Question Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 6:36 am
Right. There's a girl and I've known her since the summer, and we basically hit it off really well at camp. We're both into theatre, we're both very philosophical, and we both have warped senses of humor :) (The best kind). It took us a while to go from being "good friends" to an official relationship, but a couple weeks ago, we did. It feels amazing.
Since camp, we've talked on the phone for about two hours straight every single night. Some of our conversations are deep and meaningful, some are silly and random, but there's never been one I haven't enjoyed. The largest issues with this whole deal is that she live about an hour away from me. We see each other every other weekend, though, and sometimes more often than that.... We're both happy with the way it's working out.
Anyway.
She makes me feel happy. She makes me feel very, very comfortable, like I could tell her anything. When I'm with her, I get the "warm, fuzzy" feeling that people talk about. I always look forward to our calls at the end of the day, and I get the feeling she does too. Sometimes it can feel very difficult to be an hour away from here, but other times I'm just so happy to know her in the first place.
So... How do I tell if it's love? I'm partly afraid it's just infatuation, which is something I've experienced many times.
Geneva answered Thursday September 21 2006, 4:52 pm: well, I think it is love, and I wouldn't really call it a long distance relationship because it's only an hour away, and if you're intune with eachother that much I wouild call it true love, you might want to say I love you to her from time to time. trust me, girls love it [ Geneva's advice column | Ask Geneva A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday September 21 2006, 4:23 pm: sometimes its really hard to tell if your in love or not..the way you can tell is..if you cant get the person off your mind and think about them constantly...have butterflys when your with her or think about her..i've been with my bf for a year and a half now..and i'm still deeply in love with him..when i think about him i get butterflys and we're so deeply in love..hope i helped
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DefinedEyes answered Thursday September 21 2006, 3:48 pm: Its easy to tell when you are in love.
You just enjoy being with that person,
even watching tv together, or staring at each other, when you can have in depth conversations, and connect on that level. Its way more than that, and kinda impossible to describe, but you really just know.
I'm sorry that may not have been too helpful,
but I guess the ways you know its love, is just knowing. You love her imperfections :)
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