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Do I Dump Him?
im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him?
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Well Sarah..if he cares this much about you..and would die for you..then i think hes *p*e*r*f*e*c*t boyfriend for you..Boyfriends like that are hard to find these days..well hope this helped..
XoX <3,
mAnDyrEnEe'!
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i got a question for u ...... what is love....
just come up and say its over
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You should or just pay less attention to him.. and hopefuly he'll want to dump you but now just keep in mind if you hurt him enough and you relize you want him back there may be no more going back out with jordan so keep that in mind-trix
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You should stop going out with him. If this guy is really getting on your nerves relationship-wise then you should end it. Even if he says that he'd die if you broke up with him, he'll move on. They all do. Go do your own thing and make sure that you're happy in highschool.
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ok i think personally .. if ur not happy u need to dump him .. i mean ive ran into this situation plenty of times .. and i always ended up dumping them bcause it was lyk .. - living a lie i mean u evn said u dnt care about him that much nd cnt see urself w. him so i think u jst need to tell him .. and im goin into hs next yr too and i kno how u feel u dnt wanna ne extra weight ur gonna b with new people and more oppurtunities .. he'll have more oppurtunities too .. u should jst tell himm .. * i hope i helped GOOD LUCK *
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follow ur heart no matter wat anyone says on here it wont change wat u feel is the right choice.
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Relationships suck,don't get involved in them. No,when you're 14,you're not gunna be with your boyfriend forever. Not a snowball's chance in hell. If this guy's gunna kill himself just because you're not going out with him,he's seriously fucked in the head. Get him help and yes,dump him. It's not that he cares a lot,it's that he's a real psycho. Jesus,if you went on a trip(heaven forbid) he'd be without you for a few days. AHHHHHHHHH. Tell this guy to see a shrink,fast.
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if u want to so bad u should dump him im pretty sure he'll get over it eventually, just let him down slow.. lol u kno wut i mean.. hope i helped
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i dk i think that if u dont lyk him at all then dump him but in the nicest waii possible. he sounds like hez gunna b sensetive to that. if anything happebz after that like he says hes gunna kill himself then tell sum1 n mayb they can get him sum help if he really thinks hez gunna kill himself.
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I think you should do what you wanna do.Don't let ur friends tell you what to do w/ ur relationships..If your not feeling any vibes w/ u and jordan than yea break up..He won't kill himself if you break it to him nicely..Just remember..dont be harsh about it!be nice..I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!
*much love*
*~tasha~*
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i think u should stay with him until u feel like u like someone else...but if u do dump him tell him u do love him and that your sorry just u cant see u being with someone from the time your 14 until u die!..i mean its better to do it soon then wait even longer which will make it hurt more..soo just think about it..and think about he would feel..=)..x0 mandiE 0x
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Okay, wow...he threatened to kill himself if you broke up with him? That would scare me, too, honey...He needs to learn to deal with breakups. If you really feel like you want to start high school single, not tied down to anyone, then break it off. Don't stay with him just because he wants you to. A relationship should be a mutual thing.
It's up to you, obviously, but if I were you, I'd make my decision with only myself in mind. Sometimes we have to be a little selfish, especially if it involves our own happiness.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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well if u dont want to be with him nemore you should tell him you think its time you guys break up but u still love him but things have changed and that u care about him and dont want him to hurt him self, and that you guys should stay as friends, and ur goin to high schools and u wanna start off fresh.. hope i helped alil =) write me sometime! rate me pleaze
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