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my parents have sex way to much.
my step dad works for 4 days and then he comes home for 4 days. Every night that he's home him and my mom have sex, they're very loud about it too, that's how I know. How do they not get ever get sick of it? They never take a break. It's like a nightly routine for them.
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Minding your own business is a good thing.
Look, I recognize that the thought of your parents being sexual people is gross. And one day, your kids are going to think the same of you and your partner. In addition, considering that your parents suffer long absences from each other, the frequent sex is understandable.
Look at this way: at least your stepdad isn't screwing around on your mom on the road because if he was you wouldn't be hearing him banging your mom every night. When they start getting it on, listen to your IPod or something.
So relax. Sex is a part of life. Stop being such a prude.
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Sex is a part of a healthy marriage, If the noise bothers you then you could talk to one of them and let them know that you find the noise to be bothersome and ask them if maybe they can tone it down.
Nothing really works better then a pair of headphones though. I do not suggest doing what Adviceman said below, Masturbation is a healthy thing don't get me wrong but doing it because you hear your own parents having sex is just weird.
Try talking to the one you feel most comfortable with.
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I said at the beginning of my I wasn't sure of what your were asking so I covered all the bases I could think you might be asking. I can't answer what you parents might tire of or do I know your depth of sexual knowledge. I therefore covered the full range of answers. By the way for future reference. When it comes to sex nothing is ever sick if the parties envolved consent. You may not like it or take part in it but it does not make it sick. Deviant mayb,There is a difference.
I'm not sure what your point is. Do you think people your parents age should not be having sex? That sex is only reserved for the young?
If this is the case I have a hot flash for you. People like you parents will probably be enjoying sex right up to the day they die, hopefully at a ripe old age. Sex is good for the cardiovascular system as well. You should be happy for them.
If hearing them enjoying a great sex life bothers you there are two things you can do. The first is get out your music player and a good pair of noise canceling head phones to block out hearing them. The second thing is if your into masturbating, you can masturbate while they are having their fun, or you can do both.
The fact that they are nosy and they probably know they are. Tells me they know you can hear them. They want you to know they love each other and it is okay to enjoy sex when you are old enough to do so and under the right circumstance. Call it an object lesson.
By they way their is nothing wrong with masturbation. According to a recent survey 85% of us do it.
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Honestly, you should be cheering them on. Regular, amazing sex is a big part of a good marriage. You hear of too many couples divorcing because they're not satisfied with the sex (or lack thereof).
That said, if I had heard my parents back in my teens, I would have been pretty disgusted. So the problem here is that you can hear them, not that they're having sex.
You can try the classic: bang on the wall between your rooms. Or you can go the other route and make it extremely obvious that you've heard everything, but put a little humour into it. High-five your stepfather, or use a key phrase from the night before at breakfast. Just don't get yourself in trouble. If they don't have a sense of humour, just talk to whichever parents is the same sex as you and say "Can you tone down the... noise? It's kind of disturbing and it's keeping me from my homework."
Or ask for a pair of noise-isolating headphones. Those work wonders. ;)
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