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i'm being bullied and my former friends are mean to me
I'm a shy, quiet girl, and I have so many friendship failures and people bully me.
Last, last, last year, my relatives made a plan to ignore me. And it's still happening right now even if I told them to stop.
Last, last year, I became best friends with this girl but then she started doing bad things to me, like stealing and those stuff.
Last year, I was this talkative girl who's shy. My friends were boys. But now my friends and I drifted apart. So I'm friendless.
This year, there's this girl who I was friends with a long time ago, and just last, last month she tried to be friends with me again. Our friendship worked for a while, and I became friends with her friends. But then now she became mean and talked about me behind my back even when I was right there and she knew I could hear her.
And then there's this another girl who used to ask me to come with her to places. But now she laughs at me when I do something wrong, or even something normal.
Now I sit alone during lunch and people make fun of me even when I do something heroic. I don't have friends and people look at me in a weird way. What am I going to do?
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Don't go back and be friends with them unless YOU really want to. Well because they hurt you I know you probably don't want to be friends with them anymore. You have to remember well because I don't quite know if you in high school or in middle school but either or when you get out of school you will mostly not remember them. I don't really think that you will see them when you get out of school. Don't worry you are not alone with no friends. Ill tell you something. I'm 14 and in the 9th grade the years before I got bullied because of my weight and other stuff. Yes even my so called friend even laughed at me. I didn't let that stop me from being who I like to be best and that person that I know is ME. I went all through grade school will little of no friend and yes most of my friends were boys too. Now I go to a online school and I absolutely love it and the best part is that they treat you with kindness, love, and respect. If the bulling gets any worse talk it over with someone you trust or you can always ask someone here through our inbox.
Hope i helped.if you need anything else you can always ask me and I will answer it as soon as I can
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Lets discuss the bullying first. Bullying is a major topic of discussion between parents, teachers, school administrators and the police. School officials have taken a zero tolerance policy of bulling as it has a major effect on everything a student does both in and out of school.
If you are being bullied you need to tell a trusted teacher you are being bullied, by whom and how you are being bullied. You also need to tell your parents that you are being bullied; again by whom, how and where as well as what teacher you informed. Between your parents and school officials the bulling will stop.
As for school friends. That is exactly what they are. school friends. Most of whom you will never see again once you graduate high school. I know this is of little consolation now but it is the truth. Whatever their reasons are for being the way they are it is mostly because they don't know you. Teenagers are strange in how they react to the unknown and this includes other people they may not know well. The fact that your shy while they are more out going is something they don't understand. In a word it is their "Immaturity" that is the problem, not you.
When you graduate you will all go off in separate directions. Some or most will go off to different colleges. Others will go into the military and the rest will try and start to make their way in the adult working world. You all will find they have little in common and drift apart. You and they will all make new friends.
Until them what I suggest is you sit down and think about the things you like to do, your interests and hobbies. I find making a list helps. I like to cook, so cooking clubs interest me. Once you have you list look for different clubs that promote a same interest as you have. Like the cooking club I found. If you like the club join it.
What is nice about this is you already have one of the tenants of a friendship to grow on. That being a basic interest. It gives you something to talk about, something you are interested in. Your shyness will disappear allowing the other person to get to know you and a real friendship happens.
Try this know and I believe you will find I am right. Also remember this when you get to college as you will want to do the same thing when you get to college and make new friends.
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