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I'm a shy, quiet girl, and I have so many friendship failures and people bully me.
Last, last, last year, my relatives made a plan to ignore me. And it's still happening right now even if I told them to stop.
Last, last year, I became best friends with this girl but then she started doing bad things to me, like stealing and those stuff.
Last year, I was this talkative girl who's shy. My friends were boys. But now my friends and I drifted apart. So I'm friendless.
This year, there's this girl who I was friends with a long time ago, and just last, last month she tried to be friends with me again. Our friendship worked for a while, and I became friends with her friends. But then now she became mean and talked about me behind my back even when I was right there and she knew I could hear her.
And then there's this another girl who used to ask me to come with her to places. But now she laughs at me when I do something wrong, or even something normal.
Now I sit alone during lunch and people make fun of me even when I do something heroic. I don't have friends and people look at me in a weird way. What am I going to do?
Lets discuss the bullying first. Bullying is a major topic of discussion between parents, teachers, school administrators and the police. School officials have taken a zero tolerance policy of bulling as it has a major effect on everything a student does both in and out of school.
If you are being bullied you need to tell a trusted teacher you are being bullied, by whom and how you are being bullied. You also need to tell your parents that you are being bullied; again by whom, how and where as well as what teacher you informed. Between your parents and school officials the bulling will stop.
As for school friends. That is exactly what they are. school friends. Most of whom you will never see again once you graduate high school. I know this is of little consolation now but it is the truth. Whatever their reasons are for being the way they are it is mostly because they don't know you. Teenagers are strange in how they react to the unknown and this includes other people they may not know well. The fact that your shy while they are more out going is something they don't understand. In a word it is their "Immaturity" that is the problem, not you.
When you graduate you will all go off in separate directions. Some or most will go off to different colleges. Others will go into the military and the rest will try and start to make their way in the adult working world. You all will find they have little in common and drift apart. You and they will all make new friends.
Until them what I suggest is you sit down and think about the things you like to do, your interests and hobbies. I find making a list helps. I like to cook, so cooking clubs interest me. Once you have you list look for different clubs that promote a same interest as you have. Like the cooking club I found. If you like the club join it.
What is nice about this is you already have one of the tenants of a friendship to grow on. That being a basic interest. It gives you something to talk about, something you are interested in. Your shyness will disappear allowing the other person to get to know you and a real friendship happens.
Try this know and I believe you will find I am right. Also remember this when you get to college as you will want to do the same thing when you get to college and make new friends.
20/F and had this strange rash between my neck and stomach for about three weeks now. Big and small red spots that only tend to itch first thing or late at night. It is impossible trying to get a doc's appointment these days unless your left foot is dropping off and I don't know what else to do as I do not class it as an emergency thing, more of a vanity/curious thing.
Anyone got any ideas as to what is it and how can I get rid of it?
We are not doctors and cannot offer a diagnosis. To do so would require us to see the rash which we can't do over the web in any case.
There are any number of things that can cause a rash. Laundry detergent is a big cause. Have you switched detergents recently? New clothing will sometimes be the culprit, especially new clothing manufactured overseas. new soap, new body wash, new body powder, the list goes on and on.
Most rashes are just plain contact dermatitis, others are caused by stress or possibly something you are allergic to. A persistent rash needs to be seen by a doctor. If you cannot see your family doctor I suggest you go to one of the walk in clinics that are available. Many will arrange to see patients by appointment.
Patient First and Right Time Medical care are two of the biggest companies offering walk in service. One or both probably have a location that are convenient to you. Both are usually open as late as between ten PM and midnight.
Some of the larger pharmacy chains such as CVS and Target Pharmacies have Nurse Practitioners' available to see Patients.
Either of these options should be able to identify the type of rash you have and offer treatment. Both are available with and without appointment. Appointments are available on a same day basis.
Any rash that has persisted this long needs medical intervention. If you cannot see your own doctor try one of the clinics I have suggested.
