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On PA drivers lincences test do they stop you once you failed and just have you go back and park or do they have you complete it no matter what? I took it today and failed for a pretty dumb reason but thats besides the point. My parents said I was going to have to do a 3 point turn on the test but I never did but my test only lasted about 10 mins when the girl before me who passed, hers what about 15.
Each driving instructor & DMV is different. Most of my friends failed at least once, if not twice. Some had to complete the whole entire test & then were told they failed, while others only parked, did horrid on it & had to go back & not complete the test. It all depends on who gives you the test or the DMV. I haven't heard of anyone doing 3 point turns for a long time. I think that was on the exam awhile ago, but recently, I don't know anyone that had to do it. It wouldn't hurt practicing it though. Also, tests vary. Some are only 5 minutes, while others can go up to 20 minutes or more.
-hope that helped!♥
do those really work?
are they bad?
No. A Ouija board is a game for "fun" supposidly. Some people believe they really work, but there is no proof that they do. There's only random stories about them.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061120051631AAsj0Bu
There are other people's opinions. Some really think they work, others think people 'push' it themselves & the players are really just answering their own questions.
I'm not sure what you mean by "bad". It's a game. I heard that some religions are against it, because its being associated with the spiritual world & that isn't something you should do outside of religion. That's rumor though. I wouldn't recommend doing it. It's a stupid game.
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Okay right now I'm doing 60 minutes of cardio (elliptical) a day. I know this sounds like alot but I started out with 15 minutes a day about 3 months ago and I've been working my way up gradually.
I haven't seen any changes in my weight since I started doing 60 minutes cause I only started a few days ago but right now I'm doing the 60 minutes all in one go, which is fine with me, I'm not getting worn out or feeling weak or anything
But I'm wondering, would it be better to do the 60 minutes all in one go or do 30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes in the afternoon?
I'm talking in terms of WEIGHT LOSS here. Not in health, I don't care which is healthier because I already lead a pretty healthy lifestyle. But I'm not far off my goal weight and I've reached a plateu and I'd really like to lose my last 7lbs in about a month. So in terms of weight loss, which is better and why?
I think it would be better to do it all in one. For ellipticals, it takes longer for your heart to speed up. When your heart is racing, its pumping blood. You are burning calories while doing this, so therefore, if you only did ellipticals for 30 minutes, you wouldn't be getting as great of a workout if you did it for 60 minutes. Even if it's 60 mins total daily, which is still good, 60 mins all at once of exercise will most likely give you better results since you're giving your body more time to burn off fat instead of only going half way then stopping & starting later. If you want faster results, I would suggest doing 60 minutes of ellipticals & then later on maybe do 20-30 minutes of jogging. Also, eat healthy & drink plenty of water to keep yourself hydrated.
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My mom brother and I are all under one cellphone plan of tmobile. My brother has text messaging. He gets like a certain amount a month. I dont. My mom went to go pay the bill online and it said it was $900! I know! I think it might be from all my texting (since im not covered) My brother trys to blame it on me. My question is could it be from all my texting ? is that possible? and also my mosm warned me several times about texting so im defiantly going to get introuble if the bill is from all the texting ive done. What should i do?! I only have like $ 250 in the bank. AS of right now she thinks it must be a mistake or something. But im so scared!
Yes, obviously it would be from text messaging. If you don't have a texting plan, it costs 10 cents for every message sent/received. You can call & ask them why you're bill is so high. You can also probably find out why online through billing details. You'll have to sort out a way to pay the $900. I would also suggest not texting anymore.
-hope that helped!♥
Ok, i am starting highschool tomorrow and i am really really nervous! I dont really know my way around the school, i have only been in the hallways and stuff one time. I am also scared that i won't have my lunch period with any of my friends and i will be stuck with people i dont know sophmores, juniors and seniors. I dont really know where the buses will be and i just cant relax. I know i will have trouble sleeping tonight so if anyone can help me, thanks so much! :)
High school isn't really that big of a deal. It seems scary because you're a freshman. I'm a senior this year & I definitely remember my first day of freshman year. It wasn't fun at all, but now that I look back on it, it really is funny. To sum things up, they messed up my schedule & I went to all the wrong classes & got stared at by upperclassmen. Then on top of that, they have me the wrong locker, so when I went to put books back into my locker, a senior was standing there looking confused. I walked over & he explained that this locker was his & during his freshman year they did the same to him. I thought "okay how embarrasing" & simply appologized, grabbing my bookbag from my locker. Before walking away, he then mentioned that I was lucky because when it happened to him, the senior threw his stuff out in the hall & was very mad & then glared at me. I had to go back & get a new locker, spent 15 minutes searching for it, & then realized that I was the only freshman in the senior hall. You're probably wondering why I'm telling you this. Everyone goes through moments that are embarrasing & will make you worry, but you aren't alone. I'm not saying your first day will go like this, it most likely won't, but if it does, it will be hilarious to you years later. Relax & don't think about it. You aren't alone. You aren't the only freshman in your school. No one will know their way around the school, basically only a select few will, & if so, ask them! There's usually maps in the main office or assignment books. You could always ask other students. That's a great way to make new friends. There will always be someone in your lunch period. If its no one you know, just find an empty table [or somewhat empty] & meet new people. You could make great friends in high school. The buses won't be difficult to find. There will most likely be announcements & you can ask around.
