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Friend problem...
I have this friend *Amy*, right? Well, before me and my boyfriend started going out she used to be obsessed with him. All she would ever talk about was him and she literally *stalked* him. Well, me and my boyfriend started going out and she backed off a little bit. She got a boyfriend and he just recently dumped her for another girl. Now she keeps trying to talk to my boyfriend on AIM, asks ME for his screen names, his email addresses, and where we're going for our dates. This is really starting to annoy me and I don't know what to do. How should I tell her how I feel without EXPLODING in her face?
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simply tell her that u dnt like it that she still likes him .. maybe she really really really really likes him alot more then u do .. u never no .. ust tell her if she wants to no ask him cuz u dont no if he wants her to know .. simple
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shes probably a little jealous, because she liked him first. you should just tell her to back off a little, and maybe set her up with another guy!
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ali
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Just tell her that it makes you uneasy, and let her know that it's unappreciated. Make sure you express yourself clearly, so she understands exactly how you feel about the situation. Don't be afraid to be firm and bold! A best friend's boy/girlfriend is always off limits; It's just one of those known friendship groundrules! Inform her that there will be PLENTY of guys comin' her way, so for the moment... keep her head up and be happie for you! Goodluck! I wish you the best! =D
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Maybe u can try getting a guy thats *P*E*R*F*E*C*T* for her! then she wouldnt have to bug you..if you find her one..and she keeps buggin you tell her to stop she has a boyfriend..hope this helps..keep me posted!!
XoX <3,
mandyrenee'!
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Just tell her to back down a little bit, tell her your happy she wants to be friends with him but the fact that she was obsessed with him kind of makes you nervous. Just stay calm about it. You should trust your boyfriend and maybe you can talk to him about how you feel. He should comfort you!
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hope i helped
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
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well u should find out if she just wants to talk to him or if she is stalking him if she is stalking him then u should ask her to stop if she dosent stop then tell her to move on in life
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I can see why the other guy dumped her. She's way too clingy and nuts. Don't tell her any of the places you're going or his email addresses. If you've seen Fatal Attraction,then this chick sounds like Glenn Close. In case you don't know,FA is a much better version of Swimfan.
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Tell her that it is your bf and she needs to quit trying to hit on him. tell her that it is none of her buisness where u guys r going on ur dates and that u r not going to take it. tell her that u kno she likes him but he is urs now and she needs to give it a rest.
>>Random Leigh<<
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ok .... Tell her he is taken bye u .... be straight up about it .But be calm so u 2 can be friends dont give her his email...I hope i helped
-Jon
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If she is harassing your then he really should be the one to say something. I would make sure he isn't giving her some kind of mixed signals to keep her in pursuit of him. You may be annoyed by all this but is he? If "Amy" is trying to hook up with your beau you may seriously want to start reconsidering this friendship, even if you don't stay w/the guy...this girl may have some issues...seriously.
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Be lik "Amy, I know your like interested in me and my bf but really its start n to bug me a little bit on how your always asking about him..." and just tell her how your feeling... but calmly and nice... maybe she dont mean to be so annoying... good luck *mare*
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wat i would do is tat wen she asked me those questions i just wouldnt answer her.. try tellin her tat u dont want to hurt her feeling but its kinda bothering u tat she talks to him if not tell ur bf to tell her to leave u guys alone! im pretty sure tat would work! but dont loose a friendship over a guy.. gud luk xoxo angie
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maybe she feels like you are going to leave her. spend some time with her
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maybe she likes him again. tell her that he"s your boyfriend and you need some space
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