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i really am so ready for sex and my bf and i already have it all planned out...the thing is, im not very self-confident when it comes to my body. my legs are slim, which all my friends envy, but i feel so wierd! my hands get clamy ALL the time...is there anything i can do about that? and finally, i am really self-consious about the hair on my body...like on my lower back, a tiny bit around my belly, and 'downstairs'. i dont want to shave these regions, but im just worried about what he'll think...and i dont want to be all high-maintenance about my body, but i dont know what im supposed to do! please help
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he shouldnt care if he is your boyfriend, and you are going to have sex with him! if he does care, then you shouldnt be doing that!!
talk to him about it!! and dont shave that, its no big deal, its relly annoying when it grows back! espically "down there" my friends always are getting po'd about itwhen they do! also, just talk to him about it!
if you have any more questions, leave on in my inbox! i would love to help!
about the clamy hands, if you arein a bed, there will be covers, so wipe your hands there!!
thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
kelsa
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I have (had) the exact problem. I didn't want to shave it because I had tried it before and it grew back and rubbed my pants. I was looking into getting in lazered off but it hurts and it was really expensive so 2 weeks ago I just got sick of it and I shaved again and put Jergens Naturally smooth shave minimizing moisture which makes it grow back slower and thinner. It works so nicely. I have to re shave like once a week but it's not a big deal.
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lol You sound exactly like me... my hands get sweaty alot too. Don't worry it's okay he won't mind. And as for hair... try a brazilian wax.
guyz like that
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well first of all if he helped you plan it out then he can't be too worried. and as for your "downstairs" just trim it with siccors but be careful not to cut yourself. and as for the clammy hands try using lotion rite before or say " see how you make me" or something like that. but don't worry if you both like or love eachother it doesn't even matter.
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Girl dont trip on it I feel the same way ... but imma virgin ... but anyways back to your story ... you are worried but like i said dont trip it doesn't matter but if you feel that you need to shave then you should do it ... there is nothing wrong with doing it ... but he is your boyfriend and im thinking he'll respect it because guess what he has the same thing going on down south (lol) but if you can please rate and I really hoped I helped and tell me what happened or if you think my advice is bad for you ... Grape
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I think you should let him know your fears, but if you aren't ready fro him to knwo it's you start out by playing a game. You start naming hypathetical situations like would you ever have sex with a girl that is hairy,ugly,etc (non-explaining you of course) and then you say what if they had hair just........(name the spots) and then you ask him if he'd have sex or make fun of a girl who(and explain your situation) and see how he takes it. The trick is to start off the game with a description of something that's really not you and that way he knows the things you are listing aren't anything to do with you and then when he is on a roel answering the questions you throw your situation in there and you will know exactly what he thinks. But after you ask about your situation you ask a few more questions because that way don't seem obvious. Hope it helps
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Shave your cunt. We don't want to be able to floss our teeth down there.Shave all hair off your body. And yes, especially your lower back.
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it shoudlnt matter, if he really loves you he wont focous on those things. and if he does its his heart that is to slim, not your legs. and he prob knows your body somewhat. if you are in love and ready for this step, then take it!
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If he really loves you then he won't care and if yor hands get clamy then put chalk dust on them.
Karazi Kenzee
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sex is a big step and if your ready you go for it..part of sex is being comfortable with your body and his. I dont know if thiss is what you think..but if i was self conscious about what my bf would think..before thinking about it any further i know i wouldnt be ready for sex. What fun is sex if you arent comfortable with yourself? im sure your bf will love you just the way you are. Your right..dont shave because it will make things worse. Be yourself and feel comfortable..this is one of the key points in having sex..feeling comfortable.
So what are you supposed to do you ask? try and realize your bf loves you just the way you are and to relax and enjoy sex, because its supposed to be enjoyable!
-melissa -
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If he's a real boyfriend he won't think anything more of your body than pure beauty. So you have a little hair here and there (and the pubic hair, pft, everyone has that. You dont have to shave it, but a trim now and then is good, since it tends to be alot worse than the hair on your head)
What you're suppopsed to do? If you mean by having sex, really the guy leads the way, but you shouldn't let him force you into anything. While the guy does... mm... most of the moving, that doesnt mean he's in control.
Now, if you mean about the hair, nothing to worry about it. If he really loves you he won't care at all, and admire your body for what it is...
<3 EJ
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Your boyfriend souldn't care if you have a little hair here and there, but i'm pretty sure he'd care about downstairs. I have some hair on my belly, and on my lower back and your right, DON'T shave it because it will make it 18923347984 times worse! It isn't that bad when you think of it because it's only a little bit of hair, nothing big. If your boyfriend truely loved you and you feel you are ready to do it, then he shouldn't care what your body looks like even if you had a HUGE mole on the middle of your back. It'll be fine ♥
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