I had a friend, Trey Davis, well he died because he was chasing after his dog and a car hit and killed him. I wanna see how he's doing, and I wanna tell him how I'm doing. Sometimes I feel like he's with me, gaurding me. But at other times, I feel sooo alone. I wanna know if you can help me out plz!
.::Chelsea::.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? EsseNeminem answered Sunday July 25 2004, 6:38 pm: How he is doing depends on what he has decided to do. A soul will go wherever it believes it will go, if he was Christian and believed himself to be a good person, he may have decided to be trapped in a manufactured heaven, or if he believed himself to be a bad person, he may have trapped himself in a manufactured hell. If he was not Christian, he may have remained on earth, somewhat confused, or moved on by reincarnation to a new body...or even to become a higher being. You will probably not be able to contact him, and if you take steps to do so, the situation can get very dangerous. I don't like saying that I have no answer, but I do not. If you try to contact him you open a sort of portal that will allow anyone and anything to come through, and even pretend to be this friend. Wherever he is, that is where his soul wanted to be. Secondly, if you feel a presence, it is almost definitely not be his. Chances are you should take measures to remove the spiritual bodies from your home, because they will make you believe they are someone that they never were. Be careful. I am sorry for your loss, just try to understand that his soul is content, because it decides to be where it is.
Contacting those who are no longer living is just a bad idea. I wish I could help you. [ EsseNeminem's advice column | Ask EsseNeminem A Question ]
xogiggles37xo answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:25 pm: im really sorry your friend died... but its real... he's still gone nothing you can do... just well ppl that have had ppl die talk to them b4 they go to sleep. you might not be able to hear them but they can probally hear you... at least thats wut i think. i hope you feel better and if you need anything else im me or sumthing i have aim n msn ether one im usally on both. hope i helpd n feel better. p.s. feeling alone is gunna happen after a while itll get better. just try and think possitive. ask ur other friends to come over when u really feel lonely. [ xogiggles37xo's advice column | Ask xogiggles37xo A Question ]
x3sweetbabiigrlx3 answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:38 am: I know how you feel. My grandfather passed away about a year an a half ago. We were exstremly close! I feel that he is with me at times and at times I don't and yes i feel alone! The thing is you need to realize he is there guarding over you!
He may not be visable but he is there. I have these little things were I just sit and cry. Not to get like kinda off but One time I was with my friend his sister and my boyfriend. We were in the car going back home and this song came on, and I just started crying. and NO one knew why until after we got out of the car and I had settled down. I've been told its ok to cry its ok to talk to yourself when really your not talkng to yourself your talkng to whom ever may be there ( trey for example) if you have a picture of him.. hold it close and talk and tell him how you are doing. You may not get a response but he's in heaven now he is in good hands. i bet he is having a great time.. I hope i could help you! if you ever just want to talk IM on AIM at x3sweetxbabyx3
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:44 am: Talk to him hunnie!!You're right,of course he's with you,and guarding you.He's always watching over and taking part in your life,even though you can't physically see him.Sit down by yourself and talk to him!Tell him all the things you want him to know.Some people may think it sounds silly,but it isn't.He's listening Chelsea,and he hears you!He knows you'll be just fine because he is,and he's watching over you now!!If you ever feel the need to talk to someone just leave me a note in my inbox and we can exchange s/n's!!!Take care sweetie!!! :) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
KiSsEs answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:15 am: Your Gone But Your Here
You've left me precious memories, your love will be my guide.
You live on through our friendship, you're always by my side.
It broke my hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone.
For part of my went with you on the day God called you home.
Your friend is gone but hes with you in spirit...i hope you like the poem!
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Friday July 23 2004, 12:40 am: Well, I can't help you out, I'm sorry. I'm sorry to hear about your friend too. But, he'll always be with you in your heart. I've lost both of my grandma's at a young age, so I know how it is to lose someone. But, he's in heaven now, and he's watching over you and always will be. He'll always be with you and he knows how you are doing. And the way you can talk to him, is by praying and talking to him that way. He's always with you and always know what you're saying. He's there with you, you just can't see him, but he can see you. If you need to talk about this, just leave a message in my inbox or something. Hope this helped!
MissJ1414 answered Friday July 23 2004, 12:40 am: He's their always and just think about that when your lonely. He's always there and he knows everything about you and he knows the truth always. If you wanna talk to him and like ask him a question go somewhere where you can be alone and be like Trey blah blah blah. and you get this wierd feeling like yall are having a conversation. If you do this expecially when you feel lonely or sad this will make you feel better..I promise [ MissJ1414's advice column | Ask MissJ1414 A Question ]
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