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my boyfriend and lies.
well i have been with my boyfriend 3 months and 3 weeks.& we have been talking about sex for awhile..& he said he is a virgin and says he wants to lose his virginty to me.When we were talking about sex i told him that i have never done anything with a guy but i LIED!i have been fingered before by one of my ex boyfriends.but i was ashamed to tell him i was.cause i would have never thought i would and i would tell people how much i hated fingering and that i would rather to just stick it in!& we might have sex soon and i dont want him to find out im a bit loose & that i lied to him!!!
will he find out if i have been fingered before,when he sticks it in???
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he wont tell. theres no way being fingered once can make you loose. especially if your ex only used 1-2 fingers. its okay, but you should be honest with your boyfriend about what youve done. lieing in a relationship will always come back to bite you in the ass.
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Like Sage said, there's no way he can tell. Being fingered doesn't really loosen you up all that much, if at all. Lots of girls have even had sex and are still tight. If you're going to have sex, I honestly believe you should wait for someone you truly love. As corny as it is, a lot of girls make that mistake, and end up regretting their first time. Knowing girls, you'll do it anyway, just please be safe. If you really care about him and want him to know the truth, I'd say tell him you were fingered and that you were embarrassed about it, I doubt he'll be upset.
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If He is a virgin, then he obviously doesn't have THAT much experience and I highly doubt that he'll know that you're a bit loose to be honest. He would have to perform a lot oral sex to know that and he wouldnt think anything of it if you were a little lose because he trusts you.
I'd tell him you have been fingered, or done something with somebody else. If I was him, I wouldnt want to lose my virginity to a liar. Would you want to lose your virginity to someone who lied to you.
If he cares about you, he wont judge you. Don't be suprised if he gets angry at you for lying, but being honest and falling out makes you stronger together anyway.
I can understand why you lied, explain that to him - you didnt know if he would judge you, and since you trust eachother, you know the value of honesty and feel thats only fair.
He won'tfind out you've been fingered, but I think you do need to tell him the truth if you want your relationship to work.
Hope I hellped, inbox me for anything else
Sage :)
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