I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more
Just do it. Tell him it's over and walk away. He has no right to guilt trip you or make you feel bad after cheating on you 17 times. Refuse to answer his calls/messages/whatever to make it perfectly clear that you are serious this time. Eventually he should get the message. If he continues to harass you, you should consider getting the police involved.
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Can you get pregnant from giving a guy a blow job?
The only way you can get pregnant is if sperm enters your vagina. You can't get pregnant from oral or anal sex, think about it, it just wouldn't work.
You are still at risk of some STD's though, so unless you know the guy is 100% clean, use a condom.
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Hi, I have been invited to an interview at the bank of england, I'm 17 and just finishing my A levels, I was wondering if anybody could help me. I need some information about recent news involving the bank or anything in the financial industry/banking etc..., anything I can discuss in the interview to show good business focus, as I don't know a great deal about it all so any useful information for my interview would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks very much
Try searching the BBC News website, you'll find hundreds of pieces about financial and business news.
You'll find this page to be very helpful:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/business/default.stm
You can use the search function to find specific articles. Here are the results I got when I searched 'Bank of England': http://search.bbc.co.uk/cgi-bin/search/results.pl?uri=%2F&scope=all&go=toolbar&q=bank+of+england
You could also try running similar searches on other news and business websites.
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on facebook how do you hide conversations between you and someone else,that everyone else can see, like for example, if i look at some random person's profile i can see their wall to wall conversations with some random person, so how do i hide that on my profile so that no one can see the comments between me and someone else,
thanks a bunch
You can't.
The only way you can hide wall posts is by deleting them.
If you want a private conversation with someone then it's best to use the messages function.
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Ok so I am planning on having sex with my friend and I'm a virgin. I am not on birth control (and there is no way I can get it so don't tell me I should). I need some good tips on how to not get pregnant. We will be using a condom of course but is that enough? Should he where 2 in case one pops? Anthing is good. I can't wind up pregnant or my parents will kill me (don't tell me not to do it either because I already made up my mind). Also, if you still haven't figured it out yet, I am a complete virgin. He isn't and I want this to be great for him (don't tell me to get ourselves checked either). How do I make it last and feel good (and by that I mean both of us having an orgasm) because I have heard that the first time usually hurts.
THANKS SO MUCH TO EVERYONE THAT CAN HELP. AND PLEASE HURRY BECAUSE THIS COULD HAPPEN AT ANY TIME.
As the user below said, using two condoms is actually a lot riskier than one. The friction caused by the two condoms rubbing together is likely to cause a tear, increasing the risk of sperm getting through and you getting pregnant.
Condoms are 98% effective if used correctly. This means that about 2 out 100 women a year will get pregnant even if they use them. If you are not prepared to use another form of birth control, then they are your safest bet. Instructions will be included on the packet and it's advisable to read through them a couple of times before the event and follow them carefully. Putting a condom on wrong could increase your chances of pregnancy.
If something does go wrong, for example the condom tears, the best thing to do would be to stop as soon as you notice. If you are worried that you may have become pregnant, the last remaining option is emergency contraception (the morning after pill), which is effective up to 72 hours after sex.
You mention that your friend is not a virgin, I really do encourage you to talk to him first about his sexual history and get checked out if he's in any doubt about his previous partners. Although condoms protect against most STD's, there are some, such as Genital Herpes and Pubic Lice, which can still be passed on.
In truth, you are unlikely to find that your first time is as amazing as you expect. It's not how it's portrayed in films, all shooting stars and fireworks. In reality it's messy, sticky and can be downright embarassing.
The chances are that your first time will hurt, but you can make things more comfortable for you by using a lubricant (although make sure that it is water based as oil based can cause condoms to tear), taking things slowly and gently and ensuring that you are entirely comfortable with each other.
Take it slow, make sure that there is a lot of foreplay before hand, as you will both need this to reach a high enough state of arousal. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with and don't be afraid to call a halt to it if you change your mind.
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Ok . Me and my boyfriend have a pretty good relationship . We have been dating over a year now , But i feel as if i need more attention . How can i get him to " sort of say " .... Come to me instead of me come to him ? Like make him want to do more things with me and treat me really good . He already does but i just want a stronger relationship because i feel i put more in than he does . So how can i get him to do things for me and WANT to ?
Nothing rude please , thanks .
Guys work differently to girls. The chances are he probably feels just as strongly for you as you do for him, but he's male, and teenage at that, which means that it's inevitable that he will be less forward with his feelings.
