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I have a question. i normally dont ask for advice. but i want to know someones oppinion. are you a slut if you had sex with 2 boys in the same night? (link)
i would consider so


How do you get that "smokey eye" look. with out it being too much?

i have tannish skin and brown eyes. what are some good products that i would need?

and can you tell me how to do it?

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http://www.faces-me.com/tipstrends-smoky.asp

it tells you what products you need, steps WITH pictures :]


This isn't exactly a "help me" kind of question, but, it is a valed question. I was just wondering, if anyone decides to answer me..."What is happening here?" I have been going through the questions and I am lucky if I see every 4th question have one answer! It used to be every question had at least 5 or 6 answers. Anything happening I should know about? Isn't anyone here anymore? Well, thank you for those of you who do answer. (link)
well the first page may not have as many because those are the newer questions. if you look at pages 2, 3 , and 4, they normally have at LEAST 6 questions (normaly)


hi im 15 yrs old and ive been with my boyfriend for about 9 months and we have been through alot together,i was thinking about haveing a baby. i really want one! i think that teen pregnace isnt a bad thing at all but i just want to know is it a bad thing to want a baby at such a young age and am i suppost to be feeling this way? im really shocked when people tell me that im stupid 4 wanting one but i never really had one of my own. please answer my question, is it a bad thing to want a baby this young and am i suppost to be felling like i want one this young?? (link)
having a baby at your age isn't such a good thing..think of all the problems that could occur..your probably only a sophmore or so in high school..you'll have to drop out..and you'll be a really young mother..i've seen a few girls in my school do that..and they cant afford to take care of the baby themselves and sometimes the boyfriend leaves them..i'm not trying to change your mind or anything but i think its something to just really think about. It is normal sometimes for a girl wanting a baby at a young age..i have a friend who thought about that and we're a year older than you..i talked her out of it cuz i told her what would happen if she did..how she'd have to drop out of school..and would have been waisting her education for a baby she wouldn't be albe to take care of..wouldn't be able to afford to take care of it..and sometimes boyfriends leave their girlfriends because they're scared or something..i'm not trying to change your mind..just make your choice wise and be sure that its what you want to do..but it is normal to think that you want one at 15
hope i helped!


14/f theres this new guy in school, i dont really like him that much maybe a little and hes pretty cute nothing special but i have a feeling he likes me. im in his music class and he stares at me sometimes because he sits across from me and i dont usually look back because i barely know this kid and its kind of creepy! oh yeah and today i was at my locker and he was at his and his is right near mine and him and his friends kept saying my name and i knew they were talking about me because when i walked by them he said to his friends "oh my god there she is shut up guys" and i pretended i didnt notice. ive never even said one word to this guy so im not randomly going to go up to him and start asking questions and none of his friends are my friends so i cant find out if he likes me for sure. and im undecided whether i like him or not, he seems like a good guy but i need to get to know him i just learned his name today!! what do i do (link)
have one of your friends ask his friend or himself if he likes you..if he does..give him a shot..he sounds like a pretty nice guy..a lot of guys do that when they like a girl..they always tell their friends and when the girls around they always stop talking cuz they dont want the girl to find out..and its always the same about guys..girls do the same lol
hope i helped


I smoke cigerettes.. Andd i need to quit but i need an easy way to do it! (link)
my mom used to smoke..she recently just quit a month ago..what she did was she'd go from a number of cigerettes a day..and cut down 2 a day..and when she got down to 2 or 1 a day..she'd start usuing the patch as the cigerettes..the patches work great..they worked 100% for my mom..she has pretzels,candy, and little stuff she can munch on to keep her self from thinking about picking up a cigerette


Okay, theres this guy on my swim team that I really like and I've known for four years. He's sweet and he's athletic and he's single. But, he's 2years older then me and we barely know each other. Most of what I know I got from a nuetral friend or the few conversations we've had. But, this summer I've got to know him alittle better annd I like him alot. But, he goes to a different school, and we dont have any of the same friends, so I have no excuse to talk to him. I dont know what to do. Any advice to get to know him better or win him over?

Thanks :) (link)
When you see this guy ask him if he'd like to hang out or go to a movie and have a good time..that usually works lol dont worry about age..he's not a lot older than you..just two years older..thats nothing big..it'd be big if it were a guy 4 years older or something but this isn't a big deal..when you talk to him..say something like.."we should hang out n go to a movie or something one night, it'd be fun to hang out with you and get to know you better" that should work! hope i helped!


