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im a 15 year old girl...i've been friends with this guy for almost a year, and me and my friends hang out with him and his friends a lot, so we're kinda like a little group. earlier this year we went out, but nothing happened (we didnt even kiss and it was hard cuz we went to different schools). while we were going out i heard shit all the time about how he liked another girl or w/e and i tried to ignore it all. well..after about a month we broke up cuz we agreed it wasnt really a relationship. ive liked him ever since we broke up and hes had 1 g/f since me, but they jsut recently broke up. i think he knows i like him and i really want to tal to him about how i feel, i just dont know how to do it or if we should just go on being friends and nothing more. im scared if we go out again things will be the same as they were(even tho we'll be going to the same school this year) (link)
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i think you should tell him, cuz he might also have feelings for you - and plus now u guys are gunna be goin to the same school so things could be gettin better if you guys go out.. so i think you and him should have alil talk and tell him the feelings you still have for him =) rate me and write me back sometime!
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Hi..I'm Jessica and I'm 15. Ive known my friend Jesse for around..5 years now and we used to be really close friends. Inseperable. He moved away and i hadnt seen him in 2 years. Now hes back (I dont know for how long.) But hes back. We have started to hang out again. I really like it. I really like him more than a friend. I REALLY like him. Hes always on my mind-I even dream about him. What should i do? Should I tell him-and risk our friendship? Or should I just live with it and just be his friend.
thanks :) (link)
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i think you should tell him cuz you never no, if you dont - u might miss a chance! so go for it and tell him - or have one of your friends ask him if he likes you or ask one of his friends, they might no! good luck =) rate me plz
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ok this is kind of embarrising...but can u tell me how 2 make out? (link)
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i cant relle explain it but its really easy - my 1st time i thought it was gunna be hard but it wasnt.. it just comes naturally - sry and good luck =)
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Hey Im 14 and both me n my friend Cut ...i started and then she started after me n me n her are best friends..i knwo she does it for atension cuz she doesnt cut deap...but i guess i kinda cut deap..i dont do it often but still ppl found out n they think diferently about me...and alot of my friends i cant hang out with anymore...and then my friend who cuts with me is like always depresed and has weird mood swings i try helping her but it doesnt seem to work ...i dont want to loose our friendship cuz she means the world to me but yea i dono..pppl are starting to get to her...they call her suicidle cuz she buts weird away messages up and stuf...but yea i need to know wat i can do to help her cuz i tried talking n she already goes to theropy but i need to help her bcuz i cant handle her crying anymore....help please (link)
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okay, well i never really was in a situation like this before but people in my school were. so what i think is wether you knew or didnt know she would follow you, you shouldnt have satrted it. theres nothing that bad that you cant fix. you don't have to hurt yourself. my cousins friend is in foster care for it and had to go to a certain hospital for cutting.she lost many privlidges and friends. and cutting turned into even more suicidal attempts. so personally, i think you should stop. and as for your friend, you need to sit with her and explain that theres other things she can do besides hurting herself. tell her that there are too many people who care for her and if she ended up commiting suicide, even people who didnt know her too well would be affected. thats like a girl in my school named amanda, she hung herself over a boy and because of her father.. even poeple who didnt know her were deeply affected. if shes your age too, then you need to tell her that she has her whole life ahead of her and to think of the positive things.. not everything is bad, and if it is it will soon get better. she needs to realize that even though she doesnt cut deep, it could keep affecting her. i know she doesnt think anythings wrong with it now but one day it might be too late. im sure she doesnt wanna cut. and im sure yeah, maybe she might do it for attention but one day she mihgt slip and cut a little too deep. im not sure if i helped you out or not but cutting is a serious issue. both you and her need to stop before it turns into something bigger. write me back with what happens. =) (rate me please)
