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Im always here to help You! Thanks to all you guys who have helped me already!
My boyfriend and I have been togeter since Feburary 2nd,2004! We are still great, and going strong!! :)
That car to the side is a 1999 Honda Prelude in pearl white! My favorite car!! :)
I have had a bunch of friends that have had wierd problems, and I Have always experienced a lot.
I babysit a lot, so if you have questions about that, Ask away!
I love fashion questions and Questions about clothing and what looks good with what and where to find cheep stuff.
I love make-up questions and most hair questions!
Although I do answer them, I hate sex questions.
I am good at the whole "being a girl" thing, like shaving and periods. Ask me those, I'd love to help!
My Absoulte Favorite Columnists are:
Mackenzie She is amazing! :) She is REALLY amazing!!!
YG Yeah, She is definately awesome!
The Old One He is good! :)
Karen Can we say genius?
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Emily *Clap Clap Clap*
NaImEE amazing advice!!
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and I'll be adding more soon! Could it be you? :)
I would love to and gladly accept any questions on anything, it does not have to be anything above.
Favorite Books:
*Go Ask Alice
*Annie's Baby
*It Happened To Nancy
*Teen Idol
*All-American Girl
*The 1-800-Where-R-You Series
*The Mediator Series
*The Body Of Christopher Creed
*Freaky Green Eyes
*Of Mice and Men
*The Wattsons Go To Bermingham
*To Kill A Mockingbird
*The Earth, My But, and Other Big Round Things
* The Secret Life Of Beez
*Where the heart is
Favorite Movies:
*Now and then
*where the hear is
*Honey
*Save The Last Dance
*Love Don't Cost A Thing
*Kate and Leapold
*Miss Congeanility 1 and 2
*Beauty Shop
*A Cinderella Story
*Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen
*Raise Your Voice
*Drumline
*The Notebook
*Coyote Ugly
*Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants
*Hitch
*Where The Heart Is
*Now And Then
*10 Things I Hate About You
*Drop Dead Goregous
*The Wedding Planner
*Uptown Girls
*Finding Forrester
*Greese
*Leagly Blonde 1 And 2
*Sweet Home Alabama
*What Women Want
*Napolean Dynomite
*Shrek 1 And 2
*Finding Nemo
*Pirates Of The Carriebean
*Pay It Foward
*Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
*Maid In Manhatten
*Charlie and The Chocolate Factory
*The Unfinished Life
Music:
*ALL COUNTRY!!!!
*Usher
*The All American Rejects
*New Found Glory
*My Chemical Romance
*Sugar Cult
*Black Eyed Peas
*Switchfood
*John Mayer
*Gavin DeGraw
*Trapt
*Ashlee Simpsion
*COHEED AND CAMBRIA
*Lonestar
*Fall Out Boy
*Hilary Duff
*311
*Systen Of a Down
*Chronic Future
* The Gorillaz
* My Chemical Romance
*Fall Out Boy
*Embodyment
*Boxcar racer
* Alien Ant Farm
Songs:
*Kyrie- By Mr. Mister
*We Danced Anyway- Deana Carter
*Breathless- The Corrs*
And Much More!!
If you want to know about any of the books, movies, bands, artists, or songs, please feel free to leave one in my inbox!! Always There For Ya!!
I Love To Help!!
Feel free to ask me anything! :)I try to help as best I can! :)
*You get what you give, & everything you do comes back to you*
One night, the moon said to me " If he makes you cry, why don't you leave him?" I looked upto the moon and said, "Moon, would you ever leave the sky?"
I know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes. You've built a love, but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven, turns to dark.Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile, the precous moments are all lost in the tide. They're swept alway, and nothing is what it seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.AND THERE ARE VOICES THAT WANT TO BE HEARD,so much to mention, but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, that's the beauty that's been, when love was wilder than the wind.
