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well i have been with my boyfriend 3 months and 3 weeks and we have been talking about sex.he is a virgin and he told me he wanted to lose his virginty to me.I told him i never did anything with a guy.I LIED!i got fingered before by my ex boyfriend.but i never told hi mcuz i would feel ashamed.So soon i might have sex with him and i dont want him to find out im kinda loose and that i lied to him.
i wonder if when he sticks it in will he find out im kinda loose!
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You would absolutely not be "loose" from being fingered once, so don't worry! Think about it this way - women have babies and they can still have sex again afterwards. The vagina is very stretchy and there is no way that being fingered one, twice or twenty times would make it loose! Have fun and don't do anything if you aren't ready :)
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He's a virgin, he wouldn't be able to tell the difference at all. You should tell him though, then you won't feel as guilty. Honesty is really important in a relationship, wouldn't you want to be told if you were him. Make sure you're really ready to have sex, and if so, then be safe.
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hey sweetie well if he says he is a virgin then how would he notice? just seem to play it off and he probably wont even think about it. and please be protected :)
-Melissa
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No that's not possible. A guy can't just say 'Oh it looks/feels like you've had sex before', plus you haven't. You're still a virgin even if you were involved sexually with an ex bf because a virgin means no intercourse. Plus, if he is a virgin, how will he be able to realize what is considered 'loose' or not?? He wouldn't be able to tell that easily. You feeling guilty is understandable & you should probably tell him about your ex bf. Yes, maybe he'll get mad that you lied, but honesty is really important in a relationship. You should also make sure you are 100% ready to have sex with him. It's a big step & should not be taken jokingly. You should sit down & talk to him about it. Realize the consequences & if you feel ready to or not.
-hope that helped!♥
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