Heyy yall!This is mAnDyrEnEe..!Ask me any kind of question and i will answer it to the best of my ability..I will try hard to answer all the questions i get on my page..please keep me posted!!
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E-mail: piglet3107@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Louisiana
Occupation: Student..Cheerleader..:)
Age: 13
AIM: arb279
Yahoo: dashing_darlin965
Member Since: July 21, 2004
Answers: 14
Last Update: July 28, 2004
Visitors: 926
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Hi. Um, my friend and I got into a fight and we aren't friends anymore. I didn't do anything to her. She just got mad at me for no reason. One day we were friends and the next we wern't. She is rude to everyone around her except certain people.... any advice?
Thank you. Marissa (link)
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Marissa,
You need to ask ur freidn why she is mad at u..if she has no reason..then you need to get on with your life..just ignore her..u can find better..BELIEVE ME!!
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What do you do when your parents do crystal meth?bcause thats what my do?and i am VERY scared that i might have to leave them!! (link)
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Well...
If i was u..i would take both your parents and talk to them..if they dont listen..you need to talk to a counselor at school..hope i helped..
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My friend has a heart condition that she hides from just about every one of her friends except for me. The problem is that she is kind of a party girl. She smokes about a pack a day, gets high about twice a week during the summer and once a week during the school year and she drinks excessively on a very frequent basis. I've really really considered doing a few things but I have encountered so many problems. The first thing is that she absolutely doesn't want to quit even though it could kill her. Her mind set is that if she doesnt live til the age when fun switches from getting messed up, playing football in the rain and then having sex with your latest boy toy, to sipping tea and knocking a tennis ball back and forth, then she's not missing out on too much. Unfortunately for me, I kind of agree with her about that. Anyways, the last time one of her friends talked to her about it she quit talking to him and now will rarely even answer the phone when he calls. Another problem is that she lives 1600 miles from me and I only spend 3 weeks a year with her this year, though im currently saving up $1200 to go see her and my buds there this winter, so I cant really talk to her face to face. I would tell her best friend but she made me absolutely promise not to mention her heart condition to him, so I'm not sure what to do. The rate she's going a person without her condition would die around 40, and with her mind set, I could accept that, but if she doesnt quit soon she could die before I even get to see her again, and to be honest, that scares me so horribly that it was all I could do to write this. Thank you for any advice you might have. (link)
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Wow!!Im so sorry to hear about your friend and your heart condition..If she gets mad at you when u try to sit donwn n talk to her then maybe you could try telling her mom..i know she will be mad at u..but you would give her help..i mean she can die...before the age of 40..but hey in the end..she will thank u..believe me..its all Worth it..I wish u the best..please keep in touch..!!
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i have had this best freind of mine since i was in 4th grade. recently in 8th grade she and i started acting really different. i cared what other people thougth of me, and she couldnt care less...i knwo i shoudlnt care...but thats not what im askin advice about. well one time she told me that she had to go to the doctor and i might never see her again and left it at that. so i was worried. well it turned out that she had family problems and she was cutting herself. well we 'broke up" as friends and my parents are always askin why dont i ever talk to her anymore. im afarid that they wont except that we broke up bcuz she acted weird and i just thougth she was plain weird for an answer...what do i do? (link)
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You need to tell your mom so that maybe that can get her some help..if your friend keeps cutting..n looses lots of blood she can die..and i know you would feel sad..just like i told one girl..one of my my best friends cutted and she quit..becuase she didnt want to loose her friends..tell your mom so she can get help for her..
keep me posted
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One of my best friend ellie gets mad easily.. Every time i get a new friend she says im takening all her friends.. and i dont think im TAKENING her friends, i jsut think im getting more friends.. and i try to tell her not to be mad and she always says shes not mad..She always says the reason she has no friends is because of me. and YES she does have friends and NO i dont believe its because of me.. i really and always want to be ellies friend but she gets mad at me too much.. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?! HELP PLEASE!
*~Love~*-Kerri Faulk- (link)
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WELL...
KERRI..YOU N ELLY NEED TO GET YALL PROBLEMS SOLVED..YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN WITH HER..AND BE LIKE ELLY I LOVE YOU AND I WOULD NEVER HURT YOU ARE TRY TO TAKE AWAY YOUR FRIENDS..IF THIS DOSNT WORK..U AND ELLY NEED TO GET SOME TIME APART FROM EACHOTHER TO SEE HOW SPECIAL YALL REALLY R TO EACHOTHER..THEN WHEN THE RIGHT TIME COMES YALL WILL BE BACK FRIENDS..I PROMISE!!keep me posted!!
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i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee.. (link)
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The 2 friends that u have..you could ask them..why everyone stoped hanging around with you..or call the people that have ditched you..if they dont asnwer the phone..go to their house..and make your moms talk..and see whats wrong..keep me posted!!
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mandyrenee'!