♥ -Kelsey- ♥
advice
How do *you* flirt with guys.. i want everyones ways hehe
thanx
ask them things
about:
sports
games
cars
school
family
pets
be interested in them, and what they have to say, and be nice, and dont like come onto them, they hate that, most GOOD guys dont want a girl thats easy, we like to call them sluts, and i am sure that you dont want to be one of thoes. so anyways, i have a tun of guy friends, try to just be their friend first, and a lot of times, thats better than being their girlfriend. also, try to not only be friends with the guy, but his friends as well. and also, get their screen name, and talk to them online, its easier to express true feelings for most!
always there-
thanks for letting me help you
if you need anything else, please leave on in my inbox!
:)
Kelsa
please leave feedback! :)
I'm 14 and I already lost my virginity... Is that normal?
it happens, but its not right, im against pre-marital sex. :)
Kelsa;)
what happens when you go to the gyno?? i have no earthly idea!!
go to www.beinggirl.com
they have a TUN of info on it! :)
if you need anything else, please leave one in my inbox!!
thanks for letting me help you
always there-
Kelsa:)
How do you make friends? I have only like 3 friends but I want more...I'm not shy but I come off shy..please help
try to talk to everyone, and listen to them, alot, and dont talk too much, and dont always go to them for help, and dont say you dont have a tun of friends, and dont gossip, and say you dont like people, blah, blah, blah....
and just be really nice.
if you need anything else, like this, leave one in my inbox, because i used to be like you!!!
:)
Always there-
thanks for letting me help you-
Kelsa :)
hey..sry if this shows up 2 times lol
ok..ive been dating a guy for 2 years and i luv him so much!! all weve done is kiss and make out. but i want things to move a little faster, like i want 2 give him a handjob or blowjob or something. but i dont know how to aproach asking him, or if he'll let me do it. hes kind of prude, but sometimes hes wild so i dont know if i should put it off or ask him or just do it or what, and i want 2 still date him..but if he says no then itll be so awkward around him. please help!
well, if you have been going out with him for like 2 years, you should just be able to talk to him about it!! so, go ahead and do it!!
thanks for letting me help you!!!!!
KelsA
We're doing a lab in school next week which involves the murdering of goldfish so that we can look at its circulatory system. Who cares? It's just a goldfish, right? Wrong. Goldfish are animals too. People, like myself, have had golfish as pets. Mine lived up to be 7 years old, which is a very long time for a goldfish, but it created a bond between us. My teacher even made a joke about it, that her turtle likes this lab the best because he gets to eat all the dead goldfish. Which I guess is good in retrospect because they aren't just throwing them away once they've dug out all of their organs. It's the principle of the thing though, I know the boys in my class with be nothing but immature about this and torture the goldfish before killing them. I can't watch any kind of death, the only time I killed a fly I cried for an hour. And she has them swimming in glass bowls in our room now, so we get to watch them every day, only to murder them later on. When we did frog dissection, an alternate computer program was offered to observe their organ systems, so why are we buying so many fish each year that could have ended up as pets for other people and lived 7 years? If we killed just one fish and made a video on it,though it's still cruel to that one fish, the hundereds of fish we kill each year would be limited to one fish, once. Or even if our teacher was going for a hands-on experience, she could just kill one at the front of the class and have all of the students take a look. It's just wrong to me that we are going to be graded on the procedure of taking a beating heart and making it stop.
So, what can I do to stop this? How do I try and get my teachers and classmates to understand? Or am I overreacting?
I agree, i hate it! killing animals is so horrible, they have no way to defend themself against humans! even if your teacher and classmates do, you can just not do it!!
and just dont do it, it is a good cause!!!! dont just do it for the grade, dont!!
talk to the principal or councler, but i fully agree!!
look @ photos!!
Thanks for letting me help you!
leave one in my inbox if you need anything!
Kelsa
i dont really no what category this should be under,but anyways...
My legs are sort of sensitive and get dry a lot,does anyone no what shaving cream that would pervent dry legs?
get some with vitamin e or moisturizers, skintament, or an off brand of gel shave cream, not the foam sutff. also, kinds with baby oil!
they have kinds for sensative skin too. also skintament as after shave lotion, and it works really good!
hope i helped-
kels
ok..I have scoliosis and my mom says doing pilates or yoga would help..would that really work?
swim, a few of my friends have it, and they said that swimming helps A LOT!!!
