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For The Guys .
Ok . Me and my boyfriend have a pretty good relationship . We have been dating over a year now , But i feel as if i need more attention . How can i get him to " sort of say " .... Come to me instead of me come to him ? Like make him want to do more things with me and treat me really good . He already does but i just want a stronger relationship because i feel i put more in than he does . So how can i get him to do things for me and WANT to ?
Nothing rude please , thanks .
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Guys work differently to girls. The chances are he probably feels just as strongly for you as you do for him, but he's male, and teenage at that, which means that it's inevitable that he will be less forward with his feelings.
He's not a mind reader. He probably isn't even aware that you feel like he isn't showing you enough attention. The best way to let him know is to tell him. You've been together for a while, which shows his commitment to your relationship, I'm sure he'll understand.
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Just come out and say it. "I feel I need more attention from you." "I want you to do more things with me." When he asks, "Ugh...Like what?" Say whatever you feel you want him to do that would make you happier. I believe men are naturally programmed to make their mate happy. You've just got to tap in to that natural instinct. Getting on our level of thinking is the key. Oh, and if you are happy with the guy let him know! Let him know his strong points and encourage him. That way he wont think he's inadequate. You may have to repeat this a few times before it sinks in but plant the message and then give him time to think and be creative. Lord knows, that's what my wife had to do to me.
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