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who should i choose?
okay so like theres this senior, that i like. and he lieks me back. and like we had this thing for like a month where we really weren't going out, but like we were like hanging out and doing kinda boyfriend and girlfriend things((holding hands, mvoei nights.....telling eachother things that no one else noes)) then like recently he told me that he just wanted to be friends, but that he still like me and he was confused. then last sunday he told me that he ws confused because of the age difference between me and him, ((hes a senior and im a sophomore))and that he was kinda afarid to do "stuff". which got me really upset. but now im like over it bc i noe that he still likes me and thats all that matters. but then there is this other guy, freshmen, and he is really sweet and funny, and everyone thinks that he likes me. and i think i might just like him back. there are these times where i think that the freshmen would be better to "go for" becasue there wouldn't be that much of an age difference, and we would be closer. but then i wouldn't noe if what he tells me is sincere bc it would be a chance for him to show me off as his girlfriend who is a year older ((if it escaltes to that)). but then there is the senior, who i know likes me and cares for me, but doesn't know what he wants to do about it. im so confused and just need a seconf opnion.
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I wouldn't 'go for' either of them. People aren't like movies, you can't just pick and choose. It sounds like you are hurting and confused about the senior and so you have turned to the freshman for a bit of rebound.
You are better than this. Forget them both and find someone who deserves you.
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i think you have to check out the fresh man more to see if he meets your standards and you think hes true to you(thats what dating is for). dont worry about him bragging, worry about him being good at everything else.
I think the senior thing sounds kind of you have an older friend you like. i wouldnt really expect that something develops out of it (eventhough its not totally impossible), because i think it would have had already if it was meant to.
Cant you "go" for both? you dont know the fresh man well enough yet and you dont know if there is a future with the senior.
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