Thanks for letting me help you!
Kelsa
i deff dont purposely smell myself "down there" but the discharge stuff smells weird, is it spossed to or..how do i make it not smell so bad..lol sorry im just wondering
it has a stench to it!
Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE!
its fine! dont worry, i have had mine, for 3years, and i still isnt regualr, i get it for a day, and then not for 2months, or 2times a month! its all going to be okay!!! '
www.beinggirl.com
helps a lot!
please, leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything else!!
thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa
Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE!
its fine! dont worry, i have had mine, for 3years, and i still isnt regualr, i get it for a day, and then not for 2months, or 2times a month! its all going to be okay!!! '
www.beinggirl.com
helps a lot!
please, leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything else!!
thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa
When does the "cycle" usually become regular?!?! Mine keeps coming at random times and now, it's not coming at all! The last time I got it was February 24???
www.beinggirl.com
they have a tun of stuff on that, and a period predictor!
and also, it isnt regualr sometimes ever for anyone, ive had mine for 3years, and its still wierd!!
leave one in my inbox if you need anything, i would be really happy and willing to help!
thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa
I'm not really one to ask this kind of question..But there's this guy. He goes to another school, I just recently started talking to him over the phone and stuff. We have a lot of chemistry. We always have something to talk about. So I just called him, I haven't talked to him since last night, and he didnt answer his phone. Do you think I should call him again or just wait for him to call?
call him girl! you want him go get him!!!!!!!!!1
yay! :)
esp, because since you go to different schools, he may not know how you feel!!
my bf, of 14months and some days, goes to a different schooL!
let me know hot it works out!!
and please, leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything, i would be more than happy to help!
thanks for letting me help you
always there-
kelsa
i really am so ready for sex and my bf and i already have it all planned out...the thing is, im not very self-confident when it comes to my body. my legs are slim, which all my friends envy, but i feel so wierd! my hands get clamy ALL the time...is there anything i can do about that? and finally, i am really self-consious about the hair on my body...like on my lower back, a tiny bit around my belly, and 'downstairs'. i dont want to shave these regions, but im just worried about what he'll think...and i dont want to be all high-maintenance about my body, but i dont know what im supposed to do! please help
he shouldnt care if he is your boyfriend, and you are going to have sex with him! if he does care, then you shouldnt be doing that!!
talk to him about it!! and dont shave that, its no big deal, its relly annoying when it grows back! espically "down there" my friends always are getting po'd about itwhen they do! also, just talk to him about it!
if you have any more questions, leave on in my inbox! i would love to help!
about the clamy hands, if you arein a bed, there will be covers, so wipe your hands there!!
thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
kelsa
okay at skool the other day i leaked and it was all over my chair. i coverd my pants with my jackett. i was wearing a extreamly large pad. it went through. am i bleeding to much
this is my 3rd period
its usually irregualr! it iwll all be okay! just chaner your pad a lot!!! and also, try tampons!
www.beinggirl.com
helps a tun!
im good @ this stuff, so, leave one in my inbox when you have any more questions!!
and good idea with the jacket!
thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa
Ok, so right now I'm the "new kid" at my school, and making friends seems harder than I thought it would be. Everybody already has their little cliques and everything from last year, and it's so much harder for me to meet new people when nobody is intrested in getting new friends. Since the begining of the year I have acted really shy, just because I guess I still haven't really moved on from my friends from my school last year. I also just made cheerleading for my school, so I also need to start getting to know the hirls on my squad too. So basically I am asking for some tips on how to be more outgoing and really get to be able to express mydelf and meet people. Thanks in advance!
try to be nice to everyone, and just talk to a tun of different people, be a good listner, people like that. also, join some clubs or activities, and just in each class, talk to a few people!!
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if you need anything else, leave on in my inbox!
id be happy to help you!
thanks for letting me help you
always there-
kelsa
I heard this song on the radio, 101.5 this morning and I just cant get it out of my head! :( It goes something like this..
