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i have a friend who is really pretty and really popular...she could practically get any guy she wants. Whenever i have a guy who in interested in me she goes and flirts with him and he ends up dumping me and going for her. What should i do to let my friend know that this hurts me badly?
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Tell her that it hurts your really badly and tell her whatever else you want to on how it bothers you-trix
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tell her what she is doing! maybe she just doesnt realize it because she does it so often! but just be like...listen..i know that you like flirting..but could you not flirt with guys that i like or am going out with?? *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
[RaTe Me PlEaSe AnD iF yOu NeEd Ne ThInG eLsE jUsT dROp oNe In My InBoX]
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Confront her ~ ... and i mean what kind of true friend does that?... if my friend likes a guy i would never try to take him from her ~ id totaly be backing mah friend up by try n to get her and that guy together... But tell this friend the truth be right upfront with her. *mare*
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I would definately tell her that hes mine..and she needs to stop..becuase you love this guy..and sit her down n tell her not to flirt with all your boyfreinds..if shes a good friend she will understand!!
XO,MandyRenee!
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talk to her...n tell her how u feel...tell her that from now on...if u like a guy tell her to keep her distance..if it doesnt work...then i think u should find ur self a new best friend :) xoxo effy
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This doesn't sound like a very good friend. I suggest you talk to her about her behavior and if she doesn't reform, find a new friend. If it is the guys that are going for your friend, you might want to ask your friend to bak off on the flirting. Hope this helps! - runawaygirl
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i really think that u should tell ur friend it hurts u. thats painful... tell her that dating every guy she wants then eventually she wont have any left... thats happend to me, my friendz etc. hope i helpd.
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hey! i have a friend whos just like that, you should definately tell her how you feel, nd tell her that it hurts you badly, and if shes a true friend i think she'll stop. &if she doesn't stop, shes probably not your friend if she knows about it.hope that helps!
xoxo
ali
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tell her. say that she's flirting with all the guys you like and you're sick of it. maybe you need to get a new friend cause friends don't do that to one another. send me something if you need more help!
xox Kristen
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You do let your friend know how bad this hurts you. If she doesn't stop then that means she not a true friend and doesn't care about your feelings. You should always tell your friends when something hurts you really bad. Hope I helped. If you need anymore answers to anyother questions put in my inbox.
Love,
~~angel_advice~~
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first off, it's not fair to you to have her keep taking your guys, second something might be wrong with her maybe she's jelous of the guys that you get. talk to her and lay down the law tell her that she needs to back off of your guys if your friendship means anything to her and if she doesn't i hate to say it but you might have to just leave her in the past and move on with your life. good luck
*~*shan*~*
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u need to tell ur friend how u feel .. she'll understand if she is a true friend and if she doesnt losse her .. u'll be able to get along a lot better * hOpE i hElPeD *
x|0 CaNDiCe =) RaTeE mE *
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Your friend prolly doesnt even realize shes doing this and probably isnt doing it to hurt you! But just tell her about what she did and that you actually really liked this guy and had a chance with him but she took it away.
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Yeah tell her to back off your guys.. and that if she can get anyone she wants.. to go find em or obviously she cant because shes goin wiv the 1s u like!
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then shes not a real friend, shes soo insecure about u having sum1 for urself that she doesnt wanna let u get attention.
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try talkin to her
tell her what u told us, in a nice calm way
tell her that u don't appreciate what she's doin, and if she says that she doesn't do it on purpose, then tell her that it seems like she's always flirting
my questions are
Does She Know They Like You
Are Ya'll Actually Dating When She 'Steals' Them
and if it's yes to either of them, then she isn't a true friend
if she knows the guys like u, or if ur dating the guys, and they dump u and ask her out and she says yes, then she's not a true friend, if she was a true friend, and they dumped u for her, then she would say NO
Hope This Helped
GL wit ur problem
Hoepe ur friend becomes more of a friend :-)
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Well you might want to talk to her about this and tell her that u would want her to have her own boyfriends.. and tell her like ur asking her a question and if she yells at u talk to her about when u had a boyfriend and she took it away... and ask her how she would feel if u were doing that to her! tell me what happens!
xoAshxo
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