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I have this friend *Amy*, right? Well, before me and my boyfriend started going out she used to be obsessed with him. All she would ever talk about was him and she literally *stalked* him. Well, me and my boyfriend started going out and she backed off a little bit. She got a boyfriend and he just recently dumped her for another girl. Now she keeps trying to talk to my boyfriend on AIM, asks ME for his screen names, his email addresses, and where we're going for our dates. This is really starting to annoy me and I don't know what to do. How should I tell her how I feel without EXPLODING in her face? (link)
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Maybe u can try getting a guy thats *P*E*R*F*E*C*T* for her! then she wouldnt have to bug you..if you find her one..and she keeps buggin you tell her to stop she has a boyfriend..hope this helps..keep me posted!!
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Is it nice having a boyfriend or are boyfriends annoying? I'll rate really good, thanks so much! (link)
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Having boyfriends..are so great! you can go out with them..kiss..hold hands..ANYTHING!!also being single is not that bad..Because you can flirt..
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i have a family problem i have 5 other brothers and sisters and sometimes i feel so left out i feel like im not loves by my parents b/c there always worried about my older sisters and my little brother i get really sad sometimes b/c i want attention too and i feel liek i can never talk to my mom about anything and everytime i try to talk to my dad we get in a fight sometimes i get threatend by my parents but i feel like im the only one who does b/c they love up to my oldest sister b/c she moved away and they LOve my second sister b/c she is about to move and they love my last sister b/c she is alot like my mom and my mom likes her and they love my little brother b/c he is so young but me im so much different then all of my family and i feel like i ahve to be someone i am not for them to love me and i dont know what to do...........?? help please (link)
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Wow!!!
You need to sit both of your parents down..and tell them that you dont think that they love you..and why you dont get any attention like them?..tell them all your feelings..believed me..i had this problem..and i talked to both my parents..now i get treated the same as my older sister..keep me posted!!
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i have a problem i think im in love with my boy friend he makes me feel so great about myself and he is so wonderful....but everytime my x-boyfriend talks to anyother girl i get so jealous but as i think i realize i don't liek him in that way but still i cry when he says he hates me and i get so mad when he doesnt answer me when i tell him hey....even though im in love with my boy friend sometimes i still stop and think of my x and it drives me crazy what should i do...... (link)
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Well..this is defentaly a hard one..
Sounds to me you have a great boifriend..who makes you happy..and you would change that right?Try to forget about your x by thinking of how much you love your boifrined..it will help..trust me..you dont have to be jealous of noone ...if he makes you jealous..make him jealous right back by talkin about your boyfriend..hope this helps..keep me posted!!
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Hey!..i have a really really strong relationship with my best friend...she is like the world to me...she lives right down the road..but now im moving and i think the reason were so close is b.c we have known each other for 10 years..and im afride that when i move we wont be as close....help! what do i do to keep are relationship as strong as it is..i dont no what i would do if we weren't as close as we are now
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I know how you feel..one of my best friends moved to Floridia..the way we keep in touch is the internet!! All you have to do is email her talk to her on the computer..and if your mom lets..you can talk to her on the phone..and then maybe in the summer you can go visit her..dont worry..everything will be ok..
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i cut myself..badly..the underside of my left arm is alomst completley scard and my left upper thigh is wicked bad..my mom knows i did* it but she thinks i stopped i promised my ex-best friend i would stop but shes dumb ne way..my boyfriend hates it but he said he cant stop me..ive already been to therapy..they THOUGHT it helped..yea rite..but i found a new friend..lets call her Babee C..well she cuts..worse then me..she carves like long poems into her..all my friends arent talking to me because of it besides her..and the truth is i miss them all..i used to be wicked happy untill my dad got lung cancer..i loved him..and i was his baby..i really want to stop but everytime i see blood ne where..it makes me want to..i think i should just keep my head up and rmember my dad how he was before..but its gonna be hard..if ne one has any ideas of what else i can do to stop please help me..i cant keep livin this way..thanx xX mandie Xx (link)
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Well Mandie..one of my best friends cut..but she stopped..becuase she decided she didnt want to loose all her friends..and she didnt want to be know as a "freak"..for now on when u see blood..try to think of something happy..hope this helped..if you need anything im me arb279..
Good Luck
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im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him? (link)
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Well Sarah..if he cares this much about you..and would die for you..then i think hes *p*e*r*f*e*c*t boyfriend for you..Boyfriends like that are hard to find these days..well hope this helped..
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i have a friend who is really pretty and really popular...she could practically get any guy she wants. Whenever i have a guy who in interested in me she goes and flirts with him and he ends up dumping me and going for her. What should i do to let my friend know that this hurts me badly? (link)
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I would definately tell her that hes mine..and she needs to stop..becuase you love this guy..and sit her down n tell her not to flirt with all your boyfreinds..if shes a good friend she will understand!!
XO,MandyRenee!
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