me and my boyfriend are 13, he has these 2 friends who i am also friends with and i get on with them really well and i am good friends with them. is it ok to be close friends with my bf's mates? i don't fancy them or anything so is it ok?
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 2:07 pm: Yea, its okay to be friends with his friends!! Then, you know his friends like you and you don't have to worry about them talking bad about you to your boyfriend. So, of course its okay to be friends with your boyfriend, just don't flirt with them! lol
xsweetpeax answered Sunday July 18 2004, 2:01 pm: of course itsz ok . . itsz actually rele qood now if your bf wantsz to qo out with you and all hisz friendsz somewhere youll have no problem qettinq alonq with them - / > rate me please =)) [ xsweetpeax's advice column | Ask xsweetpeax A Question ]
spoiledx3shortii answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:17 pm: yeah... it is a good thing because then when you hang oout w/ your bf you can also hang out w/ them or w/e... but don't begin flirting or w/e with your boyfriends friends bcuz i can guarentee he will bcome jealous...
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Mel answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:45 pm: In my opinion, it's fine. But, in your boyfriend's opinion, it might not be. If you and your boyfriend are serious, then you should take time out and ASK HIM if he thinks it's alright that you're close with his friends. If it's just a fling, then i wouldn't worry about it too much, and i'd hang around with them. your choice, you decide. [ Mel's advice column | Ask Mel A Question ]
drifting_nimbus answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:02 pm: Of course it is! My bf's friends are like my brothers, we hang out all the time. As long as everything you and your guy do isn't plagued by friends then you should be fine. Hope I helped! Em'lee [ drifting_nimbus's advice column | Ask drifting_nimbus A Question ]
L0VELLE answered Sunday July 18 2004, 11:47 am: yes it's totally fine in my opinion- as long as you have trust between you two and he realizes that all that you have for his friends are "frienship feelings" then there should be no problems...if he doesn't seem comfortable with it- make him and yourself understand that trust is the biggest thing in a relationship as well as honesty- as long as you keep those two grounded...you should be fine =] hope i helped ...let me know
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DruidX answered Sunday July 18 2004, 8:44 am: Why shouldn't it be okay? I mess about with my b/fs mates all the time, and they aren't just 'his' mates, they are mine too.
Go for it :) [ DruidX's advice column | Ask DruidX A Question ]
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