Ok heres the thing. I have been with my recent boyfriend for more than a year now. I love this boy to death and want to be with him for the rest of my life. NOw there is this other guy who I dated back b4 my recent. He calls and says he wants to get back with me and asks me what if questions like, what if I kissed you and stuff like that. I have tried to explain to him that I'm with sumone already, he even knows the most intimate stuff I have done with my recent bf. What can I tell him so he will backoff and not ruin my recent relationship with the guy I have???? By the way, I am 15, He is 16 and my bf is 15. Also that guy lives out of state from me. (link)
my friend had a problem like this before and i've helped her with it..all you have to do is tell your ex how you feel about your recent boyfriend and that you dont want to be with him (your ex) you wanna be with your recent boyfriend. If you wanna be friends with your ex then tell him that you only wanna be friends with him nothing more and that you dont have any feelings other than "friend" feelings as people call them
hope i helped


The car is a 2002 Jeep Grand Cherokee.

It happened after my dad was going pretty fast over a speed bump.

Also, it was leaking "pretty fast."

Thanks. (link)
yep liklihood is you lost the plug to the transmission fluid pan, or knocked a hole in the pan. which means you'll have to try and plug it up as best you can, pour in some fluid, and get to the closes mechanic possible. the car will likely be out of commission for a week and it'll cost about $200 for a new plug and prolly about $400 for a new fluid pan. lesson learned here is take it slow over bumps. any car no matter what it is cannot take bumps, hills, and other such things fast. even jeeps and other offroad vehicles sure they're designed to go over hills and rocks and mountains but they're designed to do that at low speeds.

my suggestion would be to jack it up. buy some tire sealent, and some carburetor cleaner. crawl under the car and spray the carburetor cleaner in any areas where you might think it might be leaking from. eventually you'll find the hole, crack, or whatever else. then take the tire sealent and spread it along the hole or crack. this will create a temporary seal and allow you to limp it to a mechanic. tire sealent is not permanent and will wear off it will only get you maybe 40 miles of driving. but that's enough to get to a shop tomorrow morning. now getting the carburetor cleaner and sealent wouldn't be hard as you can get that at any auto parts store and a lot of autozones are open 24 hours a day now. the only problem is doing it in the dark which is gonna be rough. but the carburetor cleaner should clean up the area from dirt, oil, and other gunk, and help to find the hole. also take a couple towels under there that you wont mind getting dirty and prolly a good flashlight. it's not a hard job to do, and honestly you could do it tomorrow morning and then take it straight to the mechanic. good luck. and lemme know what happens next.


Hi, this morning while driving, my parents' car suddenly made a loud noise. After inspection, we noticed there was pink fluid leaking under the hood. It turns out that the transmission is leaking.

Anyawys, what does this mean? Can it still be safely driven? How much would it cost for it to be repaired? And, are any auto repair shops open on a Sunday (because I have school tommorow)?

Thanks so much. (link)
alright first off place some kitty litter under the car to keep the leaking fluid from getting anywhere. next what you'll wanna do is tell me what kind of car it is. the transmission plug that holds the fluid in could have just fallen out. did you bottom out on something? were you going up a sudden incline? if anything like that happened it could have easily nocked the plug off especially if you were going fast enough. how fast was it leaking? what i'd say to do is make sure it's not an easy fix like a new plug and if it isn't then put in enough transmission fluid to limp it to a mechanic. liklihood is this car will be out of commission for at least a week.

send me back a question with more information on this. because right now i can't help you all that much.


what are some good tips for making out.

i know all about the good breath stuff so don't gimme that, i mean when ur ACTUALLY making out or the moment right before, or how to start it..


anything will help, im clueless.

thanks in advance.
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Here are some sites I know:

http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/
http://www.google.com/search?q=making+out+tips&start=0&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official

But, the more you plan it, the more likely it is that when you do make out or w/e, it's not going to happen the way you planned. Anyways, good luck.

Hope that helped.


any tips on how to lose around 10lbs in a week? i want to fit into an old dress ... 17/f ... even five lbs would help ... please im desperate! (link)
It's impossible to loose 10 lbs in only a week. If you really want to try though, exercise daily, eat healthy, and get a healthy amount of sleep.