Ok I don't know if I put this in the right category or not but here it is: I lost money because i have to many hiding place. Ok so is there any one we was lost money because they have to many hiding place? And if you did what did you do too find it again? I'm a teen but I need the money just the same. Not for hair or anything but some time my Mom need to get money so she can pay ALL of the bills. And I just don't like losing money. Who can blame me? Did you make a list or something and cheek it two times? No I know what time of yr it is and I'm NOT BEING FUNNY. I need that money. HELP!!! P.S. only say something if you know how to find it. Don't say something. Will I would cry. I mean you can say that if you want but say something helpful. Because don't think that I would not give you a 1! Thanks.
Okay Now I understand. I'm still not sure I can help but lets see if I can offer some advice.
Right now you are in a panic. You have to find the money. When I find myself in a panic I never find what I'm looking for or trying to do. So the first thing to do is you have to try and calm down and look at this with as clear a head as possible.
When you have calmed down make a list of everyplace and anything you can think of that you would hide something in. Then list everyplace you would never think to hide something in.
Start with the first list. Go to the first place and search it. Search everything, in everything and under everything. Take things out and set them aside after you have thoroughly search that item then repeat until that thing or space is empty and make sure there is no space in which you have left unsearched. Put everything back double checking each items as you do so. Repeat this method with everyplace on your lists until you either find the money or come to the end of your list then do the same with the second list.
I know you have already done this. You did this in haste and you may have missed what you were looking for, I know I have done so many times. If you exhaust both lists then ask your mother if she may have found your money or if you have siblings ask them as well.
Hope this helps.
I'm 12/f theres this guy at school that I really really like his name is Dylan. Right now he is single should I ask him out or should we stay friends?
A 12 year old boy may not have entered puberty yet. If not his interest in girls is not as strong as your interest in boys may be.
If this is what you are fighting, which I think it may be, you are fighting an up hill battle. My advice to you is to remain friends with him but do not push him into anything he may not be ready for.
As for being ready for anything; neither of you are yet in your teenage years. Relax a bit and enjoy who you are and what there is to do within your age group. You have plenty of time to date and chase boys or rather have boys chase you.
From purely a parental stand point I don't think I would approve of any exclusive type of relationships at your age. I would rather see you and your friends, girls and boys doing, things in groups. Things like hanging out at the mall together, going skating, bowling or to the movies. This is called socializing which is a very important part of growing up. Something I believe all adolescents must experience before they start any type of exclusive relationships. This is how you learn to judge other people and is something that is very important for your own safety as you grow older.
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TO be honest if you have to ask the question It is my feeling you may be to young for any of us to answer this question. If you really want to know there are ways to research the answer on the web.
how do i get this guy in 6th grade to ask me to go out wth him (be his girlfriend) if i know he likes me without saying anything tto him?
I'm about the age of your grandfather maybe a little older so I might be wrong in my answer as it has been a long time since I was in the 6th grade.
If I remember correctly when I was in the 6th grade boys were not yet as interested in girls as girls were interested in boys. When I entered the 6th grade I was 10 going on 11 and I don't think I had entered puberty yet. Until a boy enters puberty his interest in girls and hanging out with them, in a purely social relationship, has yet to developed.
If this is what you are fighting, which I think it may be, you are fighting an up hill battle. My advice to you is to remain friends with him but do not push him into anything he may not be ready for.
As for being ready for anything; neither of you are yet in your teenage years. Relax a bit and enjoy who you are and what there is to do within your age group. You have plenty of time to date and chase boys or rather have boys chase you.
From purely a parental stand point I don't think I would approve of any exclusive type of relationships at your age. I would rather see you and your friends, girls and boys doing, things in groups. Things like hanging out at the mall together, going skating, bowling or to the movies. This is called socializing which is a very important part of growing up. Something I believe all adolescents must experience before they start any type of exclusive relationships. This is how you learn to judge other people and is something that is very important for your own safety as you grow older.
