Ok so I feel really stupid for doing this....but ok, I've been dating my boyfriend Jake for 7 months now...and we're totally in love and everything between us is really good...but ok he has an ex-girlfriend, and she tries to get back w/ him alllll the time!!! I know that she knows it bothers me, but I've never said anything to her because I don't want to sounds psyco ya know!? but like....when she sits there and bashes me and tries to talk about when they were together and how much she still likes him and blahblahblah...it really makes me jealous! I don't thing he would cheat on me, but it just gets to me that she won't move on with her life and leave us the hell alone! Expecially because he's broken up with me before, for her...Is it ok to say something to her? and if I do how do I say it and not sound bitchy? I don't want to totally make her hate me because we hang out w/ a lot of the same people..even though we're not friends, I don't want her to like not be able to be civil with me....what could I say to her without being psyco!?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SummerBabe23 answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:02 am: ah i hate girls, this shit always happens - i think u should say suttin to her or say suttin to ur boyfriend to tell her that he doesnt like her, he likes you and hes never gunna go back out with her and to jus back off.. im not sure but if i were u, id say something to her - but idk how to say suttin in a nice way lol i guess.. just tell her straight out, " look i wanna be civil with u but you and my bf are thru, so jus try to move on and stay outta our relationship, theres plenty of guys out there that arent takin so jus try to stay out of our relationship " im not sure if that sounds bitchy but i donno what to say lol, maybe jus have ur bf talk to her .. hope i helped alil! write me bac with what happens =) rate me plz [ SummerBabe23's advice column | Ask SummerBabe23 A Question ]
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