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caught excusing a girl from class please help me!!!!!
this girl who i really dont talk to asked me to call her in as her mom. shes really good friends with my friends, and she said if she gets caught she'll take all the blame. so i did it. today i was called to the office, they asked if it was me. i didnt no what to do so i freaked and said no it wasnt i promise. i left and he said if your lying there will be serious trouble. i decided to go back to talk to him after school to confess, but he wasnt there. i left him a note to call me into the office tomorrow. what should i say?! its hard to be like, well hey i lied to you im sorry, because i went into detail in my lying you know! so it will make me look so stupid and bad! im so scared of getting suspended, i was just trying to be nice to that girl. im in sports, i CANT get suspended! please please please help me im soooo scared ill be in trouble for lying, i cant stop crying! but going to tell the truth is best to do right? sorry its long please answer!!!
ps. i NEVER do anything bad. ive only ever ditched once, im an A and B student. all thats on my record was excessive tardies 2 years ago. Im truly a good kid! just caught in a bad situation
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mmkay calm down!take a few deep breaths.its going to be alright,it wasnt your fault.you may feel embarrased and maybe they will be a little dissapointed in you but they will respect you even more for telling the truth.your doing the right thing!plus what if you dont say anything and she freaks out and lies and then you BOTH get in trouble.honest is the best policy.i highkly doubt there goona give you detention for telling the truth.mmkay so heres what you say:
i need to tell you something,and please just listen to everything i have to say because i have an explanatin.i lied to you yesterday and i really needed to get it off my chest.veronica[her pretend name]came to me and asked if i would do that for ehr,we werent really goof friends or anything but she promised if we got caught she would take all the blame.so,without thinking,i did it.but i feel really bad for what i did AND lying to you and i know there are consequences to what we do,so i am her and am ready to take full responsibility[he'll respect you for this].mmkay?good luck!
p.s if you almost cry or your voice get shaky its OKAY.it works on adults.
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I've been in almost the exact same situation as you, so I can really relate. Once when I was in 11th grade, my "friend" brought these prescription pills to school and put one in my purse for me to take later. I was never actually going to take it, and I was planning on throwing it out when I got home. But someone saw us that morning and turned us in. I knew nothing good would come from lying, so I just told the truth.
Unfortunately, I did get suspended. But because I was so honest and cooperative, the assistant principal made the effort to let my parents know that, before I got into too much trouble.
Luckily for you, I doubt you'll get suspended. In my case, drugs were involved, which, as I'm sure you know, is highly frowned upon at ANY school.
You'll probably get into some kind of trouble, such as in-school suspension or detention, but maybe not. Even though you lied in the first place, coming back to tell the truth showed true maturity and responsibility for your actions, and I'm sure your school will appreciate that.
In the meantime, just try to relax, and if you haven't already, give your parents the heads-up that you could be in trouble, but that you're really sorry and never meant any harm.
Whatever happens, will happen. You can't stop the future, but you can still learn from it in the end.
I hope that I was of some help, and good luck to you. :]
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It's always horrible when you get into trouble for doing someone a favour.
You've done the right thing by asking to be called to the office tomorrow. Confessing would be the best option, just tell the truth. There is a possibility that the school will be able to see your maturity for owning up and take your good record into account and be less severe with punishment. It's unlikely that you will get suspended, especially if you have been honest. However, there is still a chance that you will get into trouble and if you do, then learn from this mistake.
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I think your honesty will be appreciated. Of course, there will be some sort of consequence, but that's just something you have to face. I wager your good student record of only tardies 2 years ago will be taken into consideration.
If coming outright and saying "I lied" is too hard, start telling the story from the beginning, just as you did here.
Explain that yes, you did lie because you were scared to tell the truth, but you decided to face the music.
And yes, going to tell the truth is the best thing.
ygs-29/f
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