I'm 12/f have breasts and pubic hair and discharge but no period my mom got hers at 11 when will I get mine?
I know this is not the answer you are looking for. Everything comes at its proper time. Everyone develops differently. Remember you are carrying two different sets of genes, your moms and your dads, so you need to look not only at mom but dads mom and his sister as well if he has a sister. Even if they too were early bloomers this does not mean you too will get your period when they did.
When your body is ready it will release the necessary hormones to let your period start. Until then relax and enjoy the fact that you don't have to deal with it. Once it comes you will have to deal with it for the next forty years or so. Something you will soon tire of and not look very favorably on that time of the month each month.
You are 12 not yet a teenager. You have time still for your body to develop and change. Your period is not what defines you as a women. Frankly no part of your body or a particular women's bodily function defines a women as a women. It is a lot more complex than than, something you will understand better as you and your body mature. To understand exactly what I mean you may want to discuss this with your mother.
While I'm on the subject of discussions with mom. When it comes to different things that will happen to you over the next few years. There should be nothing you should be afraid to ask mom about. Remember mom is your best source of information about what is happening to you. Mom was once your age and has gone through everything you will go through.
Mom can explain every ache and pain you may feel and help you decide if you need to see a doctor. You should tell mom when you get your period so she can help you properly care for yourself. Make sure whatever pains you feel are proper.
You have breast, mom should show you how to examine yourself for lumps. This is very, very important even for someone as young as you. This is not something sexual it is a life saving exam. I know, my wife found a lump two years ago through self-examination and is now two years cancer free. So please do not be embarrassed to talk to mom when something hurts or is bothering you.
To answer your question: Relax all in good time.
19/F...
Okay, I am a week and 5 days late of my period.
6 days after my period was late, I took a pregnancy test, it came back postive. I was told it was better to take it first thing in the morning. I've been stressing about it really bad. My period is never late, and it has a good amount of flow.
Thursday, i noticed a little blood; it was really light and not alot. I took a pregnancy test Saturday night & Sunday morning and they both came back negative.
Just curious what this means?
I plan on going to the doctor Tuesday to get a blood test done just to put this whole thing at rest; but 3 pregnancy test, all negative, and NO pregnancy symptons, what is up with my period? Better yet, what is up with me?
The possibility of you being pregnant are probably very slim. Going to the doctor for a definitive answer is the best thing you can do under the circumstances.
So you are 19, possible that you you are in the first or second year of college. Given the time of year I would think it is coming up on finals and end of year projects are due. Possibly you are working too.
If I have I have guessed correctly there is enough stress here to stress out a Saint. More than enough to throw of you menstrual rhythm. Wait till you get the results from your doctor, which I believe will be negative just as the home tests were. Once the stress in your life is relieved things should return to normal.
I am 13 turning 14 next month and I have been thinking a lot about sex but when I'm ready how will i be able to get the protection i need without my parents finding out?
Also does it hurt for most girls when its there first time and what's the less painful position as in girl and guy sex (not talking about a blowjob!)
I found the website, shown at the end, while answering a very similar question for other young ladies. I believe you should review this website before making any decision about having sex, starting with “Am I ready?”
On the subject of are you ready: all I will say is sexual intercourse is a beautiful thing between two loving responsible adults. Sex for you as a woman is different than for the boy. You are more emotionally mature than a partner would at your same age by about 2 years. Sex for a woman most always have a loving relationship, meaning women usually do not hop in and out of bed. Where for a boy of the same age sex is more of a conquest, away to satisfy raging hormones.
