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It all happened so fast


Question Posted Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:49 am

I like this boy Matt, long story shortened: he likes me, I like him. I make him horny...
Me and him have fooled around (touching, looking, etc) but we still haven't kissed. I want a relationship with him and I want to kiss him but I just don't know how to tell him without being completely blunt. I want to be creative but I'm kind of scared of how he'll react. I know he probably wants the same thing(he even said he wanted to be my boyfriend) but he still hasn't asked me out or anything. I don't know if he's just scared or what. I could really use some advice. Thanks :)


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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 6:10 pm:
i would say when you guys are *fooling areound* that would be the perfect time! because i would think that he would kind of expect it! so just go in for it!!! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota

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dancer_freak05 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 6:01 pm:
you ask him out instead

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 2:05 pm:
Well when you goings are "fooling around" kiss him.. im assuming its the perfect time to do it. I am sure he won't react to bad just go for it. Trying doesnt kill. If you dont then you'll regret it. He isnt scarred just nervous (yes they are diff. things)-trix

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spoiledx3shortii answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 9:32 am:
Well i think if he actually said he wants to be your bf then you should ask him out yourself.. i doubt hes scared, he probably just doesnt know if you feel the same.. so either find a way to tell him you like him and wait 4 him to ask you out or be assertive and ask him out yourself!
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S_C answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 8:19 am:
you could ask him out, there's nuthin wrong wit askin out a guy, grls ask guys and guys ask grls

in my opinion, the only way sumthin will happen is if u r blunt

try hangin at his house playin a game, or watch tv/movie and cuddle

maybe he'll get the hint, if not be blunt lol!

Hope this helps more for u!

but your only 13, don't go too far!!

After Feedback: ooo ok, i got ya now!! i deleted sum stuff that wouldn't work, and added sumthin else that mite :-)

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storageanddisposal answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 8:04 am:
There's absolutely nothing wrong with being blunt. Sometimes it's the only right way to tell someone. I know there's nothing romantic about it, but if you wait long enough searching for the right way to tell him, it might be too late. He told you that he wanted to be your boyfriend, and you're still not dating. He's probably scared out of his mind. That was his subtle way of asking you out. I think you should just tell him how much he means to you. And do it soon.

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randomdude answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 3:50 am:
tell his boy u want him to ask u out that always works and believe me u will end up getting that kiss and boyfriend u want
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Roxybabii922 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 3:27 am:
Be really flirty with him, sit really close to him and keep looking at him he will get the clue that you want to kiss, or maybe ask him when you and him will be together.. just be really flirty

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