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Ok so I feel really stupid for doing this....but ok, I've been dating my boyfriend Jake for 7 months now...and we're totally in love and everything between us is really good...but ok he has an ex-girlfriend, and she tries to get back w/ him alllll the time!!! I know that she knows it bothers me, but I've never said anything to her because I don't want to sounds psyco ya know!? but like....when she sits there and bashes me and tries to talk about when they were together and how much she still likes him and blahblahblah...it really makes me jealous! I don't thing he would cheat on me, but it just gets to me that she won't move on with her life and leave us the hell alone! Expecially because he's broken up with me before, for her...Is it ok to say something to her? and if I do how do I say it and not sound bitchy? I don't want to totally make her hate me because we hang out w/ a lot of the same people..even though we're not friends, I don't want her to like not be able to be civil with me....what could I say to her without being psyco!? (link)
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ah i hate girls, this shit always happens - i think u should say suttin to her or say suttin to ur boyfriend to tell her that he doesnt like her, he likes you and hes never gunna go back out with her and to jus back off.. im not sure but if i were u, id say something to her - but idk how to say suttin in a nice way lol i guess.. just tell her straight out, " look i wanna be civil with u but you and my bf are thru, so jus try to move on and stay outta our relationship, theres plenty of guys out there that arent takin so jus try to stay out of our relationship " im not sure if that sounds bitchy but i donno what to say lol, maybe jus have ur bf talk to her .. hope i helped alil! write me bac with what happens =) rate me plz
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im 14 and i've been friends with one of my best friends nicole for a few years..and both of us are are good friends with these 2 guys. the thing is that whenever we're around them..she always acts like i'm not there or tries to act like she better than me..and also with other friends..she tries to get me jealous of something. when we're alone she's fine..but it annoys me that she does all those things around other people..how can i tell her to stop because if i tell her the wrong way she'll probably get mad at me and get other people to be mad at me by kind of changing the story. also..i still want to be friends with her..but i can't stand what she does anymore (link)
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im in the same situation.. but i think you to should go out for the day and just talk to her about wat ur tellin me and say sutin like " i dont want you to be madd at mee but..." and jus tell her straight out - i hope everything goes alright.. i no how u feel - i wanna tell my friend to but i dont want her to get madd at me but ima tell her one of these days.. write me sometimeee =) ratee
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Hi I'm 14, and I'm a girl. something has been bothering me for the past month or so and I was wondering if maybe you could help me? What is the difference between a bj and head? Everyone makes it sound like its the same thing but is it really? I'm going into highschool and I dont want to look stupid if that were to ever happen to me, like being asked to give someone head or a blow job or something. Are they the same thing? uhh I'm so confused but I'm scared to ask my friends about it. I dont want them to think that I'm crazy or something!! HELP PLEASE!!! (link)
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bj and head are the same exact thing! bj means blowjob and thats head.. there is no difference - so bj and head are the same thing, no difference - its ok u can ask me nething, i dont think ur crazy or make fun of you - rate plz =))
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hey you might remember me..i sent this question-
hey this might be a little long..