The odds are against you marring the boy you give your virginity to, so be selective as to who you chose to be your first. Make sure you find someplace you can have your first sexual experience that is safe, relaxing and that you will be undisturbed. You should be on birth control for at least 30 days and always have him use a condom. When you are of age 14 or older, by law, you have medical confidentiality. This law called HIPPA, a federal law, provides you the right and the protection to see any doctor in private. Meaning mom or dad cannot be in the exam room with you during the examination or treatment. The doctor cannot tell your parents what you are being treated for without a written release from you signed in front of his nurse or someone in his employ. This is to insure you are not forced in to supplying this release. This law specifically covers a women’s reproductive system. Under this law you can ask your doctor for birth control medication. He can only refuse you on medical grounds.
As someone who is old enough to be your grandparent I should be telling you to wait. I am sure your parents have already given you that advice and it is good advice. It is also hypocritical of most of us, as most all of us my age and younger engaged in sex long before we were married. What I will say is there are ways of satisfying the sexual urges without having intercourse. There is masturbation, mutual masturbation, which is generally apart of foreplay, BJ’s and HJ’s. At your present ages you can have all the intimacy of sex using these alternatives without running the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy. Remember no birth control is 100% effective. End of lecture.
My advice is to wait a few more years, let you and your body matures a bit more so that you can fully enjoy a sexual relationship. Don’t let pear pressure force you to do something you may not be fully ready for.
http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/virginity/readyornot.html
Well I went over to my boyfriends house who is 2 years older than me. I am 13 and hen is 15. I went over there and we were up in his room we were just talking and then he told me he loved me of course I told him I love you to. Well then he said if you really love me then you will do something for. I asked him what. Then he said will you suck on my dick? I told him okay but I warn you I have never done it before. Well while I was doing it he started grabbing my boobs and fingering me well I went along with it because he has done this stuff before and well I hadn't. Well afterward we just kissed and stuff. but please tell me was this wrong?
Do I really have to tell you it was wrong? I think you know it was wrong for a variety of reasons.
Before I answer your question maybe you will answer a question for me. I do not understand why young girls your age and younger feel they need to have boyfriends. What necessitates the need for a boyfriend at your age. When I was your age girls for the most part, while interested in boys didn't date and didn't have boy friends. Their father or parents would not allow it. To date a girl had to be at least 16, what has changed? What is your hurry to grow up? Of course this includes the rush to have sex.
Okay so it was more than one question. Within my questions are also the reasons why it is wrong for you to have done what you did.
Your too young to be having any type of sex.
At your age having an exclusive relationship in my view is inappropriate.
You should not have been alone in his room.
Where where his parents.
You should take time to experience being a young girl and give your body and mind time to catch up with each other. Your teenage years are a wonderful time of life, please for your own sake don't try to rush through them. Enjoy each year to its fullest for they will never come again.
Most importantly do not let peer pressure sucker you into doing things you know are wrong or you just plain don't want to do. You may not agree with me at the moment when I say; this is a wonderful time in your life, slow down and enjoy these years. Later in life you will look back and say, you know answerman49 was right.
Idk if i should be uncomfortable about stuff that I do with my boyfriend. It feels so good and I love it but is it right now he is great at it so idk someone tell me please is it bad?
It would help if I knew your age as that is a contributing factor in how you may feel.
If your question is about sex, let me say this: Sex between two CONSENTING ADULTS, the operative words being, consenting adults, can be a very beautiful and loving experience. Sex between two minors while also being very beautiful is fraught with remorse; for being discovered or worse becoming pregnant. Which sort of takes the shine off the beauty of it all.
If you are a minor, being under the age of consent in your state, this may be what your feeling. If your boyfriend is asking you to do things sexually that you do not think is proper that is another story regardless of your age.
As I said not knowing your age or exactly what you are asking. Given that these facts are missing let me say this.
You should never do something or allow yourself to be shamed or coerced into doing anything you are uncomfortable doing and this includes anything sexual. When it comes to sex; anything you are not 100% consenting to, meaning being coerced into doing in any way, fits the description of rape. No means NO, not maybe, not talk me into it, not force me to try doing it. No means No and stop means stop regardless of where in the act you may be.