"You just dont get it. You keep me copasetic. You just dont get it. Youre so pathetic."
That might not be in the right order but it's in there somewhere. I was trying to write it down and drive at the same time so I missed a lot of the lyrics. lol Anyone know this song?? :( I want it! I need it! I have to have it!!
http://www.kzon.com/playlist.asp
that is the site, with the songs listed, i think its the same radio station, anways, you will have to listen to some of the songs till you find it, but that should help!!
thanks for letting me help you!
-KelsA-
so we're really close, used to date, hang out a lot, have classes together. we're not together, hes dating another girl right now, we hung out this past weekend and had a lot of fun, had a few moments where he was tickling me or something and we'd just stop and realize what was going on...so basically, he told a friend about two months ago he still had some feelings. and i still like him sortof.
bottom line is here-ive been having a tough time lately and hes been amazing so we're really close right now especially.
today he sent me an email with yeah... and then these lyrics All is quiet on new year’s day,
A world in white gets underway,
And I want to be with you,
Be with you night and day.
Nothing changes on new year’s day.
I will be with you again.
I will be with you again.
Under a blood-red sky
A crowd has gathered in black and white.
Arms entwined, the chosen few,
Newspapers say, it says it’s true.
And we can break through,
Though torn in two we can be one.
I will begin again, I will begin again.
Oh and maybe the time is right,
Oh maybe tonight.
I will be with you again.
I will be with you again.
from the band u2 which we both love.....how do i take that/read it/perceive it....what is all of your opinions on what he means..and i'm 100 percent positive he isnt just wanting me to download that song or something..he wouldnt email me when he could tell me in person or online...so thats not it...
well, I dont know what he means! but i would have to say, tojust ask him about it. if you are too shy or nervous, ask him over e-mail, instead of in person! and also, he shounds like a great guy! and he sounds like fun, and really sweet! My Boyfriend is my bestfriend! and by the looks of things, thats how it will be with you too! and thats always fun!
WEll, I think that he likes you, but i dont know, because guys can be trickey like that!
well, best of Luck!
I hope everything works out!!
also, leave me one in my inbox if you ever need anything ever, at all!!
Always There-
Kels:)
how can i convince a girl to like me?what can i say to make her like me as a boyfriend
well this is what I persionally love about my boyfriend
i am always first
he calles me beautiful, not Hot or Sexy.
he complements me a lot, like on my eyes, and smile.
I like to have fun! and laugh! and be held! also, I like that he is like my bestfriend too, and i can talk to him about anything. help her with things, like homework,and troubles with freinds or at home! get to know her, and be a good listener, girls love to talk, let me tell you! and also, dont pressure her! about anything, but espically "stuff"
also, when a girl says get away! it USUALLY means, please come here and hold me, and kiss me lightly and tell me it will be okay! even if they are fighting it!
and if you have any more questions about what stuff that girls say actaully means, ask me! im good at that sort of stuff! and I think that i have the absoulte best boyfriend, so if you ever need anything, come to me! leave on in my inbox at anytime!! Im always here for ya!
best of luck with your girl!!
Hope I Helped-
Kels :)
i really liked this guy, and i told him and we hooked up twice, the first time just kissing and the next time he was really pressuring me and calling me a tease so i gave him head, it was really hard for me coz at the time i was still getting over my ex. i spoke to him on the net and i said 'im sorry i was so weird last night its just hard coz of J' and he said yeah i dont want a relationship and im like neither do i! Before we hooked up we were like best friends and he had liked me for ages and now we have just stopped talking to each other because of this and its weird coz i still like him and i only want a casual thing but he wont hardly talk to me!!! not even to be friends and i have no idea why..? im finding it hard to beleive i got used coz hes one of the nicest guys ive ever met does anyone have any suggestions? sorry its so long
i was in a position like you and i was pressured, and he wouldnt talk to me in public or anything, and if i told anyone, he would get mad at me. well, i think that you should not go with that guy who pressured you anymore, get a real guy, i have one now, that doesnt make you (me-in my case) do anything! ever, and if you dont want to, neither does he!!
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x-
Kels