What can people do for cardio inside there house?
dont suggest a treadmill. (link)
well in school we do something, which takes place in the gym sometimes, not out side. well first you do burpees, then laterel jumps, then push out a medicine ball from youur chest outwards, then squats, then skipping, then sit ups, then running from one side of the room to another, then push ups. do each for about 30secs each then increase the time. limit yourself to a 10 sec break between each activity. sounds like a lot but trust me it isnt.


anybody got any suggestions for a good first car? anyone HAVE a car thats great that can tell me about it? im looking for something pretty much just to get me back and forth but also something decent- in a 6 or 7 thousand dollar range- on a tight budget. any help is appreciated!!! (link)
well first off to the person who said jaguars are good cars... don't believe a word of it. i own a 1977 jaguar XJ6 and this car is honestly the worst car i've ever run into. the rust is awful, the engine i had to completely redo as well as the brakes and interior. jaguars are a money pit and always end up projects

what you should do is first go to autotrader.com and look at cars from the following makes and models between the years of 1995 and 2006:

mercury:
grand marquis
marauder
milan
cougar

lincoln:
markVIII
towncar

ford:
crown victoria
taurus SHO
mustang

chevrolet:
camaro
caprice

buick:
roadmaster

cadillac:
fleetwood

mercedes benz:
E class
S class
C class

volkswagen:
golf
GTI
jetta

audi:
A4 quattro

subaru:
SVX
impreza
legacy
forester

toyota:
corolla
camry
celica (all trac prefferably)

volvo:
S40
S60
S70
960



Could someone tell me why they stopped making pontiac grand am's please? (link)
the grand am was replaced by the G6. the pontiac grand am was a midsize sedan/coupe. the G6 is the same thing just in a new body with new packaging. the grand prix is in the process of being redone as well. they're going to keep the grand prix name but give it a 300 horsepower V8 and make it rear wheel drive again. it's going to be a rebadged holden commodore which is a car made by GM's holden branch in australia.


all my friends are ragging me that i don't wear any thongs i was wondering why people wear them anyways since they so uncomfortable and what should i do about my friends
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they shouldnt feel uncomfortbale, if they are then its a bad one, so try one from victorias secret.
if you dont want thongs, you could try string bikinis if you want, becuase i guess they are like half thhongs


Right. There's a girl and I've known her since the summer, and we basically hit it off really well at camp. We're both into theatre, we're both very philosophical, and we both have warped senses of humor :) (The best kind). It took us a while to go from being "good friends" to an official relationship, but a couple weeks ago, we did. It feels amazing.

Since camp, we've talked on the phone for about two hours straight every single night. Some of our conversations are deep and meaningful, some are silly and random, but there's never been one I haven't enjoyed. The largest issues with this whole deal is that she live about an hour away from me. We see each other every other weekend, though, and sometimes more often than that.... We're both happy with the way it's working out.

Anyway.
She makes me feel happy. She makes me feel very, very comfortable, like I could tell her anything. When I'm with her, I get the "warm, fuzzy" feeling that people talk about. I always look forward to our calls at the end of the day, and I get the feeling she does too. Sometimes it can feel very difficult to be an hour away from here, but other times I'm just so happy to know her in the first place.

So... How do I tell if it's love? I'm partly afraid it's just infatuation, which is something I've experienced many times.

Hrm... Any insights would be highly appreciated. (link)
sometimes its really hard to tell if your in love or not..the way you can tell is..if you cant get the person off your mind and think about them constantly...have butterflys when your with her or think about her..i've been with my bf for a year and a half now..and i'm still deeply in love with him..when i think about him i get butterflys and we're so deeply in love..hope i helped
=)


female/13
im turning 14 and need some birthday party ideas.
i would like different ideas for boy-girl party ideas and for just girl party ideas.
i don't want the boy-girl ideas to get FREAKY if ya know what i mean haha.
my birthday is in the fall/winter. so nothing outdoor please.

any ideas will help.
thanks.

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pirates? i dont think so....um well think about what you enjoy doing and then move it on to a mass scale i.e if u like playing the guitar, go to a rock concert! um go for a movie(trust me going to a movie with all your friends, on a large scale is cool) then go for dinner(have the people at the place bring out a cake) um for a girls 1 mite i suggest having a sleepover? hope i helped, on my 14 birthday it sucked we went to the park and i just like sat with a few friends..... well anyway i hope i helped:D and happy birthday


on laguna beachh, does anyone know what tessa was sick from that they always talk about? they're always saying, "well before i was sick..." (link)
the episode where they're all at kendra's party, kendra and cami are talking about tessa. and cami says something along the lines of "bulemic bitch" (towards tessa). it might be that.


Hey guys :]
I just got moved up a level, to the highest and I'm not as good as any of the other girls. My forms ok, but I mess up because I focus too much on going fast. I need to work on a my endurance, and I need to improve it fast. I know running will help, but I was wondering, if there are other things too. And maybe how long I should do it.

Thanks for your help. (link)
Simply, go to a swimming pool and swim.

Begin with a few laps and each day, add another lap and another one until you reach a mile.

It builds GREAT indurance and it'll help you get faster. Also, eat healthy!




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