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Ok, so the school i go to has a bathroom with stall doors that big spaces where the hinges are and people can see through them at you. Obviously when they built them, they just made the doors like that. But anyways, me and all my friends are really self concious about that. What should we do?
Most likely you can't really see through them unless you stop & stare & most of the time people are passing through quickly. If you are still worried about it, try taking your purse or a hoodie & hang it over the door blocking the space. That's the only thing you can probably do. You're all girls anyway.
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How do you know when to have sex? I wanted to a few days ago because I feel as though I'm ready. I'm protected and everything. I'm comfortable with it but it just seems like my boyfriend is just coming over more often because he wants to have sex when we have the chance. He says he wants to see me and if that happens, it will. I was talking to my close friend about this. She has had experience. She said the first time she had sex with her boyfriend.. he told people. How can I trust my boyfriend with this intimate moment? I gave him a blowjob months ago and his friend asked him if I ever gave him one.. He answered.. Even after I told him just to keep these things between us. He pretty much let it slip again. But at least he's being honest with me. I was fine with it because it's just a bj. But I can't seem to trust him now. I don't think he wants to come over to see me, just to have sex.. I know he's waiting for me.. I know how it is. It's something you need to tell a guyfriend but it's worrying me a lot. I want to be able to trust him and feel safe... without hearing something that I told him from a friend. It's just not cool. Sexual or nonsexual. His mom doesn't want him to have sex until he's 18. It's just a year away basically. He said he wouldn't tell anyone because rumors might get to his brothers which would pass to his mom.
I already had a talk with him but these feelings of doubt are causing me to worry and feel sick. Sex is something serious for me. He said he loves me and that he will wait for me. He always says that he will wait. But I don't know if he truly means it. I don't know what to say either. He's coming over tomorrow and he was talking to my friend.. She told me what he said.. She asked him what we were doing and he said "Stuff ;)"
I just.. don't know where to start. Any advice.
I know if a guy can't wait for me, it's not worth it. Isn't a 6 month relationship too early for sex?
First of all, you asking this question is your first sign of being not ready. Why? Because if you were 100% ready, which you should be to have sex, you would not have asked this question. You also said that you aren't sure if you fully trust your boyfriend & you know that he wants to come over to have sex. He should want to spend time with you, not come over & just have sex. You have to be able to trust your boyfriend 100%. There shouldn't be any doubts in your mind. Why? Because sex is a huge step in a relationship. It is not something to just do & get it over with. It's really a big issue in a relationship. You don't know if you're going to be together forever or even get married. A lot of people don't really care. They live for the moment & were ready to have sex at that moment, but what people don't realize is that there's a lot of negative effects that can come out of it. You guys could have sex & break up days later. He could tell almost everyone such as your friends, his friends, etc. He should probably respect his mother also. That way if he does have sex & she finds out, he could lose her trust & you might be affected by it. She may not trust you as much either because neither of you listened. You also have to realize the consequences. Pregnancy, STDS, etc. are real issues that so many people face, especially teens. Religion is also another issue in having sex before marriage. Make sure you use protection if you do decide to have sex & also realize that nothing but abstinence is 100% effective. Go through these issues with him & talk to him about it. You'll know when you're ready. Don't be afraid to not have sex though. It wouldn't be a bad thing & it would be understandable. If he isn't accepting of that, then he isn't in it for the relationship.
-hope that helped!♥
i started takin birth control almost a month ago, and my period hasnt stopped since. i figured it would stop if i stopped takin the pill, which i did a few days ago, but my period only got worse... is this healthy?
Your period should not be going on for months. What pill are you taking?? I would suggest typing the brand into google & researching your question on their website. Look at their FAQ, facts about the pill, etc. You should ask your doctor & schedule a gyno appointment or just an appt with the doctor that prescribed you the pill.
