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A Boy Problem <3
Okay, theres this guy on my swim team that I really like and I've known for four years. He's sweet and he's athletic and he's single. But, he's 2years older then me and we barely know each other. Most of what I know I got from a nuetral friend or the few conversations we've had. But, this summer I've got to know him alittle better annd I like him alot. But, he goes to a different school, and we dont have any of the same friends, so I have no excuse to talk to him. I dont know what to do. Any advice to get to know him better or win him over?
Thanks :)
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Just keep trying to talk to him as much as you can. During swim meets, sit next to him and start a convesation, or maybe even talking to him about him possibly helping you on your front dive or whatever, and just talk about swimming, then slowly change the topic into other things about what it's like at his school, does he like it, what does he do other than swimming, whatever. It'll show him you're interested in him and what he likes to do and what he has to say, and everybody likes to talk about themselves, so it'll make him feel special. Then after ahwile of you guys's relationship improving and getting closer, maybe invite him somewhere to hang out. Mention a movie that's coming out that looks really good, or maybe suggest him to go swimming somewhere, since you both obviously both already like to swim! I hope I helped.
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Just keep trying to talk to him. I mean if you like him that much then I`m sure you too will have something in common. Also 2 years is not that much older. My dad is 10 1/2 years older than my mom, YES I know it`s freaky, lol. But just try starting a conversation with him, about anything (movies, music, school) You never know, because maybe he likes you too :)
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When you see this guy ask him if he'd like to hang out or go to a movie and have a good time..that usually works lol dont worry about age..he's not a lot older than you..just two years older..thats nothing big..it'd be big if it were a guy 4 years older or something but this isn't a big deal..when you talk to him..say something like.."we should hang out n go to a movie or something one night, it'd be fun to hang out with you and get to know you better" that should work! hope i helped!
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