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Little Sister problems
I'm a 15 year old with a little sister who's 14. We are not allowed to date and outr parents are pretty strict but they love us and just want the best for us. Anywayz lately my sis is rebelling(wearing revealing clothing, getting car rides from guys, etc) and i'm kind of worried about her, i just don't want her to get into trouble from rebelling or from my parents. Also next year i'll be able to drive and i'm expected to drive her but she's got plans to let her friends drive her to and from school and when i tell her it's not a good idea plus it's not fair that her rebelling may get me in trouble if she gets caught since she's supposed to be with me. She tells me that i can't tell her what to do. i don't know what to do can u give me some advice?
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Most of us know how the whole little sister thing works with the "I can do whatever I want, your not the boss of me" thing works but you should honestly sit her down and talk to her. Tell her you don't want her to get into trouble or hurt but you also dont want to hold her back from having fun. Tell her that she can still go out with her friends and have a fun time but with your parents knowing and not putting u at risk of getting in trouble because of her...tell her u just want the best for her! i hope everything goes ok!
~xoxo~ ..::Stacy::..
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Talk to your parents and point out what you see is going on-trix
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just keep a close eye on her is you feel that she is going down hill. tell her to call every half hour if you have to and talk about it with your parents. and also, ask her where she is going to be so that you can check on her in a half hour(just to scare her). and warn her about things like pregnancy, aids addictions. i dont know if i could help but i treid my best, please dont rate me to terribly!!
love,
amanda
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Trying to control your sister's actions is futile. I would pull her aside and voice my concern. I would also not cover for her because she could get into real trouble and no one would know where she was. I am not suggesting tattling on her (unless you feel she is truly doing something dangerous). I am just saying don't agree to lie for her.
She is a brat and bent on rebellion. Its like a vicious circle strict parents + rebellious teenager= about 8 years of strife. Do what you are supposed to do, and hopefully your parents won't punish you for her actions. Eventually, she will get over it, but apparently not any time soon.
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Darling, you sound as stupid as your parents - they've clearly done a very good job of brainwashing you. People have to grow up, no matter how much parents or older sisters want to stop them. My experience is that people with control freak, stuck in the past parents (like yours) go wild at the first taste of freedom. That's what your sister will probably do and your parents won't have to look very far to find the two people who are responsible for any adverse consequences, will they?
Derfel
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u need to tell ur sis that it is not right to show every thing that u got! and u need to ask her if she is goin through a rough time? that u need to help her! okay?
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TO: Little sis problems
i hab an older sister too whos 15 and i hab just about this same predicament! (altho im the 14 yr old one and im not THAH rebellious...!! lolz) anyways i think thah you should either talk to her and make her understand and follow you or you should just let her be until she grows out of it...i mean this could be just a phase er sumthin and it mite pass...gib her time ferst before the talk buh not too much...like a week er sumthing...ya noe?
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Hey, you're parents are like that because (as you know) they love ya'll and care about you guys alot. Though, you're little sister is going through this phase you need to stick by her and help her through it. You need to talk to her about all of this so maybe she'll understand why you're worried. Just make sure your sister knows she's loved by you and your family. I hope everything works out w/ you and your family and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~
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