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Alright, so I would like to have a bigger vocabulary. I would like to be able to speak with big words, and know what they mean. Does anyone have any sites or any ways i could learn bigger words? Please and thanks!
I would suggest using Dictionary.com. Every day they posted a 'word of the day'. If you check it every so often, you'll be able to pick up more words to use. The words they use to feature as 'word of the day' are not as common, so you'll be learning bigger words & plus it'll be easy to remember. You could also just simply flip through a dictionary & pick out 10-20 random words to study daily. Your school should be teaching you vocab also. Another way would be listening to adults or even teens have conversations. If you hear a word you don't know, ask them what it means. Here's a website-
http://syndicate.com/
That site can teach you many different words by using review games & other activities.
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well i have been with my boyfriend 3 months and 3 weeks and we have been talking about sex.he is a virgin and he told me he wanted to lose his virginty to me.I told him i never did anything with a guy.I LIED!i got fingered before by my ex boyfriend.but i never told hi mcuz i would feel ashamed.So soon i might have sex with him and i dont want him to find out im kinda loose and that i lied to him.
i wonder if when he sticks it in will he find out im kinda loose!
HELPPPPPPPPPPPP
No that's not possible. A guy can't just say 'Oh it looks/feels like you've had sex before', plus you haven't. You're still a virgin even if you were involved sexually with an ex bf because a virgin means no intercourse. Plus, if he is a virgin, how will he be able to realize what is considered 'loose' or not?? He wouldn't be able to tell that easily. You feeling guilty is understandable & you should probably tell him about your ex bf. Yes, maybe he'll get mad that you lied, but honesty is really important in a relationship. You should also make sure you are 100% ready to have sex with him. It's a big step & should not be taken jokingly. You should sit down & talk to him about it. Realize the consequences & if you feel ready to or not.
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okay so i was watching the hills last night, and there was a song on that i really liked but i dont know what its called or who singss it.
the part i know is-
ohh why ohh why would i want to be anywhere elsee.
anyone know who it iss?
thankss =]
The song is LDN by Lily Allen. She's a great artist. Here's the lyrics-
http://www.metrolyrics.com/lyrics/2147433100/Lily_Allen/Ldn
You can also find her songs on iTunes.
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hey. i have a plain black v-neck sweater. what can i wear with it to jazz it up in the wintertime? it's full-sleeved, from Gap. it's not low enough to wear a lace cami under it, but what bottoms can i wear with it? & what accessories? thank youu!
You can still try wearing a cami underneath it & pull it down so that you can see it from the bottom. A white or silver one would look cute. For bottoms, I would suggest wearing jeans with silver designs or jewels on them. You can get studdied jeans at stores like Kohls, Urban Behavior, Bebe, American Eagle, JC Penney, Macy's, Hollister, etc. If you can't find a pair you like, maybe try getting a jeweled belt. Anything silver or white would look cute. You could also get cute silver sparkly flats at stores like American Eagle or Payless. For accessories, try finding silver hoops, silver earrings, necklaces, watch, bracelets, etc. Basically anything silver. Depending on your hairstyle, a small white or silver handband would look cute.
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How would I go about asking for getting tested for an STD without my parents knowing?
http://www.rochester.edu/uhs/healthtopics/SexualHealth/std/stdTesting.html
That site shows the types of testing such as Confidential & Anonymous testing.
Every area has either a clinic or a hospital where anyone can test for STDS. Getting tested is extremely important & can help.
http://www.tstd.org/
That is a popular clinic. In the upper right hand corner, you can type in your zip code & see where the closest center is. If there isn't one in your area, you could always go to a local hospital. You can call ahead of time at any clinic & ask if it can be done privately without a guardian's consent. You do not need to give out your name & information when you call, but you will have to once you're there. Its private information so most of the time you can get the test alone & won't need your parents there with you.
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I am 13 years old and I want a myspace, but my mom will not let me have on. Does anyone know about any websites that are like myspace but no age limits?
Myspace can be extremely dangerous, especially for young teens. Since you are only 13, that is probably why your mom won't allow it. I think you should respect your mom & wait to get one. They aren't that great & all websites have an age limit. There are other sites such as Buddy4u where you can make your own profiles & do things like that, but all sites where you post pictures & daily things about yourself have an age limit. Xanga is another option. Your mom would probably not approve of websites relevant to myspace, so it probably would not be a good idea searching for them. They really are dangerous & if your mom did find it, which is very easy to do, she may take away your internet privledges. If you are still wanting a site, I would suggest asking your friends about any of theirs.
