friends (I'm a guy, she's a girl) started out as my friend's girlfriend.
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this question is kinda complex...but im gonna try and make it as simple as possible...Basicaly i see myself as getting less and less attractive by the day lol, and im getting the idea that the girls are thinking the same thing. See, i used to be pretty damn popular and liked by the ladies, and i still am, but its waring off, and im not getting the attention i used to, which is fine, but im wondering.....is a girl gonna loose interest in me based more on my looks getting better or worse...or are they gonna stick around for my personality????? Thanks, adam (link)
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I know exactly how you feel, and it sucks. When I quit all of my sports almost all at once, I gained over 30 lb. It seems though, that I didn't lose too much attention. Thankfully, from what I've seen guys are pickier than girls. Girls think about personallity more, and it tends to be us guys who are more likely to be shallow.
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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE? (link)
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I want to say false, but I have no proof of it. One of my friends has cheated on his now exgirlfriend, and I'm not sure if he'll ever change in that department. I don't think I'm capable of cheating anyway. I'm not the "fling" kind of guy. Even if I was with someone who wasn't "the one", and then I met "the one", I still wouldn't cheat.
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Is being sheltered a bad thing? And is it a turn off?? Is it bad and considered "shelted" if I've never vacuumed, and I don't know what a garbage disposal, mop, and wrench are??? And what does this make me?? Stupid?? Cute?? Funny?? I'm always the one giving the advice.. this is different.. anyways, PLEASE COMMENT!!! (link)
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Nope, no, nope. It makes you cute and funny. I lead a similar life and I'm adorable and hilarious.
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hey u wrote this...
I thought that punks normally don't care about what people think, they didn't think of it as a fashion, and they were very accepting of people as long as they had an open mind. They didn't dislike anyone who wouldn't conform to their ways. As a matter of fact, that's the opposite of what they stood for. Well, maybe that's just how punks act where I'm from.
and u r totally rite but still it isnt the fact that she is a prep and im not (i really shouldnt have even mentioned that) but she has really different beliefs and she talks behind my back and none of MY friends like her. so i was wondering if i could have some advice now that u no the rest of the story.
IT ISNT BECAUSE SHE IS A PREP !
and ne way i am against labels but i thought that it might help in this situation but i guess not.
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My questions is why don't you want her to feel bad if she talks behind your back? Tell her that you are going through some problems and can't see her. Tell her you'll call her when the problems are resolved, and just never call her again. I've never done this, but had it done to me once. Good times. Afterwhich restrain yourself from having conversations that reach passed the casual mark. I figured if she can talk about you behind your back, then you're allowed to lie to her.
Oh, and for future reference, use details instead of labels. Details (What she does that annoys you) are more helpful. Good luck.
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hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ? (link)
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Just stop hanging out with her, keep conversations at a mininum, and don't call her.
I thought that punks normally don't care about what people think, they didn't think of it as a fashion, and they were very accepting of people as long as they had an open mind. They didn't dislike anyone who wouldn't conform to their ways. As a matter of fact, that's the opposite of what they stood for. Well, maybe that's just how punks act where I'm from.
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what do i do here...
i wish that my parents would get a devorce at
points. there a very unlikely couple i guess u could say and i really dont like my dad that much...he walks around with no shirt on, beer belly, and the house that we moved into i have to walk through there room to get to my room and its really annoying when i have friends over. my parents get into fights a lot and i go into my room and cry and my mom thinks im stupid for doing that, like she thinks i exagerate. in the summer my mom just works on the weekends and leaves me home with my brother and dad which i hate. my dad will buy me practically anything i want-cellphone, trampoline but i think he just gets me all this stuff bc he thinks i love him more or something. and i feel worse for my brother bc he has to put up with even mor eof his crap. i so scared im going to grow up like my dad or something. please help...tell me, am i being a brat? (link)
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Well, you've almost described my dad (except mine doesn't buy me things), and I wish I could spend more time with him. I doubt you'll grow up to be your dad, but you will inherit some things from him. I don't think you're being a brat per se. If there was the slightest annoyance, anyone would grow tired of there living situation. It sucks when parents fight, but remember, some people are far worse off.
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I went out with this guy for a month n 3 weeks I was happi but this is what happened we went out beofre but I dumped him to go out w some other guy which I didnt n abotu a month later my ex got a new gf n it did make me upset bc I did still like him so later his gf dumped him bc she kissed his friend then two days later he asked me out again n I said yes but this one day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" that is n he told me that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride but the thing was when my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes liek are you a virgan n I said yes n then I asked him n hes like no I just did it w one girl n I was like okai n was about to talk about some other stuff until he started talking about the girl he fucked n told me her name n all, wat bf tells his gf wat the girl who he fucked name was? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf went to her house w his 2 friends n my friends friend was their (kati) n my bf was saying " i love you kati dont leave me kati bc I love you" then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too then n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which is soo not true then hes like "I dont give a fuck if you beleive me or not beleive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it thank you... (link)
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You are most definitely NOT overreacting. He sounds like he's fooling around behind your back, and doing a horrible job covering it up. If you have these suspicions, and you think he's probably not the right one, then I think you should leave him.
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i like this guy and he gave me his phone number. but i am too nervous to call him cause i LIKE HIM ALOT! now my friend and i were looking at the number and now we both think that this number is a fake. it just doesnt look like a home phone number or even a cell. and this guy is the kind to play pranks on everyone. u see he wrote this in everyones year book. and i think it isnt a real number. so should we call it? or just leave it alone. it is really bothering us. it racks our brains. !!!
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What I would do is call the number, when someone answers I would say something like "(his name) gave me this number, is he there?", that way if it's a fake, at least the people at that place would be mad at him not you. I wouldn't be able to handle the not knowing, so I would definitely call the number. If you do decide to call the number, tell me how it goes, you got me curious.
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