He's not a mind reader. He probably isn't even aware that you feel like he isn't showing you enough attention. The best way to let him know is to tell him. You've been together for a while, which shows his commitment to your relationship, I'm sure he'll understand.
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this girl who i really dont talk to asked me to call her in as her mom. shes really good friends with my friends, and she said if she gets caught she'll take all the blame. so i did it. today i was called to the office, they asked if it was me. i didnt no what to do so i freaked and said no it wasnt i promise. i left and he said if your lying there will be serious trouble. i decided to go back to talk to him after school to confess, but he wasnt there. i left him a note to call me into the office tomorrow. what should i say?! its hard to be like, well hey i lied to you im sorry, because i went into detail in my lying you know! so it will make me look so stupid and bad! im so scared of getting suspended, i was just trying to be nice to that girl. im in sports, i CANT get suspended! please please please help me im soooo scared ill be in trouble for lying, i cant stop crying! but going to tell the truth is best to do right? sorry its long please answer!!!
ps. i NEVER do anything bad. ive only ever ditched once, im an A and B student. all thats on my record was excessive tardies 2 years ago. Im truly a good kid! just caught in a bad situation
It's always horrible when you get into trouble for doing someone a favour.
You've done the right thing by asking to be called to the office tomorrow. Confessing would be the best option, just tell the truth. There is a possibility that the school will be able to see your maturity for owning up and take your good record into account and be less severe with punishment. It's unlikely that you will get suspended, especially if you have been honest. However, there is still a chance that you will get into trouble and if you do, then learn from this mistake.
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Hiya, two weeks ago I was put on antibiotics (I'm on the Pill by the way) so didn't rely on the pill for the period I was on it or for 7 days after. i kept taking the pill regularly anyway but the 7 days after the antibiotics only finished on the day i took the last pill in the pack.
i looked on the fpa website and it said to run two packets together, but it's too late now as i'd've already missed a day (and after the antibiotic situatin i want to check my period still comes anyway...) when will it be safe to stop using condoms?
thank you for any answers I get!
xxx
To be on the safe side, it's advisable to wait for 14 days before relying on it as your sole method of contraception.
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canyou be pregnant and still have your period because i still have alot of signs is it really possible??
It is possible although very unlikely.
If in any doubt, I would advise you to take a pregnancy test.
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My boyfriend and i decided to break up while he figures some things out. For the time being we are going to be friends. He told me that he Loves me. Then he said that he might get back together and we might not, he's not sure. So I am giving him time, but one day he will be negative about us, and the next he will be positive about us. And I have been trying to give him time and space, and he ims me when I am online. Does anyone have any idea what he could be thinking and why he is sending mixed messages to me?
By the sounds of things, you have been incredibly understanding and supportive, probably alot more so than most would be in this situation. Sadly, your boyfriend seems to be taking this for granted by blowing hot and cold. You need to let him know that while you're happy to put effort into working through whatever problems you two are having, you won't wait around forever. Tell him that you need to know if you have a future together. If he carries on this way, it's probably time to walk away.
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Hey!
I know this is suuuupppperrr weird, but I was thinking last night, I'm from canada and we pronounce the letter z "zed" and in America, they pronounce it "zee" so it got me wondering, how do they pronounce the letter in other places that use the english alphabet like Australia and the UK. If you're from there (or somewhere else that uses the english alphabet)let me know how you pronounce it.
Thanks!!
I can't speak for Australia, but here in the UK we always say 'zed'.
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I know people ask this question like 50 times on this site, but I actually have some details. My period came last month (Dec 25), and I had sex with my boyfriend in January, but we ALWAYS use protection; however, I am about 4 days late now, could I be pregnant or am I just freaking out for no reason?
Unfortunately, sex is never 100% safe. The most reliable way to prevent pregnancy is to combine condoms with another form of contraception, such as the pill. Try not to panic, it is quite common to skip a period or get it late, especially as a teenager. Having said that, while the chances are slim seeing as you were careful, it is still possible that you might be pregnant, and the only way to find out for sure is to do a test.
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is it safe to have sex everyday?
As long as you are using protection against pregnancy and STD's, then it is is perfectly safe.
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im going to italy in february and i want to know what the weather is like. Should I pack warm clothes?
January and February are generally cold with freezing winds from the North so it is advisable to pack lots of warm clothes. I suggest you pack things you can layer, so that you can add or remove clothes depending on your needs.
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how do i get my hair like this? its not really the color i just like the waves because whenever i try that with my curler it comes out curly and i want it more wavy. thankss.
Your mistake is using curling tongs because her hair looks more scrunched/tousled than actually curled. It's actually a really simple hairstyle to achieve.