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Is it true that girls shouldn't use tampons if they are virgins? I mean I know that they can, but I was just told that if you're a virgin you shouldn't use a tampon.
If so, why?
I have plenty of friends who are virgins and use tampons. They say it's a lot more comfortable and such. They also claim to have never had a problem with them.
I know this is a dumb question, but at least I'm not saying that I've had sex with 3 guys and that I haven't had my period and didn't use protection and want to know if I'm pregnant and/or have an STD.
Anyway, despite the oddness of the question, I was just kind of curious about it.
I've never heard of that, but I looked it up online. There wasn't much of anything on it except on Kotex.com.
http://www.kotexfits.com/faqs/products/
If you scroll down, there's a question dealing with who virgins using tampons. It says "Using a tampon may rupture your hymen". That's the only thing I found on your question. Since it can rupture it, sometimes girls do not want to use tampons for that reason. If there are other reasons, which I'm not quite sure what they would be, I haven't heard of any.
I think your question is just a stupid rumor. There is nothing wrong with using them.
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when you hook up, do you start it with kissing? I've never hooked up before, and i tell people i do, i don't wanna seem prude! So when you hook up, if its not weird or anything for you, whats some personal experiences?
any would be great, like how you started, and what you said when you finished.
thanks for any help!
xx
Ignore the other columnist. "Hooking up" as a term can differ from person to person. Some people say hooking up is just kissing/making out, while others think its more. However you see it, I think it should always start with kissing. Kissing is the first thing & it leads to anything else.
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okay so this guy got a gf and then tried to mess around with me, but i didn't let him. i mean i was sitting on his lap and holding hands, and that was my fault and i feel terrible but then he just got way too touchy, trying to pull down my pants and stuff and whatever. i wouldn't let him. and i do not like this guy at all. i mean he's cute and i could see us having "fun" together but not a relationship and now whenever i talk to him [through texts] he seems like he doesn't want to talk to me. which i don't understand because the other day he was so turned on by me and now he doesn't even want to talk. I feel like he thinks i like him, and it's freaking him out, but i DON'T at all. either that or he just thinks of me as a fling, and nothing more. Should i just leave him alone for a few weeks? eee help please :]
It's good that you didn't let him. That would be unfair to his gf & obviously a bad thing to do if you weren't comfortable with it. He's probably avoiding you because you turned him down. You didn't let him get what he wanted. He could also be ashamed & embarrased of what he did. He might know he went too far & feels guilty that he has a girlfriend. There could be plenty of reasons on why he doesn't seem interested in talking to you. He might think you like him, but he's probably embarrased. Talk to him & ask him how he feels & if he wants to be your friend. You shouldn't let him go far with you if you don't like him that way & if he has a girlfriend. If you confront him about it & he still seems distant, leave him go. He should probably work things out with his gf anyways.
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What is the song that plays in the beginning of the hills? Like the song that they play while they show all the people from the show like the into type thing..?
Which season are you talking about?? The first season of the hills, they play Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield. The season starting this month, on the previews they play U + UR Hand by Pink.
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Last night, my boyfriend and I went to his cousin's house. His cousin was there with this girl [she was wearing a skirt]. My boyfriend & I were sitting on a different couch than his cousin & the girl. Well from where we were sitting you could basically see up her skirt if you looked real hard. I look over at my boyfriend and he's like staring right up her skirt. It really pissed me off what do you think the proper way is to deal with this? Of course he denies it but I know he was.
Guys are guys. Obviously it would upset anyone if their boyfriend looked up another girl's skirt, but you should try not to worry about it too much. She should probably realize she needs to cross her legs or keep them closed. Confront him about it no matter what. Flat out ask him if he looked up her skirt & explain how you want him to be honest. He should open up to you about it & not lie. If he's honest & says "yes sorry I did" then you have nothing to worry about & explain how it bothered you he did that & ask how he would feel if he was checking out another guy. If he keeps denying it, explain that you saw him do it & you don't know why he has to lie about looking up her skirt. He should just be honest. Honesty is very important in a relationship. If you confront him & explain your feelings, there won't be any problems later on with this situation.
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What season am I?
I have dark brown eyes, olive skin, dark brown hair..
Someone told me autumn but I'm not quite sure. Opinions?
What colors would look good on me?
I've never heard of the season thing either. I would go with fall though, since brown is incorporated with fall colors. I have the same features as you, dark hair & an olive skin tone. I would suggest wearing browns, light blues, turquoise, lime green, & lightish pinks. You can try on all different types of colors at different stores & see what fits you best.
-hope that helped!♥