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Stumped on what to tell my ex!!!
Ok heres the thing. I have been with my recent boyfriend for more than a year now. I love this boy to death and want to be with him for the rest of my life. NOw there is this other guy who I dated back b4 my recent. He calls and says he wants to get back with me and asks me what if questions like, what if I kissed you and stuff like that. I have tried to explain to him that I'm with sumone already, he even knows the most intimate stuff I have done with my recent bf. What can I tell him so he will backoff and not ruin my recent relationship with the guy I have???? By the way, I am 15, He is 16 and my bf is 15. Also that guy lives out of state from me.
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Just Say Hey i have a boyfriend...me and you are over SORRY but if you dont leave me alone i dont think we will even be able to be friends anymore cause i love my bf and u and me....are just over
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Well your going to have to tell him once again that nothing is going to happen between you and him because your with someone. Be as direct as possible, you might even have to use a harsh tone with him (especially since you've said you have told him before but he wouldn't listen). Let him know how much your boyfriend means to you. After doing all of that, I suggest you lose all communication with him because he might feel there is still hope for the two of you if you still speak to him. Good luck and take care :)
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okay, heres what you need to do. you dont need to tell him anything, the best thing is NOT to talk to him. if you talk to him on aim or msn block his screen name and when he calls you hit ignore. make sure he cant contact you and if you dont talk to him he cant bother you. since hes doesnt live in your state he cant come knocking on your door hunting you down so just make sure you dont talk to him in any way. its as simple as that, hope i helped
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tell him that you are definately not interested in him because the only guy in your life right now and for a long time will be the other guy, and that your really sorry but your time together was great but you didnt feel as close to him as you do to your new boyfrind and could you just be friends.
also Quit telling him about your romantic life with the other guys as he probably thinks your trying to lead him on and hes getting jelous.
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Dear Reader,
The best thing to tell him is nothing. Just cut off all contact with him. Even just talking to this guy could cause problems with your current boyfriend. After a while of you not returning his calls and ignoring him he'll get the picture.
~Kambrey
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First of all, talk to your boyfriend about the situation. Let him know about your ex wanting to get back with you and everything, so that incase he every hears anything that's not true or see's him calling you or something, he doesn't assume something else. And then the next time you talk to your ex, say it in a serious tone so he knows you mean business. Just explain to him, you're sorry, but you've moved on and you're in love with your recent boyfriend now and not him or anything's going to change that. You don't WANT to hurt his feelings, but he hasn't been listening to anything you've been saying to him. I would also try and back off from him too. If he calls, don't pick up all the time, or don't respond to messages, he might get the hint after awhile you don't want anything to do with him if he's going to keep saying all these kiss things and whatnot to you, you just want to be friends and nothing more, and if he wants to at least be friends with you, he seriously needs to stop. I hope I helped.
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my friend had a problem like this before and i've helped her with it..all you have to do is tell your ex how you feel about your recent boyfriend and that you dont want to be with him (your ex) you wanna be with your recent boyfriend. If you wanna be friends with your ex then tell him that you only wanna be friends with him nothing more and that you dont have any feelings other than "friend" feelings as people call them
hope i helped
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