The same holds true for social activities. For example you are at a party and someone pulls out some weed. You want nothing to do with drugs and ask your date to take you home or someplace else. Your date should not force you to stay or in any way shame you into staying. If your date refuses and there is no way else for you to get home safely this is the same as kidnapping and fits the definition of kidnapping.
Do my examples sound a little far fetched. They really are not. You may have heard about the theory "that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction." Well this applies in the law as well. If someone forces you to do something against your will the law provides for an opposite reaction. This is your protection. You have every right to say no to anything you are not comfortable with, with the exception of school assignments, school is more of a dictatorship in that regard.
If you are having under age sex you should be uncomfortable. The consequences of your actions can be great. Not just the chances of pregnancy but the loss of trust from your parents and depending on your age the possibility of getting a reputation around school.
I may have provided more information then you asked for. I tried to cover all the bases since information on just what you were asking was missing. I hope somewhere in all of this is the answer to your question.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost four months now, and he wants to keep us a secret from his friends and family. I am 14, he is 18 - please no comments about age, we don't mind the age difference at all - and we live far apart. We text all the time, but barley get to see eachother. He doesn't want to tell any of his friends or family - and won't say we are dating on faceboook. He always says he is going to marry me someday and acts mostly like he means it. I don't know what to do anymore, but I love him with all of my heart.
I know you said you don't what to hear anything about the age difference. I sorry but I am compelled to say something when I see something that can to irreparable harm to someone.
There is a four year age difference between you two. This means your boyfriend, and adult, is dating a minor. In the eyes of the law he is committing statutory rape. Don't tell me you haven't had sex, as statutory rape has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with the difference in your ages.
Im sure this is his primary reason behind Why keeping your relationship a secret from anyone. Anyone not just your parents can report this to the police and they would have to investigate and charge him. If convicted he would have to register as sex offender for the rest of his life.
You say you live far apart. Do you happen to live in different states. Have you traveled to meet him in the state where he lives. If so this adds about a dozen more new charges he can be charged with among them the Federal charge of violating th Mann Act. Now you are no longer talking to local police and prosecutors. You are talking to the FBI and federal prosecutors.
Do you see what I am trying to tell you. Your boyfriend can be in very serious trouble, do some serious jail time. As for you it is very possible, especially if you lie to any, you can be sighted as a juvenile delinquent and taken out of your home.
Am I trying to scare you, NO. I'm trying to tell you in no uncertain terms that what you are doing is wrong. There is a reason why someone your age should not be dating someone his age. If you were 24 and he 28 I would have no problem. You would be mature enough to make your own decisions. Right now no matter how mature you feel you are, or actually you are. In the eyes off the law you are an immature adolescent teenager that must be protected. This is why these laws exist.
My advise: If you love this young man you will find someone closer to your own age to date.
All right so me and my boyfriend having been dateing for about a month now. We have kissed and I let him feel me up while we were making out. Now though it seems he "hints" toward wanting to do more. Like when he is touching my chest, he will move his hand down and kinda linger on my belt. I know what he wants and he knows I want to take things slow, but I feel guilty when he doesn't get what he wants(my past b/f's made me think we had to do things). I eventually give in and end up feeling like s*** afterwards. How can I tell him no and stick with it? My self-esteem is not that high do to past experiences. I am always the one who has to say no. He has never said no, or "well we don't have to".
You have asked two questions. Lets deal with saying no first.
Anyone, man or women has the right to say no, especially when it comes to sex. You should not feel guilty in saying no. While sex is a beautiful thing between two consenting adults, the operative word her is CONSENTING.
If you are in any way forces or coerced in to having sex that is the same as being raped to my mind. If you have said no and your boyfriend continues to push you or puts you in such a position that the only alternative is to give in; that is just about the definition of rape.
What you have to do is have a conversation with your boyfriend, while sitting apart, that you are not ready to have sex with him. It does not matter if you are a virgin or non-virgin and if he knows this or not. You are telling him up front you are not ready, this is a NO and he must accept that.
