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I love him. he doesnt get it
I love this guy who broke up with me last year. i think he has moved on but i havent at all. we are still friends and i sometimes go to hhis house to hang and stuff but i...love him and i dont think he understands. all my friends are getting their "true love" but i am to scared to tell him how i feel because im scared he doesnt even like me..:( please help
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Its a very difficult situation..
I think as for your friends finding their "true love", dont feel pressured.. you dont want to end up rushing into something just because you didnt want to feel left out, which you may realise may be the wrong choice..
I think you need to think and decide wether this boy is worth risking everything for.. is it worth telling him how u feel if there is a chance that he may feel the same way? or are you better off keeping everything inside but remaining friends..
If he is worth the risk.. tell him how u feel..
1 tip i always try and use is to always expect the worse.. that way, if the worse occurs, your sort of prepared.. on the other hand, if the best happens you will be pleasantly surprised...
Just make sure you think about everything carefully before you do anything...
Wish you the best of luck
Sanj
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listen try and calm down . then tell him how you feel you will feel alot better i can tell you that. but alteast if he dosent feel the same way he atleast nos how you feel and you never no he might even feel the same way but the best thing is to do is tell him good luck x
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This is always hard to decide what you want to do, the best advice I can give you is to follow your heart. Let him know how you feel about him but don't pressure him to like you back. Tell him that you really really care about him and want to be with him, but you understand if he doesn't like you that way. It will be hard but you will feel better about it in the long run.
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Hi,
Situations like this are always difficult to deal with and it's never easy even to decide what you should do. What I would say is this... you say all your friends are finding their "true love" - well the reality is most of these relationships will run their course and end - that's life.
You still have feelings for this guy and their isn't an awful lot to do about that. I don't think I can advise you as to whether or not you should tell him how you feel as it's got to be a personal choice but I take it you value this guy as a friend so be very careful not to sacrifice your friendship in pursuit of something more. Also take into account that you may well not have these feelings forever, they may pass and you also may move on - so think very carefully about it before you do anything.
Chandler
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