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i really liked this guy, and i told him and we hooked up twice, the first time just kissing and the next time he was really pressuring me and calling me a tease so i gave him head, it was really hard for me coz at the time i was still getting over my ex. i spoke to him on the net and i said 'im sorry i was so weird last night its just hard coz of J' and he said yeah i dont want a relationship and im like neither do i! Before we hooked up we were like best friends and he had liked me for ages and now we have just stopped talking to each other because of this and its weird coz i still like him and i only want a casual thing but he wont hardly talk to me!!! not even to be friends and i have no idea why..? im finding it hard to beleive i got used coz hes one of the nicest guys ive ever met does anyone have any suggestions? sorry its so long
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Its not long don't worry. Firstly, you shouldn't have given this guy head in that situation, because he pressured you, in a way showing that in that situation, he was only after one thing; sex. I know it sounds horrible to hear because you say you were friends, but it was really unfair and disrespectful to put you in that situation, being a "casual" thing or not.
Advice wise though, i'd say do your best to still say on comfortable terms with this guy, as you said he was a nice guy. And i suppose, if you don't go down that road again, you still could stay friends, although maybe not as close. I really hope my advice is useful and good luck with this guy and getting over J, whoever he may be! xxx
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He may be nice. But he got what he wanted. He told you he didn't want a relationship. Next time he doesn't have a date he will call. I hope you will hang up.
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i was in a position like you and i was pressured, and he wouldnt talk to me in public or anything, and if i told anyone, he would get mad at me. well, i think that you should not go with that guy who pressured you anymore, get a real guy, i have one now, that doesnt make you (me-in my case) do anything! ever, and if you dont want to, neither does he!!
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it looks like you may have hurt his feelings..just say ur sorry and ask to meet up some time perhaps u can be friends once agauin
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I think that that guy is playing with your heart. Just stay friends now on or else who knows what mght happen.. hes obviously trying to trick you, hes pressuring you to do things, i think that you should just stay friends. If you are desperate, go ahead but expect to be played with.
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