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hey u wrote this...
I thought that punks normally don't care about what people think, they didn't think of it as a fashion, and they were very accepting of people as long as they had an open mind. They didn't dislike anyone who wouldn't conform to their ways. As a matter of fact, that's the opposite of what they stood for. Well, maybe that's just how punks act where I'm from.
and u r totally rite but still it isnt the fact that she is a prep and im not (i really shouldnt have even mentioned that) but she has really different beliefs and she talks behind my back and none of MY friends like her. so i was wondering if i could have some advice now that u no the rest of the story.
IT ISNT BECAUSE SHE IS A PREP !
and ne way i am against labels but i thought that it might help in this situation but i guess not.
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My questions is why don't you want her to feel bad if she talks behind your back? Tell her that you are going through some problems and can't see her. Tell her you'll call her when the problems are resolved, and just never call her again. I've never done this, but had it done to me once. Good times. Afterwhich restrain yourself from having conversations that reach passed the casual mark. I figured if she can talk about you behind your back, then you're allowed to lie to her.
Oh, and for future reference, use details instead of labels. Details (What she does that annoys you) are more helpful. Good luck.
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