Wash your hair and squeeze as much water out as possible before gently towel drying it. It's really important to be careful when you do this, because if you rub too hard then your hair will end up frizzy. When your hair is about 70% dry (this sounds quite tricky without the aid of a hairdyer but I also have very thick hair and although it will take a few minutes, it is possible).
Next, take a really small amount of product - I reccomend gel, not mousse, as mousse will give you too much volume. Try to find one that won't make your hair crispy when it dries, there are special products for this. I suggest trying a VO5 or L'Oreal product, as in my experience these tend to work well.
To begin with, only scrunch the ends, then run your fingers (with more product on if necessary) through your hair higher up your head. It's usually best to steer clear of the roots.
This style works best if you leave the rest to dry naturally, but if you really can't wait, blow dry it on a low, cool setting, pointing the nozzle downwards and continuing to scrunch as you go.
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Ok, here it is. I'm "Gothic" and the guy I like is a "Jock". I like him nad I'm pretty sure he likes me. Problem, I have no clue how it could get any farther than smiles and small chat because of the gossip and just people at our school. I swear, it'd be like WW3! Please give me your advise, Anything would be good at this point.
Thanks!
~VampireGirl818
I think if you like him, and he likes you then you should go for it. Who cares if you're from different cliques? Sure, people will talk about it at first but it'll soon get old and they will find something else to gossip about.
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ok. i was with this one kid for 4 years. and he was the first boy i ever loved. and im with someone else now, but i cant stop thinking about my exboyfriend i miss him so much. he wants to get back together with me, but for several reasons i cant. will i ever get over him? or is it always gonna be like this.
I think it's probably true that your first love never dies. This boy will always mean alot to you because he was the first person you ever fell in love with, and that's a big deal. Having said that, you won't always feel this way about him. In time you will move on and find someone who you feel just as strongly about, if not stronger.
I don't think it's a good idea for you to continue your relationship with this new person while you still feel so much for your ex. It sounds like it's just a rebound relationship, and while these can be fun, it isn't fair on your new boyfriend/girlfriend. I suggest you walk away from both of them and focus on yourself for a while.
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i need some oppinions on my current status.
me and this guy has been on and off for 3-4 years now. we've known eachother for our whole lives, seriously. this is his 2nd year in college, hes away over seas. in hawaii and im here in california. theres times when we talk everynight. and then times when we talk every other day, even once a week or even once every two weeks. we call eachother boy/girl friend and always babe. but its difficult, we agreed on an "open relationship" kind of thing. like he can do his, and i do mine, but yet we still have eachother and especially when he comes home on holidays.
If this is working for you, then fine. I personally wouldn't be happy with that kind of arrangement, nor do I think I'd be able to deal with a long distance relationship in the first place. However, it's your relationship and your choice. If you would rather it was more exclusive between you two then maybe you should talk about it with him. This is about what the two of you want and no one else.
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I see that many user on myspace has double picture as their icon and both pictures are different. How do I do that?
The picture below the main picture is in the caption. It's really simple to achieve, just upload your desired second picture to an image hosting website (I reccomend http://tinypic.com/ as the links will be short enough to fit in the allocated space) and put the 'direct link' into an img tag ( - without the *'s) and copy it into the caption box.
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okay so like theres this senior, that i like. and he lieks me back. and like we had this thing for like a month where we really weren't going out, but like we were like hanging out and doing kinda boyfriend and girlfriend things((holding hands, mvoei nights.....telling eachother things that no one else noes)) then like recently he told me that he just wanted to be friends, but that he still like me and he was confused. then last sunday he told me that he ws confused because of the age difference between me and him, ((hes a senior and im a sophomore))and that he was kinda afarid to do "stuff". which got me really upset. but now im like over it bc i noe that he still likes me and thats all that matters. but then there is this other guy, freshmen, and he is really sweet and funny, and everyone thinks that he likes me. and i think i might just like him back. there are these times where i think that the freshmen would be better to "go for" becasue there wouldn't be that much of an age difference, and we would be closer. but then i wouldn't noe if what he tells me is sincere bc it would be a chance for him to show me off as his girlfriend who is a year older ((if it escaltes to that)). but then there is the senior, who i know likes me and cares for me, but doesn't know what he wants to do about it. im so confused and just need a seconf opnion.
I wouldn't 'go for' either of them. People aren't like movies, you can't just pick and choose. It sounds like you are hurting and confused about the senior and so you have turned to the freshman for a bit of rebound.
You are better than this. Forget them both and find someone who deserves you.
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