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Ok... theres a guy i dated and ... i broke up with him lik 2ce ~ only cause the first time was because i was scared to put my heart in sum1s hands again... but we got thru that and got back together... and the 2nd time was because everyone got in the way and i was really confused about everything and so i jus ended it cause i didnt kno what was going on... i finnaly realized i shouldnt let people get n the way... and that i really trusted this guy... and i kinda want him back... we both admitted we still love each other... but he dont want to get back with me yet... he said why would he wanna jump into it cause hes scared id break up with him again... and i dont kno how to prove that i wouldnt... i dont really know where me and him stand... we still talk all the time... last night we talked about some of our good times and he was lik i dont lik to think about it cause then it makes me want it ... and im lik well whats wrong with wanting something... and hes all idk... so im so confused should i wait for him?... should i just give up and say its over... cause me and him had something ive never had before... he was different from all the other guys... he gave me this feeling... idk... this advice girl needs some advice... wanna lend a helpin thought?...
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Well, I think you might want to stay with him . Wait but don't wait too long . I think you should wait for probably a month or maybe 3 weeks . If it's been 2 months then this guy isn't sure about the relationship, and you probably want someone who'll be surely and a person who'll trust you . Give him a little time , and if he doesn't make up his mind, then leave him alone . All you can do is respect his decision to start a new relationship or to not start a new relationship . If he decides he wants to, then GO FOR IT . I think that you two are good for each other because you write very passionately about him . If you start a new relationship with this guy , then always keep the line of communication open . Trust me , it'll help you alot, and that's the reason why some relationships don't last today because, they're afraid to express their true feelings and this can come back to bite you hard .I hope I was some help . By and have a nice day !!!
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Dont give up! Seriously stay by his side show him that no matter what you'll be there now and you've gotten your priorities (dunno how to spell that lol sorry) straight and you want to be with him. You've got major feelings for this guy dont let go. And to figure where you stand ask him! I'm sure hes just scared to give you his heart again. Just these things take time, dont rush it! Good luck
-holly-
hope i helped
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Well don't give up on him. He is scared that you will hurt him and thats it. Just explain to him what you explained to us. Tell him that you really do love him but you were trying to make everyone else happy not the two of yall. If you have the same feeling that i have about my ex boyfriend then god knows try everything in ur will power to get back with him cause if you just give up and wait to long u will never have another chance. Hope I helped! GOOD LUCK!!!
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make sure he knows that you want to make things work out between you two.. you might want to give it all some time and just tell him how you feel about everything then let him think about it all.. hope it helps
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just talk to him about look him in the eye and talk to him ....i hope i helped
-JoN
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