You have to tell him that if he respects you he will stop pushing you to sleep with him. You will let him know when you are ready when and if that time comes. If he is unable to respect and accept what you are saying then he doesn't respect you and the relation ship cannot and will not move forward.
His only answer can be that he understands and will abide by what you have said. Any other answer you point to the door and tell him it has been nice knowing him and stand firm as he is not in love with you he lusts for you. Which brings us to question two.
There is such a thing as love at first sight. It is rare but it does happen. It happened with me and my wife. With us we spoke to each other by phone for nearly 6 months before we met. We worked together but at different office's. Then I had the opportunity to work at her office for a week. I knew she would be the girl I married when I first set eyes on her and we did marry 8 months later. I believe are experience is rare and only happened be cause we really knew each other so well from talking to each other for so long. We will be married 41 years next July.
Teenage buys confuse lust and love. Puberty hard wire teenage boys to seek out sex to relieve the sexual tension they have from the hormonal build up building within them.
If you boyfriend is of your same age I would expect him to be well past the stage where he confuses lust and love. Which means one of two things. First he could actually feel he loves you; or two he feels that telling you he loves you is the fast way into the bedroom with you. Not knowing your boyfriend I cant advice you here.
What I can tell you that your desire to go slowly is the best way to find out if his love for you is real or if it is lust. Stick to your principals and you will never go wrong.
13/f
Okay so I was taking my puppy out to go to the bathroom and we have two doors at the one entrance and I only close one because I was coming back in. Well my dad got mad because I only closed one so he literally locked me out of my house. I rung the doorbell and banged in the door for 3 minutes before my mom finally came and unlocked it because she couldn't read through the noise and then she yelled at me for making the noise. Then my dad yelled at me for only closing one door because it was letting the heat out. But the thing is he NEVER turns on the heat. I'm in two sweatshirts, two pairs if socks, and a blanket and I'm still cold. But why would he lock me out of the house? I think that's immature and even dangerous. What if someone pocked me up and kidnapped me. What if someone raped me ir murdered me. Most likely both. Granted I don't know who would come up to someone with a Siberian husky that looks like a wolf but ut was dark out. But he did that to show me I should close the door? That's not dramatic.
I think your father over reacted and you may be being a bit melodramatic.
You were wrong in leaving the door open regardless of whether the heat was on in the house or not. I would suggest you apologize to your dad for doing so. Then tell him how scared you were being locked out of the house.
Your dad was trying to teach you a lesson. His method was wrong and probably motivated by anger. When we are angry we act without thinking. I'm sure if your dad had thought about it he could have come up with a better object lesson that locking you out of the house or just punished you for leaving the door open.
Telling your dad that I said he was wrong in what he did will not serve your purpose. What you need to do is to apologize as you too were wrong for leaving the door open which made him angy.
By apologizing you open a line of communication between you and your dad that allows you to CALMLY tell him how scared you were in being locked out. I'm sure once you tell him this he too will apologize to you and explain he did so in anger and was not thinking about how scared you would be. I believe your dad was trying to teach you a lesson, not scare the living daylights out of you.
I recently made a suicide attempt but failed coz the rope snapped off.now i am in a dilemma whether to kill myself or go on with life.i dont feel confident of having a successful future nor do i have the guts to attempt suicide again.i am confused.
Take the fact that the rope snapped as a sign that suicide is not the answer, and was not the answer to your problem(s).
While you have not explained why you do not feel confident of having a successful future; I would say your not alone in having those feelings. I think many of us, especially those of us who may be just starting out into adult life may have the same feeling.
Success is where you find it by making the most of what you have. I realize this statement is a little shallow in meaning. What it means is that you have to evaluate what you have to offer, as in what you can offer an employer, friends and family. Figure out what your strongest points are, then work to succeed by building on those points and learning to improve on your weaker points.