i've liked this guy for about a year and we were just friends and like a month or two ago we started chillen, talking about a relashionship, making out non-stop, meeting each other constantly, i heard from his friends "yo tiffany, mike has been sayin he was gunna pimp it for the summer but he said since he met you things are gunna change" and then i went away for a week and when i got back i heard he messed with this girl and i didnt even ask him i was just like "im sure rebecca helped you take your mind off missing me" and we started fighting, he got mad that i listen to other ppl and he told me he didnt mess with her and then i asked him how he feels and he says he cant tell me right now and im like why and he says its hard..im expecting that hes gunna say he just wants to be friends, i dont know what to do im in love with him but im afraid if i walk away he wont come after me or if i saw we should just be friends 1st he's not going to be feeling that way i mean how can it go from loving me one day to completely ignoring me?? you know the song burn by usher thats how i feel..help me i dont know what to do
..okay well last night he IMed me online saying
him: baby im sorry for acting like a dick lately
me: okay but its still kind of hard not knowing how you feel and what to do and im sry too bc i know i've been a big bitch
him: lets just call it truse
i guess we're fine and going to start off from where we left off before the fight? im not sure but thats what it sounds like to me, but i still dont know how he feels, but i dont want to be annoying and ask, should i wait till we're in person and see how we chill, like if we chill as friends or something more then friends and ask him then or idk just help me please
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aw thats good things are starten to be okay now! well i say wait till ur in person together, bein alone, and just ask him how he feels about bein together - and if u wanna no if he likes you, ask him " why do u like me " and if he has no idea why, somethings up =/ well idk maybe that'll work well i hope everything goes alrightt! write me again =)
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im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him? (link)
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well if u dont want to be with him nemore you should tell him you think its time you guys break up but u still love him but things have changed and that u care about him and dont want him to hurt him self, and that you guys should stay as friends, and ur goin to high schools and u wanna start off fresh.. hope i helped alil =) write me sometime! rate me pleaze
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In the beginning of the year one of my ex-boyfriends got put into jail and whenever he came back he asked me. Well I told him I would go out with him if he swore he wouldnt do drugs anymore and he wouldnt cheat on me. Last week he went to his friends house and got high and drunk and told a girl he would go out with her well he call me that same night and was crying and told me all about it and then I called his older brother and his brother told me that he had made out with another girl at the movies that sunday. Well i got really upset with him and we broke up. That friday he was at the skatin ring with the girl and he was cryin because he missed me and I was cryin because I missed him. He told me that he would try to stop doin drugs and that he really loved me and that he would never do anything to intentionally hurt me, but I dont know if I should give him another chance. Should I give him another chance? I am a girl and im 15 years old. (link)
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well you did give him 2nd chances wen he was drunk that night, and he cheated on you again - you dont need this shit in your life, maybe you should just 4get him but if you trust him with him not doin drugs nemore and wont hurt you, then maybe you should give him a try and if he fucks up again, he didnt mean what he said and then you should 4get him - so either one i think? hope i helped alil, write me some time with what happend! rate me please
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Hey..ive liked this kid for such a long time and ive tried so many times to get away from him becuase i keep getting hurt but its so hard because he tells me exactly what I want to hear and gets my hopes up. But when he is around his friends or just randomly sometimes he can be so mean and not care at all and then when he needs someone he comes back to me. I was wonder if you think i should just give up and move on. (link)
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wow.. i think you should move on bcuz you seem like a person who doesnt need that kinda shit in their life, there are so many more men who can take your heart away =) or just you and him go out and talk about how u feel and what you told me and try to work things out.. you dont need this - hope i helped, write me sometime! rate me please
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hey this might be a little long..
i've liked this guy for about a year and we were just friends and like a month or two ago we started chillen, talking about a relashionship, making out non-stop, meeting each other constantly, i heard from his friends "yo tiffany, mike has been sayin he was gunna pimp it for the summer but he said since he met you things are gunna change" and then i went away for a week and when i got back i heard he messed with this girl and i didnt even ask him i was just like "im sure rebecca helped you take your mind off missing me" and we started fighting, he got mad that i listen to other ppl and he told me he didnt mess with her and then i asked him how he feels and he says he cant tell me right now and im like why and he says its hard..im expecting that hes gunna say he just wants to be friends, i dont know what to do im in love with him but im afraid if i walk away he wont come after me or if i saw we should just be friends 1st he's not going to be feeling that way i mean how can it go from loving me one day to completely ignoring me?? you know the song burn by usher thats how i feel..help me i dont know what to do (link)
