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i hate my life..
what do i do here...
i wish that my parents would get a devorce at
points. there a very unlikely couple i guess u could say and i really dont like my dad that much...he walks around with no shirt on, beer belly, and the house that we moved into i have to walk through there room to get to my room and its really annoying when i have friends over. my parents get into fights a lot and i go into my room and cry and my mom thinks im stupid for doing that, like she thinks i exagerate. in the summer my mom just works on the weekends and leaves me home with my brother and dad which i hate. my dad will buy me practically anything i want-cellphone, trampoline but i think he just gets me all this stuff bc he thinks i love him more or something. and i feel worse for my brother bc he has to put up with even mor eof his crap. i so scared im going to grow up like my dad or something. please help...tell me, am i being a brat?
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well it sounds like you dont get along with your dad and if they do end up divorcing then you most likely wont end up w/ him...and about ur mom...well i would just say screw her...i mean...it sounds like shes a real well u know...and about the house situation...you should try to talk to both your parents about it and just tell him that you dont like how the rooms are arranged and if they could maybe look for a new house and sell this one soon...and no1 wants their parents to get a divorce...but if they do...IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT...and dont think that it is! oh and if your mom tells you to stop crying just tell her mom i am crying bcuz of you and dad not getting along and just be like i want yall to get along and be happy so i wont have to be sad all the time! and see what happens! good luck n let me know if i can help u!
xox ash xox
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Well i guess you are at that age were you favor one parent over another.. everybody goes thru that age and your dad probably just wants you two to have a good relationship between eachother and he i am sure wants to be there for you-trix
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U seem confused about your feelings.. i think u should just kind of be silent and listen more.. get the whole picture.. and when u finally get enough and just live life.. no need to be embarrassed.. talk with ur family tell them that nothing they buy will change how u feel for em.. and they need to be more conciderate of your feelings.. another thing.. just keep positive and stay strong.. and u wont grow up like them..
KYLE
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honey your not being a brat at all! you are free to express your emotions about whoever and whatever any way you want...if you dont like the way things are going then thats your buisness. And adults fight sometimes...some parents fight all the time. I remeber when ever something like that was going on in between my family i would do the same as you did....just go in my room and cry...but you know that just shows that you care and love your family and that you dont like it when there are any problems between them. Try telling your mom that...sit btoh of your parents down one nght and just talk to them...tell them how you feel about your life at present...hope everything works out!!!
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your not stupid for doing that and your NOT being a brat!!.. i think you and your family, one night - sit around a table or something and talk about all this stuff that is happening in your life and the problems at home, that you jus told me.. you wont grow up to be like your dad unless u make yourself grow up to be like him, and dont make your self think you will. im sry if i didnt help much but thats all i could think of.. im sry and i hope everything goes rightt!
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Well,in layman's terms,yes. It's his place and he may walk around in whatever the hell he wants. Every couple gets into fights and you don't indicate that he's abusing your mom,so he must not be. He buys you things probably because he knows what you think of him and this is his way of trying to tell you that he cares about you. Will you grow up to be like your parents? Yes. It's inevitable because you are a part of them. I'm not saying you'll have the beer gut,but yeah you'll take on some of his and your mother's habits. Talk it out with pops and ask him why he's treating your brother like shit.
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your not beinq a brat at all . . nd dont listen to your mom ur not exaqeratinq when you cry everyone hasz those momentsz. remember your not qoinq to qrow up and be like your father unlesz you want to and by you beinq annoyed by most of the thinqsz he doesz i hiqhly doubt youll be anythinq like him . you suld talk to ur dad and explain to him that theresz maniie thinqsz he doesz the embaressez you and that you hate your parentsz alwaysz fitinq like thisz.tell him that by just buyinq you stuff osnt makinq your relationship any stronqer. hope everythinq qoesz well rate me please =)) and if you need anymore help just ask me hun xo
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that sounds exactly like my family, i know what youre going through. just talk to your mom when shes home and tell her how you feel. shell probably understand. but then again, you have to realize that he is your dad and no matter what you will love him and he will love you, so even if there are times that you want to slit his throat, deep down you still love him. try to remember that and hopefully everything will work out
i hope i helped you.
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Oh my god your family reminds me exactly like mine but all i can say is be yourself your not being a brat your just speaking the truth
Love ya , ashley
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Your not being a brat. Believe me your not going to grow up like your dad unless you want to..obviously you dont. Maybe you should just tell ur dad that u dont want him to buy u stuff just for u to like him. But if ur parents really do love each other u dont want them to get a divorce. Thats the last thing u need. hope i helped. -candace
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Well, you've almost described my dad (except mine doesn't buy me things), and I wish I could spend more time with him. I doubt you'll grow up to be your dad, but you will inherit some things from him. I don't think you're being a brat per se. If there was the slightest annoyance, anyone would grow tired of there living situation. It sucks when parents fight, but remember, some people are far worse off.
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ur not being a brat!! you just dun like ur dad...dont listen 2 ur mom by sayin u exagerate, its not ur fault!! but i mena dont use ur dad...sit down n tlk 2 him!! tlel him hes gunna ruin ur relationship n buying u stuff wont make it better! gl..
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