I've been in sales most of my adult life. Ask any sales manager and they will tell you if you leave the house in the morning and return in the afternoon without selling something. You have been unemployed that day. I never worried about selling anything. What I did not sell today I would sell two of tomorrow. Selling was my strong point. What concerned me more was leaving the house and not learning something that day. Something that would help me improve my selling; make me more valuable to my customers or my employer.
I felt and still feel to leave the house in the morning and return in the evening and not learn something new is a wasted day. This has been one of my mantras and has made me extremely successful at what I do. By learning something each and everyday I not only improved my weak points, I straightened my strong points.
We all have strong and weak points. You have them too. At the moment you probably find it hard to see either of them as your vision is clouded by the depression you feel. Since you have attempted suicide in the past I would like you to call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline. Tell them about your past attempt. Tell them why you felt the need to attempt suicide and what is bothering you. They will help you find professional people in your area to help you get past the depression and see things more clearly.
Suicide is never the right answer. Please call, 1-800-273-TALK
Is there a website with sex positions on it?
Yes. Type "sex positions" into any search engine and a number of websites will be displayed
my step dad works for 4 days and then he comes home for 4 days. Every night that he's home him and my mom have sex, they're very loud about it too, that's how I know. How do they not get ever get sick of it? They never take a break. It's like a nightly routine for them.
I said at the beginning of my I wasn't sure of what your were asking so I covered all the bases I could think you might be asking. I can't answer what you parents might tire of or do I know your depth of sexual knowledge. I therefore covered the full range of answers. By the way for future reference. When it comes to sex nothing is ever sick if the parties envolved consent. You may not like it or take part in it but it does not make it sick. Deviant mayb,There is a difference.
I'm not sure what your point is. Do you think people your parents age should not be having sex? That sex is only reserved for the young?
If this is the case I have a hot flash for you. People like you parents will probably be enjoying sex right up to the day they die, hopefully at a ripe old age. Sex is good for the cardiovascular system as well. You should be happy for them.
If hearing them enjoying a great sex life bothers you there are two things you can do. The first is get out your music player and a good pair of noise canceling head phones to block out hearing them. The second thing is if your into masturbating, you can masturbate while they are having their fun, or you can do both.
The fact that they are nosy and they probably know they are. Tells me they know you can hear them. They want you to know they love each other and it is okay to enjoy sex when you are old enough to do so and under the right circumstance. Call it an object lesson.
By they way their is nothing wrong with masturbation. According to a recent survey 85% of us do it.
Hi!
I just had back surgery, a growing rod adjustment and I'm very stiff and in pain (but still cheerful). I was just wondering how to get rid of my stiffness, as the muscle relaxant isn't working very well and when i try to stretch, it hurts extremely. It even hurts when i cough and sneeze. Please Help!
This is really a question for your surgeon. When you have healed enough physical therapy will be perscribed. Until then I would suggest you not do anything not approved by your doctor. The last thing you want is to end up with chronic back pain.
As one who suffers from chronic back pain I can tell you it is no fun. The treatment is big needles driven into your back to your spine to inject steroids. It can be as painful as the back pain.
Me and my boyfriend had sex and I'm not sure if he had popped my cherry I bleed but every time I have sex it hurts really bad?
Your boyfriend may not have fully torn your Hyman or he may have only torn or stretched through the opening in your Hyman that the blood from your period passes through. In either case it is a good idea to see a gynecologist for s check up.
I am a guy and my girlfriend and I have never had sex. But with clothes on i have stuck my penis near her vagina. I am afriad that I might of accidently gotten her pregnent. Do you think it is possible? She is also a virgin too...?
It only takes one sperm getting in to a girls vagina to make her pregnant. That sperm can be on your fingers, her fingers which are then inserted into her or if a guy cums on or near her vagina.
If any of this were to happen and a strong enough sperm was able to make the swim to fertilize an egg pregnancy can happen. The girls Hyman would still be in place and technical we would still be a virgin.