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wow complecated situation =/ just confront him your feelings for him and that you do love him and wanna be with him but your afraid hes not gunna come after you after sayin you guys were talkin about a relationship.. he got ur hopes up and thats messed up - hope i helped alil.. write me sometime! rate me please
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im 14 and still a virgin. but ive done amost every thing but haveing sex. i go for older guys and im going into high school so im afraid that ill probly have sex soon that dosnt scare me wut dose is the thought of i might get pregneat. like my sister did.so i was thinking bout birth control
but i dont want my mom to know cuz then she will think i already did have sex or am about to soon (link)
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Talk to your sister - and have her get everything for birth control.. ur mom doesnt have to no =) or have some1 else that ur close with to help you get the birth controll stuff - hope i helped alil rate me
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Hey, this has been bothering me for a while. Me and my best friend have been friends ever since we were little, and then now all of a sudden we dont really talk anymore, and she hangs out with this slut who doesnt treat her right, my other best friend is moving away pretty soon, and I want my friend back, I relaly miss her, I've talked to her about it, I dont kno what to do.. (link)
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tell her you want her back and u miss her, and make a day so that the two of you could hang out, go to the mall beach or something and explain to her everything you told me.. hope i helped - write to me again =) rate me pleasee
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Hey im 15(female) and I have a very confusing life right now. I started dating an ex boyfriend a year ago, we only stayed together for 6 months but I loved him very much. I did everything with him he was my first. We broke up and he has not talked to me yet. I felt lonely so I thought that I should sleep with the most popular guy in school. He asked me out but I said no cause Knew he didnt really want to. Now I am sleeping with a good friend of his and my best friends cousin wants me to take his virginity. I am also talking to one of her best friends i like him a lot and when he found out about this he was very upset but he forgave me. She is dating a good friend of mine and she didnt really want to she asked me some stuff and i told her what i heard. He got mad at me and stopped talking to me and went behind my back. He told another girl to kick my ass and all. All I want is for someone to be there for me and im tired of sleeping with ppl for attention....What should I do??? (link)
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wow.. this was alil confusin.. who wen bhind ur back, ur ex or ur friends bestfriend? but whoever you should tell that boy ur feelings for him and that u want some1 or him, to be there for you bcuz u like him alot - thats all i could think of.. sry if i didnt help - rate plz
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first off i wuna say thanks about the advice on my boyfriend not lettin me talk to my ex -- but i have another ? .. my boyfriend lives like 5 min from my house nd since it's stupid to have to drive back nd forth from my house to his i jus want him to sleepover my house or me over his house nd my parents are bein irrational about it .. i think they should have more trust in me .. its not like im guna have sex wit him wen he sleeps over(they think cause he's 18 hes guna force me into things but he doesnt) .. how could i convince them that he should be allowed to sleep over?! (link)
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no problem i hope it works.. oh man this is a tuff one but im gunna try to help u, just tell ur parents that hes a reasonable guy and he'd never force u into doing nething - tell them that if he did force u, then u'd never do anything.. if they dont have ne trust in you then u have to earn their trust and maybe ask them "if he was a guy who'd force me into doing things i dont want to.. why would i be going out with him?" and maybe tell ur parents that you`ll sleep in the living room or something where you really wouldnt be able to do nething well idk but i hope i helped alil =)
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alright,ive been really good friends with for a long time. and now ive started to like him. problem? hes moving in august. ive been to afraid to tell him that i like him because i thought it would only make the fact that hes leaving harder. is telling him really worth it? even if our relationship would be over in a month? id really like some help. (link)
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dont be afraid to tell him cuz u mighta loose your chance! its always worth trying or atleast have ur friend ask him if he likes you or ask one of his friends.. it would be worth telling him u like him.. but that sucks hes moving away but i think you should tell him just to let him no even tho he is moving away =/ rate me plz
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i am a 13 year old boy and i always have threesomes with my dog and my dad while my little brother is taping. wat shud i do i really dont like it but im payed to do it and the money is good for cocaine. please give me advice (link)
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i hope ur kidding! that shit is gross.. dont do it
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hi im am 12 and whenever i get butfucked i poop and the boys beats me wat shud i do because i love to get it up the butt please help me ??? (link)
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wtf?? i hope ur kidding
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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin. (link)
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yeah from what i no.. guys ur age dont like hair down there - some do get disgusted
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